Do you think male sexual predators and female sexual predators are the same?

Do you think they are wired differently or have similar interests and intentions?
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  • Yes, I do having dealt with 3 different female predators when I was 13 & 14. Sex with children is the same to both of them. Even one of the would cover my mouth and as she was on top of me and would call me her ugly prince, so obviously to her looks didn't matter with child targets. 2 of them might have force me to perform sexual acts but the 3rd on was just as bad because she was someone at church I told my issues of the previous 2 to. Needless to say I stopped going to church and believing in a god that would allow things like that to happen especially in a place of worship.

    I never let the actions of a few change my views of females and this is stuff I would never bring up to anyone face to face, it's my burden to bare, besides I don't actually have anyone.

    • Please seek counseling 🙏

    • Please get the police involved and seek counselling

    • @Guardian45 why would I do that? I'm in therapy and even there I don't bring this shit up, did that to cops (1f 1m) when I was 13 and got laughed at, told a counselor at church at 14 and she attempted shit on me to.

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  • Sex predator mom, 38, who targeted kids and let her husband abuse them.
    Sex predator mom, 38, who targeted kids and let her husband abuse them.

    Yes, I do believe that Male and Female sexual predators are the same and should be treated equally regardless of their gender. A sexual predator is just that... A sexual Predator. That is how they should be seen and dealt with regardless of whether they are Male or Female. They are both sex offenders and should be registered as being so. However, I do believe that how they are medically treated is dependent on their gender assigned at birth. Yet, both should subject to the same legal punishment as dictate by the circumstance in the crime. It being no different from what is done for those male or female charged with homicide.

    • Have to agree

    • They look absolutely disgusting, especially her

    • I know, she even looks as if she is smiling in her mug shot... definitely something not quite right with her or him.

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  • they have the exact same intentions (if we're talking like rapists, either pure sexual sadism, anger, frustration, or revenge. if we're talking pedos, they just like they young & don't give a fuck if they hurt them) but they're not wired the same though except for pedos. women are a less likey to prey sexually on people for biological reasons (not just them being smaller) & why they end up being that way is for diff reasons and typically it's more for purely sexual reasons to, not that often for like revenge, pent up anger, pain or whatever

    • You are saying men are predators more for revenge and pent up anger? Because I personally disagree with that. They obviously both want to use a child for their own pleasure regardless of the harm it causes

    • i'm not saying they mostly are but it's more common than for women (was talking about people who rape adults though). for kids the reasons are the same though, just wanting to use them without caring if you traumatize them or not

    • I don't know, from my experience they just want to use the boy, could have been abused as a child. Most sex predators are in fact. What if they don't harm the child but still exploit them?

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  • Yeah they’re all in the same book to me they’re both very manipulative specially to the younger people and they don’t care about feelings there mentally unstable they just do it in different ways

    • @jessiebellll I find it weird that some guys are arguing this. But I’m still reading the women

    • What do you mean

    • That they wouldn’t count it as equal. But I saw women also saying the intent is different but regardless it’s equally as bad doesn’t matter the intent

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  • I would speculate that there are a lot of similarities, but I also suspect that you'd see differences in the finer details, and perhaps differences in the motivations. Ultimately, though, I'm not sure how much that matters. There have been plenty of sexual predators who were every bit as evil and vile as the worst male ones.

    My experience tells me that the majority of both were abused as children themselves, though there will be a few who has normal, unremarkable childhoods but were always "off" even as young children. These are the ones you hear about who tortured animals and so forth, and their parents have no idea where that comes from - in my opinion, it's mental illness, but because it's a less common type that is more easily hidden and less obvious, it tends to get overlooked until they get caught doing something awful.

  • Sexual predators have the same goal: to have sex with people forcibly, against their will. Their interests and intentions are probably as varied as any person's.

    • Sometimes, it's about sexual torture, not sex. Sexual assault is about violence, not sex.

    • @Guardian45 Well, torture is usually forced. Normal folks don't like to be hurt. But predators LOVE to hurt cause for whatever reason they're twisted.

    • I think they use a child sexually then they are child predators even if causes no harm. They are basically exploiting them.

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  • No! Both are bad but both are different

    • Explain

  • I don't know if they're wired the same or not. I'm no psychologist. I do know they should be treated the same by the criminal justice system.

    • Agreee

  • I once had a girl take a picture of my genitals while I was displaying.

  • In general, I think they are the same. One study I read showed that both female and male sex offenders offend against female victims the most. Both offend most often at home with an acquaintance and most often there are no physical injuries. Some differences are females are more likely to have a male accomplice. Females are more likely to have same-sex offenses. Clearly men are more likely to date rape and physically accost a woman than the other way around. As far as public perception is concerned, it is much more focused on male sex crimes and sexual predators. My final thought is that men and women are wired differently just because they are male and female. I have no doubt that there are psychological differences in their motivations and behaviors related to predation. However, sex is a basic human drive and not gender-specific. Therefore, perversion of that drive can't be all that different between a man and a woman; it is selfish and show a significant lack of impulse control.

  • I think they are the same fundamentally but there might be differences in behavior and tactics.

  • Evil knows no gender. Granted, they usually gravitate by gender toward different tactics to achieve the same end goal.

  • kind of the same but intentions and ways to go about it would be different. disgusting either way

    • I disagree with intentions. They just want to use the child

  • I mean one isn't worse than the other, but I imagine the reasons and what they want differs slightly

    • They both wand to sexually use kids

    • I'm not saying they're not bad

    • I never said you did not


  • I'd say they are same in all the ways that count, they are manipulating a young mind that dosent know any better and will likely cause their victims much trouble in the future cause they will not understand how to have a normal relationship sense their first one was at the hands of a ptedator.
    Lock them all up.

  • I get they impression they both want to feel young again. But that's where the similarities end.

    • That and that they want to sexually exploit a child

    • Yes, that's the thing they imagine will make them feel young again.

    • It's very nasty and perverse

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  • Good question. I think they're pretty much the same, they just have different ways of going about it. With the exception that a woman could act in the same strange predatory ways as a man, but people would never think that she is one.

    • I don't know, I guess it depends on their experience and views on women and men

  • Yeap they’re the same. Monsters that deserve a slow and painful death.

    • Agree

  • They are the same

  • You hear lot less of female then the male but predators are still predators.

  • I definitely think they both lack empathy for others. They may be sociopathic or have some kind of mental illness. There are definitely some different factors that can go into why they come out that way. Television and shows most likely not helping very much with them sexualizing everything.

  • Not sure

    • They are lol raping kids no matter what gender is equally as bad

    • @Thatasianlove16 when you put it that way agreed

  • I believe they are the same as you ask yourself why people do the things they do we had a former friend of the family who was very close to his nieces and they would kiss one another on the lips instead of the cheek and my sister asked him why he did that well he had no answer but in meanwhile he dated my sister who at the time had my niece who was age 8 at the time, here he committed sex crimes against his own nieces at the time was just becoming teenagers, well my sister broke it off with him and that was it he was sent to prison, no one knows what happened, I believe he's serving a life sentence this just shows you what type people out there and he never admitted to me what crimes he committed and I always asked him if he committed them crimes he would get tears in his eyes I believe he did them, I believe he was sick the stuff in the local newspapers what he did was just ewww

    • Horrible

    • @jessiebellll Yes it was

  • Yes, intent wise

    • And in terms of sexual exploitation

    • I think the only different is their way of going about it. Men being physically stronger will probably use brute force over drugs or something

    • What if their partner is willing? I still think they are a predator

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