Do you consider your partner watching porn" cheating"?

[Anonymous]

I think that my boyfriend watches porn , it doesn't really bother me because I watch it too , but the thing that bothers me is when we do phone sex , I wonder sometimes if at that moment he fantasizes about me or watches porn , I'd be so upset if he just reacts to porn , it's kinda of deceiving , what do you think?
What do you think about guys when you do phone sex with your partner?
I mean I think he fantasizes about me , because he can just not call me and watch a porn video instead , right?

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, it's not cheating.

My ex and I used to send eachother porn all the time when we were dating, it was a good way to find out eachother's kinks, I honestly wouldn't mind her looking at porn, even while sitting right next to me (so long as I can interrupt her with sex/fondling. etc. if I get horny watching her fap).

Plus I'd rather she watch porn than ask for nudes to be sent through the phone, I don't trust phones that much.

Also she mostly watched hentai with unrealistic stuff in it, things like elven futas with glowing eyes, 4 foot dicks, and massive boobs that act like perpetual milk fountains (she was bi), basically stuff no real human would be like, "thats me" about, so there wasn't any sense of jealously on my end or thinking she was gonna go find another guy to bang, and the few times she watched realistic porn, the most it effected our relationship is her asking "can we do this?"

[Red_Arrow]

Everybody is different. No one here knows what your guy does. And I would say it really does not matter. Obviously he is interested in you and calls you to talk with you and to have phone sex with you. You enjoy watching porn and he probably does, too. Since you enjoy porn, and you enjoy phone sex with him, it should not offend you if he sometimes combines the two. Whatever he is doing, it does not take away anything from the enjoyment you have with the relationship with him.

[Neko911]

No. Because it's not cheating. Watching and imagining things is fine. Of that's the case women reading romance novels or watching a movie to see a hot actor is cheating

[loves2learn]

Watching porn isn’t cheating.
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I doubt he’s watching porn during phone sex with you. That would defeat the purpose.
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Just be honest with each other.

[NathanDavis]

I do not, nor fantasies about others.

But there has to be a "reasonable and healthy" approach to both.

[Ripper_E]

No. But I understand if it bothers someone.

[Caliguy88]

Lol. My partners want me to because my sex drive is so high. They would rather me take care of it half the time by myself

[COMMODOREII]

Hell no!!

[Twalli]

I don't think he uses porn during phone sex

[JamieLoves]

No... it’s watch a movie or video

[Joshua0213]

Nah but mainly cause I need her to cause I can't handle as much sex as she wants. A lot of the time I'm laying by her though teasing her and she loves it

[Lalaith777]

Not. At. All.

[Anonymous]

No but not respecting