Do guys care about girls bodycount?

Question

My friends and I started to talk about how many guys we have slept with... Many of them always had a boyfriend so they all have a lower body count than I do. I am in college and I am single. Then they told me when I do finally get into a relationship that the guy is going to judge me for my body count number... My body count isn't that high but I was wondering. Do guys really care with how many guys a girl has slept with?

Maik567 · Accepted Answer

Depends how high the number is. And it depends from guy to guy too, I know that some more conservative/religious guys will want someone who has only been with a couple or so guys and are completely against one night stands or friends with benefits situations. And then there will be some guys who have the mentality of "don't ask don't tell."

I'd say that for most dudes your bodycount won't matter as long as it's like under 10 in your age range, if it's much more than that then yeah that might be a red flag for many guys.

oddwaffle · Accepted Answer

Hmm... Somewhere between one and too many can be considered as a starting point for slut by a lot of guys. Mean liberal guys are flexible and probably count all the way to 50 while conservative guys can only count to 3 before he set that as 'too many to count'

Kryndiks28 · Accepted Answer

Just shared my body count with a boyfriend (mine 6, his 11). We both were very accepting of each other and it even made as closer, so if you are with a nice guy he would not judge and yes girls care about guy's body counts being too high or too low as well

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

I always go by the font ask don't tell rule. You never can tell if a boyfriend is gonna freak at 1,2 or 1 more than him. There's no upside to discussing it. and I'd rather not think about any of his past 'conquests"

ImNeutralityandEqual · Accepted Answer

I'm virgin, you have to be careful you don't know the type of people that you just want to fuck. They might have stds or be dickheads

AriadneSky · Accepted Answer

just dont mention it. its not part of your life together.

Drooogie4 · Answer

They really do care. And its wrong. They can have a lot, but if you have like 2 you're a "whore". Not all guys are that bad. But I've experienced it a bit

LovelyColleen · Answer

I've only had five boyfriends, but I've hooked up with a couple other guys when I was single. I just don't mention them when my boyfriend asks me how many guys I've been with.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Yes. Girls that have been around don't make good girlfriends.

wankiam · Answer

i like a high number

Chico_brah · Answer

I personally don't really care. As long as you don't have emotional issues. My body count is pretty high. My girlfriend didn't initially like it but we're completely fine.

Broseph11 · Answer

I care. Like personally who wants to buy a car with a 100k miles when you can get a brand new one or one with only 1 or 2k miles.

rcm1ah · Answer

Yes, guys care. Nobody in their right mind would want to take a girl who has slept with several guys serious. Girls like that are only good for sex, not relationships.

NerdInDenial · Answer

Many guys care, but it's not a deal breaker unless it's in the hundreds.

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

Many do but I don't.

bre_sig · Answer

ya they are super competitive and insecure about having a low number

This_is_my_username · Answer

Depends on the dude I guess.

blutwolfe · Answer

Yes it matters a lot, honestly guys are pretty separate has most have a low number but a couple have a very high number

jman46241 · Answer

Probably..

FakeName123 · Answer

Yes, guys do care about a girls bodycount. Mainly because it says a lot about her view on sex and if she is compatible with being loyal and committed or not.