I think pretty much everyone, male or female, maybe even LGBTQ (?) have some 'fantasy' about what their 'date', 'new interest', whatever you want to call them, maybe how certain parts look, and if the other likes certain things, like you do?
I try not to fantasize, too much, so it doesn't bias me to what they really look like, what they enjoy, and how they enjoy sex.
Perhaps some, imagine too much, and are disappointed, when the other isn't like they imagine!
Some women I have found very physically attractive, have been VERY inexperienced sexually, and very unsure when we get to that point. If I assumed that she was really sexual, I would have been disappointed, and maybe not wanted to pursue anything. But just liking them, for who they are, I was fine with who they really were, and how they really felt, and we went on, and had great relationships!
Of course! I do as soon as I meet her for the first time!
Thanks for the MHO
Hell, I was having trouble not fantasizing about the hot construction guy that was part of the remodeling crew at the warehouse I worked at.. He was intentionally or unintentionally putting on a little show fanning himself and lifting his shirt in front of the big industrial fan by my shipping station and hot damn 😍😍 them sweaty muscles tho 😍😍🔥 only time ever got really turned on at work like that... Might of shipped some things to the wrong places that day 🤣🤣
Nice!!
@Gwenhwyfar omg yeeesss he was very nice 🤣
Probably got things a little hot and wet
If he is fit, attractive and confident, you can bet I've thought about it more than once.
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... what? Is it abnormal to fantasize about your own partner?
@Futron Brains is fake
"Brains is fake?" What does that mean?
Option E, dated a few girls but my imagination was always better than reality. But g*ddamn did you make these options convoluted and confusing as hell to get through. Many wouldn't have had the patience to read all these minor differences in the options.
So far, no one else has made that same complaint.
Yes, I do fantasize about my partner before its sexual. I am a Man and its pretty much a given. Plus, when we are gonna go physical, it helps because now I have some idea of what I can do at that Moment.
I built a good friendship with a friends girlfriend and I caught real feelings for her over time and I would just think about her constantly and was never sure if she felt anything back for me.. Several times I even hinted to her that I wanted to be the first person she called if her and my friend ever broke up.. After 3 years together they finally did break up and she and I ran into one another one afternoon and exchanged numbers and set a date to get together and have dinner.. We left dinner and went back to her apartment and she admitted she’d been into me for a long time.. We fooled around for about an hour before she agreed to sex but once her legs opened it was the most amazing Sex I think I’ve ever had.. she let me have her raw and I was like a kid in a candy store.. I ate her pussy for almost an hour before I let myself get up inside her because she tasted so good.. In fact, she did actually get pregnant from the night we spent together but she ended up miscarrying a few months after
Yes all time
Yes.
I think everyone of both sexes does this a little
Of course
I have/do, I'm pretty sure we all have at some point fantasied or had sexual thoughts about our new partners before we're actually physical with em and will again in some point in the future.
That goes for men and women, it's just a natural thought that'd pop into your head if your attracted to your partner and want or desire them in any kind of way.
At this point, only one female has said that she doesn't fantasize before things get physical. I was very confident that guys do this 100% but I thought there might be 25-30% of girls who would say they never "anticipated the main event." I am a bit surprised. This may be a generational shift in thinking.
Hmm It could be. All I know is I do it *shrugs* But I'd say at least from the comments most people still do that so maybe not to great of a shift?
Yes. I would think this is rather common. It's so much a "fantasy" as it is just picturing ones' options with each possible partner.
* oops NOT so much - - - - -
Yes but it started after some months of dating, before that it was awkward for me to imagine more than the steamy kisses we were having.
I'm a perverse fuck who fantisizes sexually about most attractive people around me at least once. so yes. every time.
Can't escape from these thoughts 💭😋
especially since I'm a satyriast - sexually insatiable. For me nothing beats having Sex with beautiful women. Or having mountains of money. 😀
I've dated, had one or more sexual partners, fantasized sexually about them before we became physical, and the real thing was sometimes better than my fantasies
Doesn’t every man do that when he gets a new girlfriend. Wondering what it would be like to be with her
I think you are right about guys, except for the occasional unusual guy. I am actually more curious about the ladies' responses.
Enjoy the responses of the ladies
I do and he knows it
wait you mean the new guy? as in not the father
@memer2020 yes
so did you make a move on him?
Yeah I’ve probably done that with every date I found attractive but didn’t get that far with some so I’ll never know but the few I did at least was not a disappointment
Yes I do.
I think that I have fantasized about sex with 80% of my partners
I've never had a partner, so I wouldn't know.
I think things usually move too fast for that to actually happen to me
Absolutely yes.
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