Do most men prefer virgins, or experienced women and why or why not?

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andreasderjuengere · Accepted Answer

If I WOULD prefer virgins, I could only have her once.

Which is pointless.

''Virginity'' is over-rated - and only for those who have it still.

The quality of a person lies not in his/her/its/whatever state of non-experience, but in the manner he/she/it/whatever handles his/her/its/whatever's personal life.

abc--123 · Accepted Answer

I prefer experience. Always have done as I don't want to be the guy a girl always regrets taking their virginity. But now it's mainly because I'm 34 so it would be hella creepy as most virgins are over 10 years younger than me

Jessica405 · Answer

My guy did not expect me to be a virgin when we met. He was so over the moon when I told him I was.

Lliam · Answer

I prefer experienced.

I never felt a need to acquire lots of notches on my bedpost to satisfy my ego. In the end, women may look different but all have the same physical qualities. With one night stands, there is little difference because all you know about them is physical.

I preferred relationships and infatuation. That being said, I went through several girlfriends in my life because I didn't want to settle down and get married. I didn't start thinking about that until I was in my mid-30s.

I did gain experience by having sex, beginning with my first time when I was 16. I experienced a lot of pleasure, too. Beyond that, I liked those girls and we had great times together as friends and companions. Mutual infatuation is one of the greatest feelings we can experience. I even remained friends with some of them after we went our separate ways.

I learned through experience because porn wasn't available as a tutorial. I'm happy about that. So I don't regret a thing.

By the way, none of my girlfriends were virgins and all were on the pill. They were good people with self-esteem and self-respect, love for life and healthy values. They were sweet and loyal.

After all my girlfriends, one finally taught me what peak sex could be. I met her when she was 30 and I was 36. We wound up living together for almost two years. I actually loved her and she loved me. Nothing could ever surpass what she taught me about sensuality, eroticism and sexuality. I never imagined how transcendent sex could be. I don't know how she learned her skills and I don't care. I will be grateful to that girl for the rest of my life. I still love her and will never forget her.

So here's my thing. If I hadn't tried different girlfriends (not one night stands or hook ups), what are the chances of my having found that one particular lady? What are the chances of finding that special person your first time out?

And that's what I say about people who think they are only supposed to have one sex partner in their life. If they do, they have no idea how good sex can be. They're just settling and telling themselves that they have great sex. That's fine. Whatever. Good for them. But for someone like that to preach about the virtue of only having had one partner is a joke.

I see zero value in virginity and purity. It's not like I would reject a girl who was a virgin. I mean, everyone was a virgin at one time. There's nothing wrong with it at all. But I wouldn't date a girl who was saving herself for marriage. Two people who get married need to be compatible, and sexual compatibility is as important as anything else. So if she wasn't eager to fully engage in a joyous, infatuated, sexually unbridled relationship, I wouldn't waste my time. Plus, saving herself for marriage would mean that she had some sort of religious or social issues, inhibitions or hang ups that would make us incompatible.

I don't care if a woman has had 10 partners and been fucked 5000 times. I actually prefer that kind of girl because at least she was out there trying to find the right partner and giving it her all. She seizes life and doesn't give up. She also doesn't have sexual hang ups. To me, that's what a normal, healthy girl is like.

I would be concerned if she had been with 200 guys and been fucked 500 times, because that would indicate unhealthy emotional issues.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Virgin or experienced? hmm... tough choice... or maybe not!

Being with a Virgin woman, requires "lots of work"... For an Horny experienced guy/man that will be torture, untill she will be "ready". Plus that after the "dream world/Fantasy period" finishes, by then she will be met other men/women/ and she will start to"see" the outside world with different eyes, she will start to hear from left and right how better that guy is, how fuckable that girl is, etc, etc... and from there the "exploring" stage begins, the "curiosity", which in most cases "curiosity kills", such as moods, relationships, etc, etc... and from there to "cheating" aka Exploring is just a little step.. such as "innocent" , essages, pictures, videos, and from there "working late","going out with a friend", etc, etc... so is a NONO for me, don`t want to have a Virgin "grow her up", and then she will "end up with another"... no way.

On the other hand... An Experienced one is a different story... The "knowledge" is there... We both know that NONE OF US are at the beginning of any sexual relationship, we both know how to "utilise" our bodies, we both know that "experience is there" as we have been with other people, so will be no room for "being pudic"... we both know that it could end up with not not being more that just sex, or we could both know that we are destined for one another, so in these terms, the "cards are on the table" and we are "aware of the risks", but with a virgin... we cannot know much, not even 10% of what will happen once she will discover "certain traits" of life...

LazerBean · Answer

Most men simply do not care.

godfatherfan · Answer

I would never want to marry a virgin. Having been married I have a perspective. Having dated after my divorce and breaking up with someone due to sever sexual incompatibility... It is the worst mistake you could make to get married without having sex a bunch.

Berethor · Answer

Most men prefer virgins, who want a ho that been jumping from D to D? I am sure not. :)

Asb_Samson · Answer

Experience always matters. It's good to have experienced female instead of Virgin. As far as you have nice looking, cheerful, Caring, Hot, Lovely and nice talking lady you have virginity not matter. Sorry it's my opinion just not reflection of all boys.🙏

NathanDavis · Answer

don't really care

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Experience is good. But lack of experience can be overcome by a willingness and ability to consider my needs and desires and accept guidance to ensure we have a mutually satisfying experience.

Create21 · Answer

Experienced. If a woman has experience, she knows what she likes and what gets her off, which means both people can enjoy the experience. Yes, exploring is awesome and finding new things is great, but I would prefer to start on the experienced side.

My wife had sex with one person before me, and he couldn’t make her cum. So, when I did - that made me THE MAN. So, there’s that too :-)

Bricealan · Answer

I think I have been more 'fortunate' or just plain dumb-ass lucky to have had the experiences I have been so lucky to have.

Slept with one virgin, and the experience was enlightening (She being 19 and me mid 20's) in that I had no idea, whatsoever of exactly at what point in the vagina the penis would contact a hymen, AND how 'seemingly" brutal and certainly stressful it was to rupture it. Not pleasant for either of us. As most things like that go, she ended up despising me as the relationship did not end in marriage or long term. Eventually I heard around the company (Firestone) that I had RAPED her. From this you see the virgin experience was not a good one for either of us.

Older, (same age as myself) experienced married women also did not end well, either, as most of these affairs were in the same large company (Firestone) Many of them just 'blew up in my face"

So you see, for me at least, I have been happier with 'sexless' relationships with the fewer 'expectations, and entanglements involved.

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Dargil · Answer

For a new relationship, I would prefer a girl who has done some fiddling with an ex, but not high mileage and a long visitor list.

AviatorTom · Answer

I prefer experience, especially when she can teach me a few things.

RavVid · Answer

Pretty simple.

Case of sex is the priority. Experience is better. Actually some girls are very intuitive as to what is going to good for you. Intuitive is best. I'm not sure how much experience contributes to a girl being intuitive.

I'll just sum up that it is impressive when a girl knows more about your cock then you do.

Case a relationship is the priority. Quite obviously if you want to be married you want a wife that is committed to seeing it through till the end. Equally you want to have total confidence if your wife is having a baby it is also your baby. We can get DNA tests sure but the relationship is a fail at that point.

Clearly a girl who has remained a virgin is a better bet for this than a woman who as adopted an all aboard strategy.

Pretty simple and logical.

Tim2nice · Answer

I prefer women who know what sex is like and enjoy it

Fireguy17 · Answer

experienced There are more of them, and they know stuff.

Madlc · Answer

I don’t like used cars they consume more gas..

jahaims · Answer

Most guys prefer casual sex and wouldn't want the pressure of a virgin.

DrewJohnson · Answer

I prefer non virgins. A little more experience is a good thing.

Twalli · Answer

I'm glad my first time was with a virgin. Considering I'm marrying her I guess I could say that my ideal woman is one who has the exact same amount of expierence that I do.

However, if I were to be with another girl. I wouldn't care either way.

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