Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, do you consider it rude/offensive if your ex girlfriend asks you to delete her nudes within 1 month of a mutual breakup?
sonnyclear Xper 2
And would you actually delete?
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(37)It is very genuine demand. Guy should delete her nude pics.
No, not at all because Its possible I would have already deleted them.
Hm. I’m liking these responses so far. How should one go about asking him to delete them?
I suggest you just be honest with him and how it would make you feel good if he deleted them. Was it a lot of pics?
The ending made me laugh. Plenty of photos and videos -_- And I suppose you’re right with the being honest and straight forward. Thank you for your comment!
Your welcome, glad to be of help. Sounds like you really got into it, lol.
And now dealing with the consequences. I wouldn’t recommend
Well I hope things turn out ok and I haven't seen clips of you on porn sites, lol.
I mean, you don’t know what I look like. But yes, let’s hope they don’t end up there!
True that, I was just trying to inject a bit of humor. :) Hopefully he deletes everything and just be careful in the future, eh?
Gotcha :’) And I most definitely will. All funkiness will be reserved for the bedroom
Nice. I like that.!
If you send someone nudes expect them to have them forever.
So it is actually contrary to popular belief his right to hold those photos if you consented to them being taken. Because it's his phone it counts as his property copyright wise and intellectually property wise.
You can ask but he is not lawfully obliged to remove photos same as if you said remove your last selfie it's his work his right.
The only thing he cannot do is use these for revenge porn if he does it's a police issue.
I would have already deleted it.
I've probably already done it by then tbh
I find it normal. I would probably do so if she asked. If she didn't ask I would do it no later than getting nudes from my new girlfriend
Hell no I would not delete the photos.
Nah, if we're no longer together, then there's no point in keeping them anymore.
No, I wouldn't consider it offensive. But I would also question the girl's maturity to send nudes to a person without being 100% sure that you're both ready to marry and trust each other with your privates.
Hm. Sometimes, or in my case at least, it isn’t about how much trust you have in the person. Rather, it’s my own paranoia telling me that they will somehow, someday, end up somewhere. Doesn’t necessarily have to be him that leaks them. Whereas if I know that he’s deleted them, my mind can be at ease. Though, I suppose a mentally mature person would know better than to share such explicit content whilst knowing they’re paranoid about these things.