Do you think I might be lesbian?

Please help?
I'm a girl , I've only had feelings for men so far , I kissed men , and I felt aroused , I gave blow jobs and that's it , I didn't have sex but I've noticed that looking at big boobs , big butts of women , make me horny , I even masturbate looking at hot girls and twerking videos , does this make me a lesbian?
Do you think I might be lesbian?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i give mostly blowjobs to men and i only been with 4 women... if you give blowjobs you probably like men... i'm also attracted to women when it comes to women i love athletic women... i had 1 tennis player...1 volley ball player... another was into running and another played basketball... maybe bi-sexual... but it's okay long as there's love... that's how i see it... with a woman it seems she really cares about you as in really asks how you feel about things and your thoughts... a man i get he just wants sex or doesn't really care or remember much... some men i been with i don't think knew my birthday or even my name... so your fine just take what comes your way... whether it be a man or a woman... or maybe both at different times.

  • hm I sorta have the same dilemma lol

    I thought I liked guys but recently I feel pretty indifferent towards them. Tbh girls are hot af and I'm defo gayer than your typical straight woman but vaginas gross me right out so I'm apprehensive. (though I felt the exact same way about dicks before I gained some experience). The obvious answer here is that I'm bi but my dummy brain said pick a side fool. Internalised biphobia is realll 🤡

    That aside, as long as you're having fun with the right person/people for you, then there's not really any need to assign yourself a label if you haven't quite figured it out yet.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, you can't be a lesbian if you also feel the same way towards guys. Though have you considered that you might be bisexual or pansexual?

    I can't tell you what you are or are not, only you can figure out what kind of person your are and what kind of people you like.

  • That makes you curious about sex with women. That is nothing to be concerned about.
    If anything, since you had feeling for men as well, you would be Bisexual. Unless you were faking unconsciously those feelings for men, you can't be a lesbian.

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  • You're probably bi

  • Maybe? Lol 😂

  • No it doesn't mean your a lesbian, bit you could possibly be bi curious, depends on how far you might want to go with girl

  • Sounds like you've been attracted to men and women in the past which lines up with bisexuality.

  • your curious

  • Could be Bicurious or Bisexual

  • Sounds like you're bisexual. If you're craving girls lots lots more then that makes you a lesbian.

  • You just feel envy of their bodies q

    • 😂😂😂 no I masturbate to them no envy

    • I think you need a boy in your life

    • Corona I can't get a boy now 😏

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  • You might be bi, or pan even

  • Id say you're bi curious, and you need to experience what its like to be with a girl and then see how you feel.

  • Bicurious and nothing wrong in it

  • Maybe bi or bi curious.

  • You gotta figure that out on your own.

  • It makes you bisexual

  • You're bi curious , only one way to find out if you also like girls.
    Search yourself and explore your sexuality

  • Sounds like you may be bicurious or bisexual

  • I hate to put a label on it but that’s simply bi-curious and there’s nothing wrong with that.
    I’ve known a few Lesbians who are actually bi-sexual.
    Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don’t.

  • Not necessarily a Lesbian, but maybe bisexual. Try girls - it will double your chances of a date, and you will enjoy it.

  • Does it have to mean something? Can you not just enjoy it and carry on with your life?

  • No it means you're bisexual

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