Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Preferably both. Above all I want someone active and comfortable. I don't mind if girls like passive roles or dominating ones but it's always better when they're into it. When a girl just kinda lies there and takes it I feel like shit. Sex is suppose to be fun and enjoyable not something you just sit through. I've gotten pretty good at telling about where a girl is on the whole pleasure scale to the point that even when she's the aggressive one I can tell she's not really enjoying herself which is why a good bit of porn I can't even watch. That's why I say both. A lot of passive girls that get really aroused will get at least a little aggressive and I might even say most aggressive girls when they get really aroused will turn into putty. So above all I like girls that are comfortable, communicative, and know how to enjoy themselves.

disasterpieces · Accepted Answer

I'll tell you that most girls like to be dominated and most guys like to be dominant. I like to be dominant and my girl to be obedient in bed. However, I enjoy when she disobeys when I say things like "stop Im gonna cum" and she keeps moving or blowing me until I cum, etc.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

both! i would love to get fucked, but i would also love to fuck a guy and take control.. so i would want a guy who liked or wanted be both

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

I like a man to take control of me in bed. Forcefull but loving I guess. But only if I'm into the guy in the first place obviously.

FriedChickeneisha · Accepted Answer

I like the man to be aggressive. I'm a very opinionated outspoken person, so the bedroom is the one place I can be submissive.

MissNowhere · Accepted Answer

I'd rather someone a bit more on the aggressive side.

Esplorare · Answer

I enjoy an unpredictable combination of both. :)

AustinMan · Answer

Submissive but not passive. Something like this:

justbanANNAz · Answer

a little of both would be great!

mangaka92 · Answer

Mainly passive, but a little "aggressive" (maybe aggressive isn't even the word for it) would be nice, as well.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Aggressive, at least to the point of really active.

Finestspace · Answer

I like a girl who doesn't mind being tied up and whipped but can also be the aggressive one. biting my neck and such.

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Aggressive. *-*

Mesonfielde · Answer

I'd like the middle ground

Egyptian3girl · Answer

someone sweet

abundantlyrich · Answer

Passive and is scared of me.

Johnyk · Answer

Aggressive is a turn on for me. Passive is boring like a dead body.

tyber1 · Answer

I'd prefer someone who could fill either role.

atomique · Answer

Hand the goods with care.

Tarvold · Answer

Aggressive. I like to win, but only against someone who've put up a good fight.

badboy666 · Answer

Aggressive.

OrdinaryGentleman · Answer

Aggressive would be nice

sahan138 · Answer

60•/• aggressive

Nerdvana · Answer

Passive. I like to be dominant in the bedroom

SteamBuns · Answer

I'd Kill that kitty...

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

I want an aggressive woman.

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