Do you think it's fair for a guy to want oral but not give it in a relationship?

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Mishthefish · Accepted Answer

I have a lot to say about this topic. Everything that is done in a relationship should be reciprocated > if he expects you to give him a BJ then he should be willing to go down on you aswell. I dated a guy once that would expect Bjs everytime and would never go down on me and this made me feel bad about myself And self continuous. I started thinking that the reason he didn’t want to go down on me was because something was wrong with me down there. But the guy I’m with now loves going down on me > which has built up my confidence a lot over the last few years. Guys just go done on your girls ! Seriously!

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

i've got it from more than a few times it's gross for the guy to give oral sex... i have no problem giving someone a blowjob and then them not returning the favor... i love giving a blowjob too much to not give one... plus i've been in relationships where it's mostly me giving blowjobs... so i think it's fair and wouldn't be bothered by such a situation.

Andres77 · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not.
After kissing and sucking nipples the guy should be on his knees, chin deep in that luscious mess until your toes curl.
If you haven't cum at least a few times there should be no thought to his pleasure... yet...

Dargil · Accepted Answer

Giving oral is an act of love. Some, like me, like doing it and others just do it out of love. Either way, it should go both ways.

Wedimir · Answer

This is a popular question. Of course not. I just don't understand guys who don't like sucking pussy. And a girl should remember everything should be on an equal footing-you to me I to you! If it doesn't suck, why should you?)

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

No!!! Fuck that. Suck him right to the edge then just stop and walk away.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Not fair if you give a guy oral sex, he should be willing to give it to you in return

JosyJosy · Answer

Ah no, fuck that

douride2 · Answer

The short answer is no.

Twalli · Answer

Want, yes, expect to receive, no.

User2300 · Answer

That's not fair.

Valnac · Answer

I love going down on a girl.

Paulychicago10 · Answer

Nah. But its not fair for either party

CT_CD · Answer

Yes, it's fair

rustymopp · Answer

If anything, I'm the other way around, I love giving oral, but ain't particularly bothered about receiving it

Slim57 · Answer

If course not

LOGESHKUMAR · Answer

Maybe that guy is not interested in relationship itself...

Anonymous · Answer

Unless the lady doesn't like oral the guy should at least try to reciprocate  Relationships are about love and understanding

Anonymous · Answer

Everyone has likes and dislikes. I'm perfectly capable of wanting to recive a blowjob despite finding eating a girl out gross. I don't ask for it thought. I accept if she asks me. If she is cool with sucking me, I'm game.