Do you prefer eye contact or not during sex?

I always prefer that, eye contact with partner always generate more intimacy during sex. That's the reason missionary, lotus and cowgirl are my favorite positions.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I tell her to look at me. I love seeing her face when she's turned on because it makes me happy that I'm the only one who is allowed to pleasure her. I also find it very arousing because she has beautiful and very erotic expressions. Maybe this is odd for a guy, but when we are having slow and romantic sex I like to look at her and tell her how important she is to me. I whisper things like "I love you more than anything, I only want you, and You're mine forever". I guess I just like being intimate and affectionate with her.

  • I definitely prefer eye contact. It's okay if she closes her eyes at times when things feel good, but I want her to have eye contact with me when she can.

    • Quagmire? Of course you're here again. You must be a sex expert after the 100+ women you slept with. But I thought you preferred them with their eyes closed? I mean I've seen you drag multiple "sleeping" women into your house...

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah. Obviously not constant eye contact but I love making out during sex and occasionally looking at each other during an interruption or if one of us laughs about something or other.

  • I prefer to have my eyes closed and focused on the sensations. Romance is for before and after.

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  • I like your style! Eye contact, soft whispers, and subtle kisses all combine for intense intimacy when exploring each others body. Grunts and thrusts with closed eyes usually mean you are only trying to please yourself and not your partner. My best and longest orgasms happen when I know my partner is doing the same thing. Staying in touch (with your eyes) is the best way to know it is happening!

  • Yes I definitely love eye contact because that's her way of speaking without saying one word if I can have eye contact read the color of her cheeks the way she breathes the way she moans the way she moves her hips eye contact with how we everything plus I just feel it more deeper passionate I just loved every second of that her eyes will tell you how deep you can go cries will tell you everything cries will tell you what she wants in any given moment

  • I love eye contact it is fun to look into each others eyes when they orgasm.

  • Yes. She really likes me banging her up against a wall whilst looking into my eyes, although I suspect it's just so she gets a heads up in case it looks like I might drop her.

  • Yes definatly!

  • I do prefir.

  • I like eye contact. Sometimes I might close my eyes if it gets too intense.

  • It is not intimate. I also like seeing when there moss changes and the start to stroke faster

    • @jennbitx thats really good one!

  • I love it personally

  • Most do. Yes, it's a connection.
    Some are so shy and inhibited they can't even stand to see themselves. And why god invented the light switch. LOL

  • Yes when my eyes are open but I usually have my eyes closed most of the time. With my eyes closed I can feel everything so much better. It's weird because in certain situations I feel I can see better with my eyes closed. Sex is one of them but I still open them occasionally for eye contact.

  • Agreed...
    I kiss my wife with my eyes open.
    I have to see her face when we fuck.
    Doggy is always in front of the mirror for that reason.
    The only thing we do where I can't see her gorgeous orgasmic face is when she's sitting on my face... but I'm imagining her face as I'm sucking on her clit... just before her orgasm hits and she rips the flesh off my legs as she cums and grunts and squeals...

  • Absolutely! But sometimes I want doggy because I love seeing her ass so much back into me, and seeing her take me all in, and it's so deep and amazing!

  • Depends on the person

  • depends... with sex it's always fun to see each other. Oral to me is the best... when she looks at you.

  • I totally agree I do like the eye contact I like her to be on top then when we are about to cum I push her head to mine and we look into each other eyes as we cum.

  • Eye contact is always hot, lol.

  • I do what the right guy

  • Eye contact

  • Yes of course

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