Do people have these thoughts about lesbians due to porn movies?

I mean being a lesbian doesn’t mean that I don't have a life to live. I have friends, school besides bonding with people and I improve my hobbies. While many people assume that because I am a lesbian All i do is drooling over girls, sexting and flirting with every girl, They even assume that we have sex with random girls out there. I mean come on that’s not how we live. This is real life guys!😹
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  • Just my 5 cents, my experience with lesbian women is:

    - My sister.
    - My sister’s friends and ex-es.
    - People I met during my career that are lesbian.
    - Lesbian couples I met through internet adds re. being a known donor for a childwish.

    Some of these people became good friends, like I can be good friends with male friends.

    I very rarely watch lesbian porn. It does nothing for me. Gay neither but the first one irks me less than the second. I really identify as 100% straight but everyone else must know what they want themselves, live and let live. Love is love.

  • Just because you are a lesbian doesn't mean that you don't live a normal life. Lesbian is your sexual preference, not your job preference. I have gay and lesbian friends, I am straight. We all hang out together, not as much as before the pandemic. Your sexual preference doesn't change who you are. You are still a human being.

    • Exactly

    • See, some of us guys get it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Im a lez n I don't think so. Porn most often isn't even close to what real lesbian sex is lol... I remember seeing a lesbian porn n it was of two women rubbing their asses together 🙄. Since when is this a thing? Lol or the women who have nails that are 4 inches long and they are fingering another woman..

    • Yup, they make some shit up and film it and then people come to us assuming that’s what we do. lol

    • Most western porn is scripted and directed by guys who do not have a clue about how lesbians have sex. I have seen some of it and it just makes me laugh and go "WTF"? 🙄 Guys won't even watch the porn that is scripted and directed by women. They consider it too slow and not enough visual stimulation. In other words, the women in the porn are not being sexually degraded and treated as whores. 🤦‍♂️

  • Ugh, bisexual girl here and the amount of men that have told me "Thats hot" or "Can we have a threesome" pisses me off. Women are sexualised by men for everything, even when their sexuality is nothing to do with men.

    • This exactly what I mean

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  • It is a unrealistic stereotype that most guys have. It is surprisingly not as bad here in Japan. I really notice it when I am in California and hanging out with a girl. I am bisexual, but I am more into girls because most guys are socially and sexually retarded. 🤣 I think that guys get these ideas about us mostly from porn movies. I am a highly sexual person, but I don't have sex with random people and I have a life beyond that.

    • Oh yeah you get what I am talking about 😂 mostly think that since we are lesbians we only live for sex. lol Even when I meet new people all they keep asking about is sex, I find it funny how they think 😂

    • As. both you of become a little older you will see that a big majority of the gay population is promiscuous.. I hate to admit it but its true. Just wait to you get at the age where going to your local gay and lesbian bars and clubs are a thing for your social circle... I live in Chicago and we have a huge gay community here. (Before Covid) there are like 3 huge week long celebrations for gay people and at those festivals you realize that damn, if you didn't sleep with that girl then you made out with her or your current girlfriend or ex did lol. Its almost incestuous how one lesbian has some type of non friendship connection to the next one lol. But gay men are def worse than us when is comes to promiscuous ways lol. Now that im 35 im in wife mode.. I have a wife and a daughter... and a career... so im not out partying.. its more of a dinner party with friends and game night and play dates for me type of life. As I said, you gals are 18 so you haven't just yet reached that threshold of when you have your whore moments but trust me-both you girls are pretty so you'll have the time when you will be definitely doing "the most" lol. Ofcourse there's more to life than fucking but its also fun to experience life and have a blast doing it !

    • @Imcmullan I actually reached that threshold a long time ago. LoL We start earlier here than in the west. I went through an experimenting phase and I used to try everything. I am more careful now. I have a group of close friends that I have fun with. I know they are clean and disease-free, so it is safety thing. It has been awhile since I had sex with a random stranger, though. We have "Love Hotels" here on almost every block in Tokyo. It is easy to hook up with someone and go to the love hotel for a few hours. I just want to know the person better before I do that, now.

  • That is just dumb lol.

  • Pretty much yeah

  • yes i am aware

  • Lesbians have the least sex of any couple type.

  • Most lesbians I know have sex with hundreds of women. But it’s allowed in that community because it’s more about pleasure than being loyal.

    • To some people

    • I’m older so the lesbians I know are older than you. I watch there snaps and they have a different girl every year. I guess because there’s no social standards to get married and have kids. They can just have sex for sport. A lot times they just come on snap to brag about how easy they can make a girl cum compared to guys.

  • No, most lesbian porn I've watched is just them eating each other out and 69

    • Do you think real lesbians doesn’t have a life besides sex?

    • Most actually do have a life

  • Mostly likely and hormones 😜

  • You like girls, I like girls, I don't see why this should be difficult. I have a life, you have a life.

  • No we don't just think that, we think that because it's hot too but not what we think lesbians are like all the time

  • its a guys fantasy... no one thinks you are any different..., bad sex? yeah, ... bad relationships? yeah, ... Frustrations at work, yeah

  • Porn ruins it for gays

  • I think some people have distorted versions of reality. Who you love and have sex with should dictate your everyday life

  • A lot of people fetishize them because of it

  • Not really I may be old but I'm not a dinosaur 🤣🤣🤣

  • just your perception look how many lesbians out there are top athletes etc

  • Are you a lesbian

  • Oh wait porn isn't an accurate representation of reality? what? lol

    • Sadly some people are too addicted to it and they think that lesbians and bisexual girls are only interested in sex in their lives and nothing else matters. lol

    • That is the trouble with it in my opinion especially for young men.

    • True!

  • no.
    lesbianism happening from ancient time.
    though its true, people learning new things for pleasure themselves from porn.

  • What? Are you dealing with low IQ people?

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