Do guys discuss details of sex with friends?

Like if she was shaved or waxed etc? Her body, and boobs? Please spill with no filters!
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  • In our 20's we sure did, but not explicitly. We would say "she has an incredible rack" or "she's really good in bed", but not describe the type of nipples or positions, etc. We like to talk about sex, but at the same time we don't like to give intimate details to each other.

    This is why guys seem "crude" to girls, because it's our way to communicate with each other on a level that is guy-friendly, and share with each other, but not give any real secrets away. Girls should consider this and appreciate it, but most of them just conclude that we're all horndogs and crude.

  • Sexual details are discussed but if a guy has any class those details are discussed anonymously. If the topic comes up, I'll discuss certain things in general. But I'll never specifically attach anyone's name to the details talked about.

    The one exception being a girl I dated that had a kink about turning my friends on. For instance, she loved knowing that my friends knew her pussy was perfectly bare. It made her wet to know that my friends always had a hard-on every time they were around her. Holy shit, that girl was wildcat. :)

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  • A lot of guys do. But a lot of us never do that.

  • Details, NO!
    Like "yeah, she spent the night with me", and if she was special, "we had breakfast together," but nothing about if she was this or that or what we did!! A Gentleman has boundaries, and a Lady deserves Respect!!

  • There was one time I finally was able to have sex with my crush, which is really rare for me. When we were finished and it was time to leave, I immediately went over to my best friend's house.

    You could still smell her sweet juices on my fingers and lips and he was able to tell and we both commented on how amazing she smelled and I told him everything we did, including how she perfect I fit inside of her and how delicious she tasted.

  • I used to talk with a female friend about likes and dislikes, so then examples from stuff which happened are bound to come up. I didn't really describe her body and such as that usually just doesn't matter. However I learnt that that often does not sit well with the person that example involved, so I stopped.

  • Not with guy friends, but perhaps with an especially close female friend (we're "occasional friends with benefits's")

  • We do not. I have been in places you would expect to hear/see this: fraternities, sports teams, trading floors, male dominated sales floors, etc.

    We talk about their beauty and if it was good (hint: it always is) but we don't get graphic like women do.

    And I know that women do. I have sisters and they weren't shy about discussing their men's benefits and shortcomings.

  • me have filters? when lol. Yes i do 100%, i am open about pretty much anything asked to me, and i like asking questions if she don't want me to she can of course just say i am not comfortable with that, but i generally like it when the girl can :) Wouldn't share my sexual thoughts with a guy friend that would be awkward tho

    • I wouldn't say anything with names attached if i was talking about sexual stuff withsomeone

  • depends how good the sex was with the girl. and how close I am to the friend in question to talk about it in detail.

  • Nope. Sex is a very private and personal thing between my girlfriend and I. The sex we share between us, is only for us. If we want to spice up our sex life, we will talk about it among ourselves only.

    • I never have but then again I am not a 20-30 Something Douchebag.

    • Im in that age range you specified. Anything wrong with what I said? Its just between me and my girlfriend, no one else needs to know details.

  • ya only when the topic comes up, it's more about what she does than what she looks like during sex lol

  • Some do. Some do not. But what I have learned over the years is that women tell their best friend of close gal pals every damn detail about is. The friend (s) will know exactly how big your dick is... and if you are a guy who happens to be her best friend, she’ll tell the guy every effing detail you never considered imagining.

  • good lord yes. to varying degrees mind you. but pretty much every guy talks to his buddies about his sex life in dome form

  • I never do, I think it's bad to go into detail
    I barely ever talk about those things with my friends
    If they talk about it, it's usually about the girls butt. Most of my friends are Dominican though so 😂😭 that's what they like the most 😂

  • Hopefully you are not worried about that sort of thing or want privacy or what you would consider respect because it simply does not matter how much respect or whatever exists between a man and a woman, the guys and their best friends will share every single detail and details about those details and then even details related to them that do not exist and hypotheticalize aswell. If you have one small hair you missed and he saw it while going down on you it will be small talk subject later like yo bro today I was going down on pam and there was just one single hair just on the left lip sticking out there I wonder how it managed to dodge the razor. The friends might know the details of your sex better than you do based on the fact that sure you know what you felt and what happened but they will know what happened how you felt and how he felt really and not just what he says to you

  • Very rarely. Mostly we talk about it in broad strokes, like "yeah I hit that" or whatever, like you acknowledge that the thing happened, but actually discussing in detail WHAT precisely happened or the intricate nuances of her body are way, way rarer. Like, almost never. If her tits are good we'll say "her tits are good," or whatever. That's about it.

  • I honestly think this is a thing of the past haha, most guys these days with all the social attention girls get, are not trying to make anyone else want their girl 😂😂

  • No way. That's private

  • That’s going to be kept strictly between me and her.

  • Yeah, they do that stuff.

  • Yes we do.

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