Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My boyfriend thinks I'm quite the catch and have been with lots of guys before him. We just had sex for the first time, and it was amazing. I was going on about how big he was (truthfully) and how great he made me feel. He asked a couple times if the guys id been with were bigger/better than he was... and I (also truthfully) said of course not... it was incredible. He lit up, and was proud of himself. I could tell he was excited about how satisfied (and sore lol) I was.
The truth is... he took my virginity! I'm not religious.. but i know some guys have strong feelings about that whole virgin thing. Do I have to tell him? Tell him in a couple years? Is it dishonest if I dont actually clear the air and say i had never been penetrated by another guy... ever?
other than this issue... i have been super straight up with him... i adore him. I am hesitant because he felt so geeked that he was my biggest and best
Do I have to tell my boyfriend that he took my virginity?
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9 27I only read the first sentence and had to stop you there.
he will be made up that he's your first
you will remember him forever.
what ever way it turn out
you should easily.
ya should tell him
no i wouldn't
How could he not tell he took your v card?
lol im enthusiastic. Im all kinds of fun to play with. ;) I know my body really well, and I have a really good understanding of the male body. He said I give the best hand jobs he's ever had... even tho I hadn't done one before. He's hooked!
I'm talking about when he broke your hymen there should have been blood which is a dead giveaway you haven't done this before
The hymen can break from other things.
thats totally a myth. If you put in a tampon, have had a vaginal exam, or play rough sports, its torn. I do all of those things, so yeah.. i didn't bleed. Not many girls actually do. Its actually pretty unusual
I've been with three virgins they all bled. Not a myth
That all girls bleed when they lose their virginity? It is not true. I think I only have one friend who bled for real. It is a person by person thing... some do, some dont. It has to do with a lot of different factors, not just virgin sex = blood. Luckily for us!
I would just tell him already I don't think he's going to be mad since now he knows he was the first I'm sure he will actually feel good about that
Tell him, he will be happy.
Just be honest, tell him he was the first to penetrate you, if that's the truth.
But... your vaginal virginity is not different from your 'oral virginity' or your 'anal virginity'. Penetration by penis is penetration by penis.
I'd tell him just because it might become a big thing if you leave it
what do you mean a big thing?
Well if you leave to tell him in a couple years. It'll become a big thing as you lied for so long
There's no point in telling him afterwards.