Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health This is inspired by all the guys that have asked me to send them a nude pic.
I mean seriously, there is like a trillion out there online of women, it seems that because we chat they somehow think mine will be more exciting than all those other trillions out there. Many don't even want to chat, they just ask me to send them.
It almost seems to me it is like the thrill of the chase, convincing someone to send them, breaking them down until they either get them or give up.
Or is it more than that?
What do you think? and why could getting them from someone you know only online be better than what is currently online?
Do you think getting nude pictures from someone you know is better than what you can already get online?
Aerissa_Jade Guru
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+1 y
I probably should of phrased the question a little better, as I was kind of referring to nudes from people you know online and never met in person. I agree that those from people you know in person are the best.
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13 68I honestly think that getting it from someone you know is way better. I absolutely hate the fact that some people straight away ask for nudes or send them.
In fact i can easily find loads of nudes online, its just a google search away, but if that person makes a genuine effort to talk to you and then send or ask for them it makes it different. Also what people also make the mistake of doing is that looking for nude is different than looking for something to get off to.
As you mentioned that guys have asked you send them a nude pic or might have sent you too, remember its a nude. And nudity is different than anything sexual.
So please keep it respectful. :)
My opinion is inspired by all the girls who have sent me an unsolicited nude pic:
Like I mean seriously, you don't think I'd rather get a bj from a professional than jerk off to your amateur garbage?
definitely! if you know someone it adds to the attraction
seeing porn stars is meh and when i find pics of someone i know it's amazing
I think it could be better but only when u actually know them coz u will then imagine or fantasise them in different situations but otherwise as u said perfectly right that there are trillions out there n must all be same
But i would differ on one thing regarding those who keep insisting for nudes... its not just either they give up or get them...
When u dont agree to send they will first call u fake n then ugly n will body shame u without even having looked n knowing how u look
it can be sexier form someone then from online
If I am interested in them, then yes I would enjoy them. They would never go anywhere. I hate the random dick pics. I truly have no way of knowing if it is theirs anyways.
Nudes from people you know are way better than ones from strangers. There's a whole different vibe with them. If it's from someone you know, that opens the possibility of seeing it in person.
It's better to get them from someone that you "know". Or even just an "ordinary girl". You are right, there are countless nude pictures and videos on the internet, but those girls are mostly seen as professionals. That's why so-called amateur porn, or homemade porn is so popular.
I think you're EXACTLY right... it's the thrill of conquering a woman to give up something of value to her, in exchange for nothing. Some women are exhibitionists and will give up nudes in a second, but they're the minority.
The "nudes fad" is just plain stupid except for one helpful thing for all the ladies --
** you can eliminate dating any and all guys who ask you for nudes who aren't already your long term boyfriend. It's guaranteed they're not worth your time, so your life just got a LOT easier !!
Someone you know is better than someone you don't because you are real.
If I got nudes from my wife, they would be ten times better than any random pictures I could find online. Because I would have a connection with her.
I have gotten nudes from people online before, but I didn't ask for them and I didn't want them.
Well yes to a certain extent... I agree to your question part (not the full details part)
It's more exciting from someone you chat with is because it makes it more personal and real
Yes, because Its more personal and that means more to me.
It also means more special to me and that makes it more erotic.
I agree.
ill be honest its more thrilling getting it from an actual person instead of just seeing it online.
there's an extra personal component there that makes it feel better.
however i ALWAYS respect their decision not to send me anything if they don't wish to. i always want their enthusiastic consent to receive them first.
Personal pics are always better
cause its more personal probably then just another lame ass porn star that sucks at acting like there enjoying sex in the videos lol
nope I don't do nudes simply because its a waste of time
YES INDEED
I think it is.
They're more intimate and personal