Do you care about the girl‘s orgasm when you hook up?

[Anonymous]

[AD240pCharlie]

I don't like hookups, but I've never cared about her pleasure when I've had them. We're never gonna meet again, I'm just doing this for my own sake!
If I'm in a relationship, or a regular fuck buddy or friends with benefits situation, then I do care about her sexual pleasure as well.

[crazy8000]

Depends on her.
To many doesn't get it due to own created blocks. some other's are selfish. there are they that are lazy. even expect their partner to take responsibility for their satisfaction instead of taking some for themselves at the same time. lack of team play.

[Andchadders]

I can't say I've ever "hooked up", but from the experience of the one physical relationship I've been in, her pleasure is all I care about at that time. I don't ask for anything other than how I can make it feel better for her. I try to focus on understanding her body and how it reacts to my touch as I move in different ways, etc, until I have a solid idea of how to get her climaxing as efficiently as I can, regardless of if that involves my own climax or not.

[Red_Arrow]

Absolutely! I like to give her several orgasms.

[WadeDanielSmith]

I don't do hookups. It's irresponsible and childish.

Anyway, I care more about a woman's orgasm than I do my own orgasm.

[normalice]

I care, but I also try to get a sense of whether or not she actually wants one..

[Asker]

Why would you not want an orgasm lmao?

[normalice]

Sometimes girls are too nervous to reach an orgasm, but still want the connection of sex and the satisfaction of having enough appeal that a guy did his thing. Generally, such girls easily each orgasm the second time with them, though..

[jsincal]

My simple rule, first you then me.

[ecfresh]

I don’t hook up. But when I make love yes I want her to orgasm as often as she wants to. by the way that means sometimes when she doesn’t want to it’s ok also

[Asker]

There are women who don’t want to orgasm when they want to have sex?

[ecfresh]

Yes. Some days women for various reasons don’t want to orgasm during sex. They have given feedback that many will fake it for the guys ego or they will feel pressured by him if they can’t have one. Some days they just prefer the intimacy, a lovers touch, and feeling reassured that he’s in love with her. Now on other days she might be super turned on and have 3 orgasms within the first 10 min of foreplay. Making love is a unique experience each time.

[Asker]

I agree with that but if you are turned on, have sex and don’t orgasm you’re left unsatisfied no matter how much intimacy and love you felt during sex.

[ecfresh]

Exactly. Keep in mind our lives can get complicated and busy and how much mental focus is required for a woman to orgasm. What you just said is huge: if she is already turned on the of course she likely wants an orgasm and mentally she is preparing for it. But like I said sometimes life gets in the way and sometimes a couple can start foreplay and she just doesn’t get turned on. So yes, in your example 99 times out of 100 when she is already turned on she will desire an to have an orgasm.

[Asker]

You don’t have sex if you aren’t turned on. If you need intimacy just cuddle or kiss.

[ecfresh]

In a committed relationship and in a marriage people schedule regular sex. Yes that can often just mean cuddling but keep in mind that maybe the guy feels turned on and she doesn’t. Many wives will have sex because they know their husbands will cum and understand how good it feels to the guy. Remember it’s not the majority of the times that she isn’t wanting to orgasm, we are talking about the exceptions. If a couple has sex 12 days out of the month maybe 1-2 of those days she will not want to orgasm. But the other 10 she will.

[Fulbau]

since fetishes and such things exist in the world we live in, yes, there ARE some women (and men) who prefer to not orgasm. It may sound strange to some people but this does exist.

[cicchis0]

Yes, it's the main focus. The guy's orgasm is almost guaranteed if he can get the girl to orgasm.

[PeterAyre]

Yeah. I think most guys do. Apart from in films, it may be a running joke in films.

[PeterAyre]

And quite a lot of porn, I don't know why?

[ItsTheNephilim]

Some do, some don't.

[Asker]

That answer was kinda predictable. Do you?

[ItsTheNephilim]

I don't hook up. If I did, I would care about that.

[Dargil]

I don't hook up, but if I did, I would.

[Deformate]

can't say I've been in that position to know

[Junior42]

Hell yeah course I want hasn't had a good time too if anything I make them come first before I do

[Junior42]

Hell yeah course I want her to have a good time too! if anything I make them come first before I do!

[Junior42]

The girl usually cums before I do I don't know why

[MannMitAntworten]

Of course I care. It is about ‘both’ of us and not just me getting my rocks off.

[genericname85]

absolutely. that's my prime goal actually, cause that's what makes me feel good about myself xD

[KingPapo]

Yeah moaning is a major turn on for me.. so it's kinda essential for me

[FilfeeAnimal]

no, i jus care about how she looks and my own orgasm,

[FilfeeAnimal]

and the girl probably has the same priorities in her head also, she is jus doing sex for her orgasm and not caring about mine... we dont have to care about each others... we will jus get each other off anyway so fuck how the other feels

[Walrus_au]

absolutely

[banana75]

from my experience when a girl is out there to 'hookup' she's already Horny AF and she orgasm with the slightest touch. and for the most part she is the one that takes control.. kissing, blowjob, intercourse (cowgirl) etc...

[youmayaskmeanything]

I always care about that

[skittles2017]

Definitely. Usually I do her first and then me.
It goes soft after men cum.