A lot of guys will shut down the conversation as soon as it's suggested. There's a whole stigma about any sort anal play with the fear that it will emasculate them or somehow make them gay. There are also a lot of guys who just think it's gross (although they don't always feel that way about anal play on women).
The anus on its own is full of nerve endings, so just lightly massaging it can be incredibly pleasurable. The prostate, which basically sits between the rectum and the bladder (so you can feel it about 2 inches in, moving your finger toward the front of the body), produces some of the fluids that go into semen. When someone or something applies pressure to the prostate, especially while the body is in a sexual mode, it sort of feels like a constant buildup to orgasm without an orgasm actually happening. When the orgasm does happen, it's an entirely different experience. It's basically like the orgasm is spreading for deep inside all the way to the penis. It's intense.
So, basically, yes, it's happened, and I definitely enjoyed it. That being said, it's not for everyone. A huge part of sexual arousal is mental, and if a guy isn't into something, he isn't going to enjoy it. In fact, if he still goes through with it, he's likely to tense up, and it will just end up hurting instead.
You're the only one who knows how sexually open your boyfriend is. If you guys have frank sexual discussions or talk about things you want to try, then it probably won't be that shocking. If you've never really talked about trying anything new, and this is the first thing you bring up, he might be a little taken aback. If you want to do bring it up in a slightly safer way, you might Google "sexual checklist for couples." You'll find sites like Mojo or We Should Try It that has each person check off things they want, things they're open to, and things they don't want, and then shows them where they match up. That way, if you check something off that you want, and your boyfriend checks off that he doesn't want it, he won't know that you've checked it off, but you'll know that he's not into it.
Thank you, this was very helpful
Forgot to mention, but you can also put pressure on the prostate from outside, by pressing down (with a light, but firm pressure) on the perineum just above the anus. It's not as intense, but it can still feel really good.
Like many things, it depends on the individual. Personally, I love it when my wife does that while giving me a blow job. But just to the second knuckle with a come here motion, not a straight in and out. That is actually the way to reach the male "G-spot" asked should be treated accordingly.
They're going to have to when getting a prostate exam. ;D
Some do, some don't. For some, as long as it's a woman, they don't mind. But he might want something bigger as well. Men can get a LOT of sexual pleasure from their behind (they have a frigging prostate) but I think the "stigma" of being labeled as gay from enjoying anal play makes many shy away from it.
They should embrace it.
True. A lady Dr. gave me a prostate exam. I was dreading it but it actually felt good.
This was very helpful thank you! 😊
Something bigger please! 🙊😳
mine doesn't like being penetrated, though i've heard (from past and current company) that stimulating the nerve endings on the outside can be quite pleasurable.
(i don't care for any butt stuff, on me or him... but i enjoy the reaction it elicits from him, so i'll do it once in a while)
I never did it. I've heard from female friends that some boys like it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I haven't graduated to a finger yet. My wife does use a prostate stimulator on me form time to time. I enjoy that very much. She enjoys both the intimacy & bringing my pleasure.
How have you been? :)
no thank you
I had one 40s woman fingered my butthole first time when we bathed together. Thats awkward when she was doing it with that COME FUCK ME face
I heared from some girls that they did it with their boyfriend and they really enjoyed it. But Im too scared to try it lol. I probably would get so nervous that I kick her or something..
I was certainly nervous. Maybe like a virginal girl on her first night.
No, I don't like anything in my ass.
Ohh hell naaaawwww
I don't know what it feels like but I don't think it's wrong for guys to want it
The prostate is there so there's no other way... I'll make sure I get a sexy doc when that exam day comes
Like everything sexual, skillful is better. Skilled anal fingering can turn a HJ or BJ into a transcendent experience. No device can do what a finger can.
Comfort level isn't there at the moment for me to receive anal play
It's great if she knows what she's doing.
From a females finger it is hardly noticeable but from a man would make a big difference. Anyway what you are getting at is the prostate. It makes a more intense orgasm and is known as milking. Anything else is a colonoscopy.
Myself I would only allow a female during sexual intercourse with a man would make me uncomfortable, non horney, and raped.
Yes I have had a finger up my butt. Didn't feel bad, but didn't really do anything for me. Neither of us knew what we were doing. She said she felt empowered and in control, so I'd be up for trying again if she wanted to.
No thanks.
I haven't tried a finger in my butt so I wouldn't know..
My ex did jerk me off and had a finger on the outside of my anus and that sure was something new.
Lmao how did you feel about the butthole graze?
More pleasurable than I'd thought. It was random too
Not all straight men do, but some do in the form of prostate milking, which is essentially massaging the prostate until orgasm occurs.
It depends on the size of her nails.
Yeah sure like I would enjoy being stabbed.
I would feel like I was raped, I am being serious. Those fucked up things already make me feel psychotic when I only think about them (like shitting or peeing on someone, I be like "dood I gonna turn a massmurder cause its ok its all cool"
If she's up for it it's fine by me :)
lmao... not me...
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