Do you believe it is normal for women to have fantasies about being raped by men they think are handsome and attractive?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

There's another app then I go to and I chat and it's has been people with fantasies and desires and people that want to role play and you would not believe the amount of women that want to role play a rape scenario the first few times that I was asked to do this I'm not built that way I'm I can't think that way so it's hard for me to do and then one girl explained to me a little bit better but it was more or less about so I tried it that way and I was told it was fantastic but there are so many women out there that want to experience the thought of it not the actual Act of it but the thought of it I don't know if it's just the thrill of it being taken from them or actually what it is I can tell you this it's kinky and I can also tell you this none of the girls that I've ever played with would ever want this to happen to them or anybody else it's just a kink but it's a turn-on think it's exciting k i n k in so many different ways and it's funny sometimes when I'm at that site and a girl wants to walk lay out how hard it is for her to say that's the fantasy that's the role play she wants to do because she's kind of embarrassed about it and she doesn't want to be judged and which I understand that 100% so let me ask you have you had fantasy or k i n k and have you ever role played it

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

From experience, it’s not the looks, they have nothing what so ever to do with most fantasies.

Also as pointed out by @snakeboop it’s not as such a rape fantasy.

it’s about the not having control to stop it, there is given consent for this.

I have done this under Consensual Non-Consent, which gives a really wide timeframe to carry it out.

You actually do not even have to have sex, it’s often the simple loss of control.

The lack of power, control and an unknown person or persons…

is it normal, possibly although again from experience there are often under lying issues behind it,

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

The fantasy isn't rape. The fantasy is the "consensual lack of power". because even in the fantasy, in the end, you're not ultimately not giving consent. Many people confuse it and it annoys me its called a rape fantasy when its not.

Bethany98 · Accepted Answer

My guess is it's the thought of losing power rather then actual rape that turns so many on

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have had a few women describe "rape" fantasies, and it starts with some strange guy in her house in the middle of the night, and he is overwhelming, powerful, charming, and she just can't say "no" so he does whatever he wants and when he's had enough, he leaves. There is never any violence or weapon involved and the fantasy is actually not rape but just a desire to be totally dominated by a handsome man.

Is that your fantasy?

TheorionMage · Answer

REMEMBER! Even subconsciously, such 'fantasies' are "scripted" ... men do,
so I expect women do too; IF following their own mental scripts.

'Freeform' places them as haplesss Victims to merely BE "used"
w/o regard for HOW the female feels, pain or physical trauma!
NOT 'sexy' ~

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

You're a woman.. You'd have a better idea of answering that than me.

AndyOh · Answer

It is a common fantasy, from what I read and hear. I have heard that fantasy since I was a kid. I think it goes with the helpless woman being taken by a strong good looking handsome man, sexually, so their body is used by him.

Shiver · Answer

From what I can gather, it's not that uncommon. More people have a rape kink than you might think too. It's a whole RP thing.

Jlegacy · Answer

I don't think it is normal. They way this life is you can be anything sexually as long as you are not born again through Jesus.
My best porn was shemale porn. I loved the guys with boobs either being fucked by a guy or fucking a lady. I was internally gay☺️ but when Christ woke in me, those things died.

If you let yourself go, you would fantasize about things you never thought you could. Imagine someone fantasy is of a step father or brother or aunt or dog eating her.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I'm not a woman, so I can only go by what women have told me, but it sure seems like a lot of women like the idea.

Kabluie · Answer

It can be. There is such a thing as consensual non-consent sex. Where you consent to being "raped" as role play. The way out is generally a safe word agreed upon.

Nik1hil · Answer

Oh!.. Yeah very common...
Getting raped by celebrity crush.. Like..
Ronaldo,
Messi,
IAN somerhalder,
Robert Downey junior..

It's very common for submissive women to want their celebrity crushes to have their way with her...

Ghostlock · Answer

It's normal. It's just a fantasy. Fantasies are just that... fantasies. It can play out in any way you want them to. It is a safe place within your mind where you can play out scenarios as desired with complete safety. The reality obviously would not play anything like you fantasize though and as long as you know this, it's normal.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

It's near-universal.

MysticDevice · Answer

I hear about this fantasy almost every day on here. I suppose it's normal by this point considering how common it is.

Schizoaffective · Answer

It's normal

Drewman2 · Answer

i think everyone has a natural desire to want either be manhandled and or to manhandle. unfortunatly many people in todays world don't seek consensus before doing so. which is a huge turn off to many people.

TheFlak38 · Answer

of course it's normal. women love being abused.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Yeah. Seems pretty normal these days.

Made4sex · Answer

It is becoming quite normal yeah. But I am not sure that it is particularly healthy. Haha! Although I heard someone explaining how they started to explore t as a reality. And it can be disturbingly hot. Lol! Like I can see why some girls would be in to it.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes it would be weird if she didn't in my opinion

Hanrej · Answer

Yes, I've heard plenty of women speak of such.

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

I think that the Idea of being raped is an appropriate fantasy with women to produce stronger orgasms Just my humble Opinion

EnglishEuropean · Answer

It's not exactly a secret.

anylolone · Answer

It's not a rape fantasy, it's a "no consequence" fantasy.
It's "I want to fuck a hot man, but I'm terrified of the idea of him knowing I find him hot."
"I'm terrified of the idea that I don't deserve hot men, that I actually might have to put an effort, because I'm wholly worthless and have the total intention of continuing to be worthless."

There's no such thing as wanting to be raped.

Adam_West · Answer

yes it's normal. I sometimes fantasize of being raped by beautiful women.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

it's not rape hun

girls don't dream about being raped

they dream about rough sex. it's often affiliated with rape, rough sex. they're dreaming about rough sex because rough sex, tends to get a woman off easier

but no, girls wouldn't dream about rape. otherwise, we wouldn't see actual rape cases, in court

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes that's perfectly normal

Seppel · Answer

Yes that's normal

Slim57 · Answer

Nope mentally ill

Starman5 · Answer

a different fantasy. I don't think it's normal

MasterKS · Answer

yes its so normal.

Open2It · Answer

I dont think it's abnormal...

Lovingcuckold · Answer

yes, it's absolutely normal, and when she can share those feelings with you, you've got a honest outgoing woman and consider yourself blessed 🙂

Anonymous · Answer

Normal and from what I've read a very common fantasy. I recommend keeping it that way.

Anonymous · Answer

Perfect normal

Anonymous · Answer

Rape Fantasies seem to be more of a common thing than I thought as strange as that sounds. Still, how is it actually rape if you want some guy to sexually dominate you? It's not actually rape. A guy is actually just taking a wild chance of it being rape.

Anonymous · Answer

You aren’t thinking about rape because rape is with any man whether handsome or ugly and Vice versa with women.
Not to matter, but you’re in shock, scared terrified and feeling worse because halfway through you get turned on and end up cumming.

Anonymous · Answer

I think that fantasy is mostly about not having to take responsibility for their actions/desires. So pretty common.

Anonymous · Answer

Over 70% of women have rape fantasies and generally those fantasies are controlled in their brain to include the man being someone they find attractive and damn feeling somewhat safe even though being violated

Anonymous · Answer

Its normal

Anonymous · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

I think plenty of people have 'breeding fantasies' about attractive people of the opposite gender

Anonymous · Answer

It's normal. It's just a manifestation of women's desire to be sexually dominated by a man.

Anonymous · Answer

No. They have fantasies about sterotypical incels doing that do them.

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