Do you think women are too easy now?

[Anonymous]

They don’t even present a challenge. Seems like they’ll open their legs for almost anyone who gives them attention or buys them a drink. Already got the guys cawk down her throat by the end of the first date. Constantly posting pics of their boobs or ass on social media. I know not all women are like this but a lot are. And it's so easy to get nudes from them. It’s nothing for a girl in her early 20s to have already slept with 15 or more guys.

So easy that two of my friends are currently having a contest to see how many women they can bang before the end of the year. They’re both already in the 20s. They act like this but claim they want men to respect them and not sexually objectify them. What do they expect?

[disgustingweebtrash]

I'm asexual, but I have observed society and see that numerous women will sleep with guys on the first date. I have also observed that slooty women will make a guy they like wait for sex when in the past she's had sex with 30+ men within one day of knowing them. The behaviour of women is truly intresting.

[Asker]

I agree with your observations

[disgustingweebtrash]

Thank you

[disgustingweebtrash]

MHO and upvote me

[OatsnWhey]

That pic just got me hard tbh.

[Asker]

That's my wife

[OatsnWhey]

Mirin

[Asker]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

You know, it take two to Tango. If a woman is "easy" so is the man who had sex with her.

[Asker]

Nah..

[Opinion Owner]

How is it "nah"? because you think it's just fine for men to whore around, but god forbid a woman has sex without going through the appropriate stages according to you? Fuck this sexist double standard. Fuck it right in the...

[Asker]

No double standard

[Opinion Owner]

It's a double standard when people talk about women being easy but not men.

[Asker]

Not true

[Opinion Owner]

True. It's the very definition of a double standard.

[Asker]

I disagree

[Gavyn]

It starts with the man asking from/flirting with the woman, though, no? Therefore, that doesn’t make the man easy, but it makes the woman easy. Right?

[Gavyn]

Usually starts that way is what I mean.

[Opinion Owner]

@Gavyn No. They both had sex. If having sex early makes a woman "easy" it makes a man "easy" too. That he approached first doesn't change that - and inthis day an age, women do a lot more of the approaching.

[Gavyn]

But the man can’t legally have sex without the consent of the women. She has to LET HIM STICK HIS PENIS IN HER VAGINA before they can have sex. Therefore, it’s the women. End of discussion.

[Gavyn]

Woman*

[Opinion Owner]

@Gavyn No. BOTH partners have to consent. Sex is not a woman "letting" a man have sex with her. Sex is two people deciding they want to. If the sex act makes the woman easy, it makes the man easy too. To say otherwise is the sexist double standard I am talking about.

[Gavyn]

But you see, men have literally always been like that. Quite frankly, the fact that it’s easier to get in a woman’s pants makes it her problem, not the guy’s.

[kevkevinkev]

Does a man knock and a woman open? Or do both people have the key to the door?

[Gavyn]

Good analogy. The women opens the door, not the man.

[Gavyn]

Woman* goddammit lol

[Opinion Owner]

@kevkevinkev Both people have a key to the door. Sex is not something a man does to a waomn. And a woman having a man get into her pants is not "her problem", because it's not a problem. Either is is ok to be promiscuous or it is not. If it is bad for a woman to have sex, it is bad for a man to have sex with her.

[Gavyn]

Uhh, you do realize that women can stop men from having sex with them right? Therefore, women are the one’s with the keys. A guy is powerless against that door until the woman unlocks for him. This just proves the point the person who asked this question was trying to make. You’re so used to women being easy that you try to shift the blame and say there’s equal opportunity when there isn’t.

[Opinion Owner]

@Gavyn Men acn stop women from having sex with them too. If the woman had sex easily, so did the man. There is not this magical door that can only be opened by the woman. Sex and the mating dance are a thing both people are active participants in it- it's not just a woman lying back and saying "ok, you may eneter" - that's just nonsense. That isn't how this stuff works kiddo, it just isn't. Sex is an act of mutual consent. Both parties agree to take part. If it didn't take "much" for the woman to agree to sex, it also didn't take "much" for the man to have sex. Sex is not something a man is doing to a woman. It's not like a thing where the woman is prey and the man is the predator and the "easy" woman is just the one who didn't run fast enough. That's essentially what you are describing. If a man agrees to sex easily, he's easy, in the same way a woman would be. I don't actually believe in "easy" as a term. It reflects a sexist double standard.

[Opinion Owner]

The point is, there is not some line on a timeline that says "this is the ok time for these two people to have sex". THEY decide. WE don't decide. Men don't get called "easy" and slammed for it the way women do. Why was the question only about women? Because women get called "easy", for just the same stupid reason as you stated. If the woman must be labeled "easy" for whatever you decide makes a woman "easy", so does every man she was "easy" with. Basically, easy is a synonym for slut and this is just more asinine slut shaming. "Easy" is a pejorative term the presupposes that the speaker knows what is right and wrong about when those two had sex, and it frequently includes ideas of the woman making the man jump through all these hoops to win the sex. That's just not how it works in real life. Holy cow you kids. You've never been "out there" in the real world. You really don't know much about it yet.

[CarpetDenim]

Yeah, it's pretty gross

[CarpetDenim]

Again?

[TyGirr]

Peoples definition of healthy sexuality is rightfully changing with the times.

[dante3531]

Some are some aren't. I think some are just becoming more open about their sexuality. I personally don't care if a woman decides to sleep with several guys, as long as she is clean about it. Fucks sake, we guys have been doing it for long enough, let them enjoy themselves too.

[dante3531]

That being said, most of the girls/women I've dated have been fairly reserved for the first part of the relationship.

[lolaxxrrr]

The point is there isn't a problem with it. So what? A girl likes sex. I mean come on guys have always been easy and up for sex and get praised for it, why can't a girl do the same? I don't see why someone's sexual life should determine the respect they receive. Sex is fun and it feels good so why wouldn't you have lots of sex?

[mistixs]

Yes, I think that women are too sexually open.
No, I don't think that means they're any less deserving of respect.

[molly6969]

I like that in a women and I respect them too

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Women aren’t too easy now. They’re just finally taking control of their sexuality. Their needs and wants. They’re not letting people shame them for wanting sex.

[Gavyn]

Nobody ever has shamed them for wanting or liking sex. It’s when you start getting slutty about it that shame comes in.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

@Gavyn you’re litwrally just now shaming them. If we want sex and if we have sex with more than 1 person then we’re slutty. You just said they get shamed for being a slut. They shouldn’t be. Who cares if a girl is “slutty”? Let her be.

[Kaazsz]

With how many guys are so shy and scared to talk to women, I’m surprised they get the chance to be sluts. Maybe that’s why, so many men are unavailable due to being too scared to even talk to them, that the instant a guy shows any confidence he’s already 1000 times more attractive than every other guy and she has to take what she can get. Just a theory.

[BrookeAshlen]

I'm 21 and have a career going. Don't have any of these qualities you've stated. Funny thing is, guys don't notice women like me.

[booshlinux]

Yeah it's funny how that works. Doing good and making a decent living for yourself? Shit, single life. Live with your mom job hopping? Panty dropper.

[BrookeAshlen]

Lol just how it works somehow

[BarbieLola]

I know right, so many girls try and get attention these days through whoring themselves out! It totally needs to stop!! #stopebeimgwhores

[BarbieLola]

Showing their bodies on social media is very problematic

[blahblah33]

Did you get this from a GaGer? the fuq

most these bitches cat fishes, so yes I would say they are easy. But only on the internet. (In general.)

[booshlinux]

My man CT_CD, how you been bro.
in my opinion a lot of girls are like that, but on the other hand, a lot of girls are not like that. Depends on the person

[Asker]

I missed you

[revertagreen]

there is nothing wrong with being confident with your body and posting it on social media

and not all women open their legs for everyone

[Gavyn]

There kind of is something wrong with being so confident with your body that you like like a total slut...

[ladyeye]

I personally have no desire to be with someone I'm not committed too, BUT I don't care what other women do

[Ryry97]

They’re easier unless you’re in a relationship with one. Then they never put out

[omgjassy]

No. Just the same as guys

[AGuyWhoKnowsALittle]

Some are some aren't. Its part of the cultural difference conpared to the past and now. Women were expected to be mostly covered and due to religion being more prominent and the
non-existance of contraceptives. Sex was seen as a thing just for marriage. But since the invention of the pill and condoms. Promiscuous activity has become a lot safer and available.

[smølf]

As long as you can't just approach random girls a say "wanna fuck now" and get a grantees "sure, let's go", then they are not "too" easy.

There really is no "too easy", the hard to get sure, but not too easy :)

[LegateLanius]

Both are really, hence the term fuckboy.

[gobsmacked3]

I think you have a major in Generalising

[Kat_puppies]

mmm that booty

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

Some are