Do you believe it is normal for women to have fantasies about being raped by men they think are handsome and attractive?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

There's another app then I go to and I chat and it's has been people with fantasies and desires and people that want to role play and you would not believe the amount of women that want to role play a rape scenario the first few times that I was asked to do this I'm not built that way I'm I can't think that way so it's hard for me to do and then one girl explained to me a little bit better but it was more or less about so I tried it that way and I was told it was fantastic but there are so many women out there that want to experience the thought of it not the actual Act of it but the thought of it I don't know if it's just the thrill of it being taken from them or actually what it is I can tell you this it's kinky and I can also tell you this none of the girls that I've ever played with would ever want this to happen to them or anybody else it's just a kink but it's a turn-on think it's exciting k i n k in so many different ways and it's funny sometimes when I'm at that site and a girl wants to walk lay out how hard it is for her to say that's the fantasy that's the role play she wants to do because she's kind of embarrassed about it and she doesn't want to be judged and which I understand that 100% so let me ask you have you had fantasy or k i n k and have you ever role played it

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

From experience, it’s not the looks, they have nothing what so ever to do with most fantasies.

Also as pointed out by @snakeboop it’s not as such a rape fantasy.

it’s about the not having control to stop it, there is given consent for this.

I have done this under Consensual Non-Consent, which gives a really wide timeframe to carry it out.

You actually do not even have to have sex, it’s often the simple loss of control.

The lack of power, control and an unknown person or persons…

is it normal, possibly although again from experience there are often under lying issues behind it,

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

The fantasy isn't rape. The fantasy is the "consensual lack of power". because even in the fantasy, in the end, you're not ultimately not giving consent. Many people confuse it and it annoys me its called a rape fantasy when its not.

Bethany98 · Accepted Answer

My guess is it's the thought of losing power rather then actual rape that turns so many on

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have had a few women describe "rape" fantasies, and it starts with some strange guy in her house in the middle of the night, and he is overwhelming, powerful, charming, and she just can't say "no" so he does whatever he wants and when he's had enough, he leaves. There is never any violence or weapon involved and the fantasy is actually not rape but just a desire to be totally dominated by a handsome man.

Is that your fantasy?

TheorionMage · Answer

REMEMBER! Even subconsciously, such 'fantasies' are "scripted" ... men do,
so I expect women do too; IF following their own mental scripts.

'Freeform' places them as haplesss Victims to merely BE "used"
w/o regard for HOW the female feels, pain or physical trauma!
NOT 'sexy' ~

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

You're a woman.. You'd have a better idea of answering that than me.

AndyOh · Answer

It is a common fantasy, from what I read and hear. I have heard that fantasy since I was a kid. I think it goes with the helpless woman being taken by a strong good looking handsome man, sexually, so their body is used by him.

Shiver · Answer

From what I can gather, it's not that uncommon. More people have a rape kink than you might think too. It's a whole RP thing.

Jlegacy · Answer

I don't think it is normal. They way this life is you can be anything sexually as long as you are not born again through Jesus.
My best porn was shemale porn. I loved the guys with boobs either being fucked by a guy or fucking a lady. I was internally gay☺️ but when Christ woke in me, those things died.

If you let yourself go, you would fantasize about things you never thought you could. Imagine someone fantasy is of a step father or brother or aunt or dog eating her.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I'm not a woman, so I can only go by what women have told me, but it sure seems like a lot of women like the idea.

Nik1hil · Answer

Oh!.. Yeah very common...
Getting raped by celebrity crush.. Like..
Ronaldo,
Messi,
IAN somerhalder,
Robert Downey junior..

It's very common for submissive women to want their celebrity crushes to have their way with her...

Kabluie · Answer

It can be. There is such a thing as consensual non-consent sex. Where you consent to being "raped" as role play. The way out is generally a safe word agreed upon.

Ghostlock · Answer

It's normal. It's just a fantasy. Fantasies are just that... fantasies. It can play out in any way you want them to. It is a safe place within your mind where you can play out scenarios as desired with complete safety. The reality obviously would not play anything like you fantasize though and as long as you know this, it's normal.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

It's near-universal.

MysticDevice · Answer

I hear about this fantasy almost every day on here. I suppose it's normal by this point considering how common it is.

Schizoaffective · Answer

It's normal

Drewman2 · Answer

i think everyone has a natural desire to want either be manhandled and or to manhandle. unfortunatly many people in todays world don't seek consensus before doing so. which is a huge turn off to many people.

TheFlak38 · Answer

of course it's normal. women love being abused.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Yeah. Seems pretty normal these days.

Made4sex · Answer

It is becoming quite normal yeah. But I am not sure that it is particularly healthy. Haha! Although I heard someone explaining how they started to explore t as a reality. And it can be disturbingly hot. Lol! Like I can see why some girls would be in to it.