Who is responsible to bring the condom? Who put it on his D?

My boyfriend always ask me to bring the rubber otherwise we do it raw.

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  • It really depends on who is requiring it honestly. But as any guy who wants to get lucky knows, you got to have a backup just in case. With that said, I never date a woman in committed relationship that required a condom. I mean sex with a condom is less pleasurable and almost every man on the planet will tell you that.

    Its 2024, I would never date a woman I did not feel comfortable with having unprotected sex with. And if she was uncomfortable with having unprotected sex with me, well I had a vasectomy, by her requiring a condom means she is not comfortable with me and that would be a problem.

Most Helpful Guy

  • lol what a sack. He’s supposed to bring it. I’m sure he wants sex a lot like most of us men so yes he should bring it. I kind of wonder if he does that because maybe you’ll end up forgetting which means he wants to go raw which in reality is what he really wants. No man wants to really wear a condom. And honestly I think, yes a double standard but if a girl is the one w the condoms just makes her seem slutty. Like she’s sleeping around that much she needs to keep condoms on her. He needs to get the condoms. He’s wearing them not you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Anyone who wants to use one should bring one. If it's important to you then you shouldn't rely on the other person, even if they agreed to use one before. Always possible under someone forgets

  • Sounds like some entitled bastard……do him raw, I bet he will squeal like the rest of them

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  • Girls if they really want to make sure one is used!

  • I say the guy is responsible for bringing the condom that way he can pick one that fits and he likes. 90% of the time the girl puts it on and most try to do it in a creative way. I think that is so if it comes off the girl can take ownership, but I never really thought about it.

  • I’d say generally the guy is responsible for bringing the condoms, but it varies from couple to couple.

  • I think it's on each party individually to be responsible and protect themselves, so if you know there is a chance you will need them you should carry them regardless.

  • Your boyfriend is a dumbass.

  • Both should bring a condom so they can go 2 rounds 😝

  • Both should be. I always had emergency condoms in my purse and night stand at home during college

  • Respectfully, if y’all aren’t mature enough to figure this stuff out on your own, maybe you shouldn’t be having sex.

    Not what you wanted to hear, I assume. I’ll see myself out now……but I meant what I wrote.

  • It's boys responsibility but it's recommended for girls also to keep with them to be on safe side. You may need any time if you get Horny and find any suitable opportunity anywhere to get your temperature down.

  • I belive it is the mans responsability. As for who does it, either works.

  • i n the guy bring. if he says that dump him too risky.

  • Glad to hear

  • Either partner can bring the condom but the girl is the one with the most to lose. She is the one to make sure a condom us used.

    Similarly, either partner can put it on, but there is something particularly sexy when she puts it on.

    I dated a woman once who liked to put the condom on with her mouth... awesome.

  • The man should on both counts although he can ask for help putting it on. Easier with 3 hands.

  • I have a vasectomy I don't worry about that anymore

  • Your boyfriend is a cheapskate. I hope he doesn’t ask you to bring wine and chocolate as well

    • Well she's cheating on her husband with him, so it doesn't really matter how much of a cheapskate he is, because she still chooses to cheat with him.

  • Guy brings it and puts it on unless the girl is worried he would poke a pin hole in it.

  • 🎥 I remember a commercial here once or slogan "if it's not on, it's not on" referring to the 'it' being a condom aka a rubber. If the condom ain't on, sex ain't on. Get it? Lol.
    And I live by that as I've always been a germ freak. I really like how I hold my ground on that, even though I'm often a pushover in life. I'm not always. I'm not, always 😁😁😊✌🏻😋😳👌🏻

  • It is MY responsibility to have the condoms, and to be frank, I would not trust or expect a partner to have them.

  • Guys because the condom the girl brings might be too big for the guy’s dick

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