Do you care your potential husband/wife sexual past?

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  • No, I never have.
    We all have a past.
    If you don't think you will like the answer, then don't ask the question.
    It's pretty simple.

  • everyone has a past, unless you are 10 years old... so, No I do not care... once you have sex you are Not a Virgin, who cares? idiots care

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  • No. That they are faithful with me now is all I care about.

  • The only thing I would be concerned about is if there is something in her past that can hurt her in the future or has a lasting psychological problem for her. Other than that, only now and the future matter.

  • I'd prefer they didn't have one, but it's not a deal breaker.

  • Yes I might ask nosy questions, but that’s all it is. I do not care about their past, and neither should they care about mine.

  • It's probably the same as you feel about your potential husband's.
    You expect that they have some sexual experience, but you expect them to leave it in the past and focus on you now.

  • Yes, it matters to me.

  • When I thought you could find perfect, no. Now that I have seen perfect, yes. I love that my forever baby, is a virgin. So virginity matters to me now.

  • No, not at all.

  • Not really as long as they don't have STDs.

  • I didn't care about my wife's sexual past when we met, and I don't care about her sexual escapades now

  • Not within reason

  • I've eventually asked just about everyone I was with about their past.
    When she felt like I wasn't judging her she'd start to tell me a few things and then when she realized the more she told me the more excited I got she'd tell me everything, even brag about it.
    I love hearing stories about a woman who is confident in her sexuality, no shame.
    Just spread your legs, let me devour you as you tell me all the crazy fun adventures you've had.
    That worked for me for years.
    Including my adventurous wife.

    Don't be ashamed about your past.
    If you regret anything, just own it and don't do it again but don't walk around with your head down. As long as it was nothing illegal.
    Head up and move forward.
    Only share what you're comfortable with.
    It's still your past and it's your private information.
    Good luck.

    • Of course i think like you. Thank you for your answer

    • More than welcome. I hope you find a guy that appreciates all of you, past present and future. And if you ever want to brag... I'm a willing audience...😉

  • Depends

  • Yes, I would. I don't date used and damaged.

  • Yes, I want her to have one.

  • Their past is non of my business. and vice versa

  • I think we are attracted to those similar to us. That includes sexual history. Not bad either way, but it’s just a mind game.

  • Everyone has past who cares

    • Yeah of course i think who cares has some self confidence issues

  • I do not care if the girl I am with has a past, I have a past so why shouldn't she? Okay if she doesn't and okay if she does...

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