Does everyone experiment with the same sex at some point in their lives?

[Anonymous]

Do you think it's normal for a straight guy to be curious? Have you?

[SweedyPie]

Well the answer to the main question is no. The answer to if it's normal for a straight guy to be curious is... That's called being bicurious. Not everybody feels that way but there are some who do, try it and then either like it and identify as bisexual or don't and remain straight.

There are also some guys who like to try anal sex with their girlfriend and a dildo, which is neither gay nor bisexual. That is just seeking a different type of stimulation.

If you are curious about being intimate with a guy then you would classify as bicurious. I hope this helps.

[Asker]

Great answer!

[SweedyPie]

😊 Well thanks!

[Philyouup]

Never heard of circle jerks?

[Asker]

No pro SweedyPie :)

[SweedyPie]

@Philyouup what is that?

[Philyouup]

When a group of boys going through puberty stand or sit in a circle and jack off themselves or the dude next to them and see who can cum first.. it's also called "Soggy Biscuit"

[SweedyPie]

@Philyouup Ohh ok I never heard that before

[Asker]

It's also called a bukkake.

[SweedyPie]

Oh ok. Is this really a normal occurrence?

[Asker]

A lot of porn surrounds the girl with multiple cocks so yes in porn it's common.

[NicoletteKomotov]

Any open minded and intelligent person that is not stuck in societal beliefs and paradigms of right and wrong will eventually have such thoughts as a natural progression in exploring life. It shows a healthy curiosity about things that ultimately will lead a person like that to discover things about themselves and others that closed-minded people never will. That includes things well beyond sexual interests as well, since they will be a student of exploration and experience. Enjoy your explorations.

[Asker]

Such a good answer. Thank you!

[Anon85]

Being open-minded has nothing to do with sexual experimentation with the same sex.

[Asker]

@Anon85 Maybe you're gay and don't know it because you're limited to societies beliefs.

[Anon85]

Society says it's a-ok so I'm pretty sure that's not it.

[Asker]

@Anon85 You might be gay.

[Anon85]

Wow I didn't know. I feel enlightened

[Asker]

@Anon85 see now go suck off some penis lol

[Anon85]

If I say "no-homo" after does it still count?

[Asker]

@Anon85 If you have seamen coming out of your mouth when you say it probably not 😂

[Krumpir]

Such a libtard answer... So false...

[eshoyo]

Intelligence = experimenting with sexual orientation Wat? It shows that you question your sexuality and you maybe should try it. Not everyone can be forced to do something they don't want to because it's "close-minded". If you think otherwise, you have to try all drugs on earth and try to fight each animal that you think could kill you et cetera. This answer is bullsh*t, even tho it sounds nice

[NicoletteKomotov]

Thanks. It's obviously true from some of the other responses here.

[eshoyo]

Who are you talking to and what exactly is "obviously true"?

[Markfish]

Not most men. Women yes, as they are all bisexual.

[Jenima]

@NicoletteKomotov It seems as though you are trying to justify yourself. Lol. Putting other people down will not make you feel better.

[Markfish]

Scientific peer reviewed research says what I said is true. She is saying everyone is bisexual.

[eshoyo]

@Markfishe link to scientific research that every woman is bisexual? Here's a PDF showing that you're talking out of your arse: https://www (dot) cdc. gov/nchs/data/nhis/sexual_orientation/asi_2015_stwebsite_tables. pdf

[eshoyo]

Another PDF stating similar results: https://www (dot) qcdc. gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr077. pdf

[Markfish]

Just because they say they are straight doesn't mean they are straight, that is just a survey not scientific research. (http://indiana. edu/~sexlab/files/pubs/Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007. pdf ) read this and look up dr reigers study.

[eshoyo]

A study with a sample size of 345 women is not worth to read. Also just because you get a little aroused while looking at the same sex alone doesn't make you gay/bi.

[eshoyo]

https://en. m (dot) wikipedia (dot) org/wiki/Bisexuality - "Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females" Straight girls have no romantic attraction to others.

[Jenima]

@Markfish None of your so-called "scientists" will make me believe that I'm bisexual. That's non-sense. People know what they are. You won't force your fantasies on nobody.

[eshoyo]

@Jenima These scientists are actually real and maybe even good scientists, but people like Markfish jump to wrong conclusions, because they don't realise that a sample size of ~ 350 is not at all represantable for all women.

[Markfish]

What about the fact that lesbian porn is by far the most popular genre of porn to the female demographic (pornhub statistics)? That's millions of women.

[eshoyo]

Link please?

[Markfish]

Just type it into google, pornhub viewing habits by gender, My xpr is 1 so I can't post links

[eshoyo]

Sorry can't find something that's dividing my gender. Could you just replace the "." with "(dot)" ?

[eshoyo]

The only statistics I've found were from another side, and not published my pornhub themselves. I would like the actual link to pornhub, not some other website with possibly fake statistics.

[Markfish]

here is one (https://www. pornhub. com/insights/womens-favorite-searches-worldwide)

[Markfish]

(https://www. pornhub. com/insights/what-women-want) here is another one that shows lesbian porn on top for women

[eshoyo]

Alright, fair enough. Seems like sexual attraction for other women is not far fetched. Still, as I said before: https://en. m. wikipedia. org/wiki/Bisexuality - "Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females" Straight girls have no romantic attraction to others.

[Markfish]

Do you see the word "or" there? it means any of those three things by itself can decide sexual orientation, so the fact that they aren't romantically attracted to women doesn't make a difference. And they aren't straight.

[Asker]

Still my favorite opinion

[Jenima]

@Markfish Of course, coming up with statistics from porn-addicted women is so relevant !

[Markfish]

Most women view porn though. Well as long as you accept that women who masturbate to lesbian porn aren't straight.

[MustKnow]

I think almost everyone has had at least curious moments about the same sex, even if they don’t admit it. I do not think that being curious, or even actively fantasizing means that you really want to DO it. It is harmless and healthy, but if my fiancé does, I do not want to know LOL

[Asker]

Haha nice answer :)

[Markfish]

Not men, as men are actually straight

[burnbridgesnotspoons]

Well what is straight? Setting one way of only being attracted to the opposite sex? That's not real. emotions in humans are strong and just like you cry when you are sad but also happy you can appreciate a man's characteristics the same way as a woman's. I think you are overthinking the label people have for how you think you ought to feel. Ask yourself what you want. People on the internet will never know what YOU as an individual want, that's all that matters. What is normal only means you've chosen to listen to a certain opinion, there will always be others...

[ninjamyles33]

Definitely not everyone, especially guys. There's such a negative stigma against guy on guy action in the straight community. It's definitely normal to be curious. We know it feels good to play with ourselves, so it makes sense that we might like another guy to do something to us, or to help another guy. Yes, I have been curious and done things with guys. I definitely don't talk about it with my guy friends, but it is a pretty fun experience. I will say guys definitely know what other guys want better than woman do. No offensive, it just makes sense

[lizziepooh03]

I do not think it as common as some people make it seem to be.

If any one sex experiments more than the other sex with the same sex, I would expect it to be females and not males.

I have a hard time picturing heterosexual males being turned on by other heterosexual males. Just probably is not going to happen that much... I would think. :)

[Markfish]

Those girls who experiment with other girls and are turned on by girls aren't heterosexual either.

[littleblacksubmarine]

I'm straight but I've had a couple of wet dreams about girls. When i wake up I'm always like "wtf?"

[samhradh_leannan]

No, not everyone. I never have and I have no intention of ever doing so. I don’t feel any need or desire to.

[Justacatlady]

I think everyone is curious. I don't think men being bisexual is as common as it is in women. Society has put a focus on hyper masculinity and that doesn't allow for curiosity.

[oOsecret_starlandsOo]

Nah, one V is enough

[Aguysopinion4799]

Not yet but I WILL DO! ;)

[MlleCake]

Not everyone, but it's incredibly common and totally normal.

[sjoes006]

Interesting results. Personally, I’ve never been curious about womenand wouldn't accommodate a three way.

Just not my thing though sometimes I wish it was.

[FMJ_Guy]

I haven't personally, but a lot of my male and female friends have, or are exploring Bi-sexual relations. What's the problem? They like who they like, and I don't think there is anything wrong with that, at all.
What about trans-gender people? I have a few friends that are, and they are 'Normal' to me, because I know them, and have known them for so long, and OF COURSE, they are trans!! How do they 'Fit in' to the same-gender experimentation thing that you ask about?

[fauna642]

It's normal to be curious. I've tried thinking about it, but it wasn't for me.

[Shawn58]

Can I message you lol

[Asker]

No @Shawn58 she doesn't want to talk to a virtual sexbot like yourself. Sorry for the cockblock bro haha ;)

[Shawn58]

Lmaoo

[fauna642]

Wasn't really a cockblock. I was going to say no either way.

[Shawn58]

Damn lol

[lilaqua]

I'm not really interested in having sex with women, it's just not my thing, but other women may feel differently.

[MissyZ]

There's nothing abnormal about it. I haven't but that's only because it's not something I want. If you want to try it, go for it. It's not weird or abnormal.

[Kkaos]

It is abnormal, because I'm sure the majority of people haven't been intimate with the same sex.

[MissyZ]

Yeah but it's not like he's some kind of deviant weirdo. It's 2018, let's get over the whole homophobia thing already!

[Kkaos]

True, I agree.

[Plumy]

I haven't really been curious, just once me and a friend kissed but it was just for fun, not serious

[katiesmuff]

I think it is more likely to find girls more into curious experimenting than guys. I know and have been with girls who just enjoyed a girl/girl thing but either had a boyfriend or spouse and girls who were just curious and gave it a try once or twice. As far as men go I know gay men who that is exactly what they want, but I do not know of any guy who was just curious and maybe wanted to give it a try or did give it a try. Undoubtedly the vast majority of men and women go through their entire lives without ever being curious or any notion of giving it a try.

[ncannon18]

Nope not me.

[Red-Blaze]

I will not say everyone dose it, but i will say its normal over all for one to be curious

[I_know]

It’s good to experiment, I haven’t before tho but if you feel like you need to do it

[amarahorrorstory]

Not everyone. But it's a normal thing to do, many people are curious. However, I find it more common for women to experiment.

[amarahorrorstory]

Oh, look, downvotes from the straightest people in the world.

[coralee]

Sexuality is a spectrum. There are hundreds of shades between straight, gay and bisexual. Bicurious is one there are also straight people with bicurious tendencies there are even gay people with bisexual tendencies. As well as bisexuals with gay tendencies and bisexuals with straight tendencies. Not everyone falls into exclusively defined categories. Nothing wrong with that, but I do think there are still people who fall exclusively in the straight category as well.

[Kkaos]

Let's not make this more complicated than it is. If you ever find yourself being attracted to someone of the same sex, you're either bi or homosexual. It's as simple as that.

[coralee]

@Kkaos Nope there is a spectrum

[Kkaos]

Lol, thought processes are incredibly complex and there is no exact science to it that's well understood. You might like to model it on a spectrum, but it doesn't mean it's proven scientific fact. What is fact is the definition of homosexual, the definition of bisexual, the definition of heterosexual.

[coralee]

@Kkaos As you said the human thought process is incredibly complex, which is why it only makes sense to view human sexuality as existing on a spectrum. Straight and gay are very rigid categories. Bisexuality while more fluid is still too rigid a category for some. Viewing it as a spectrum helps give people who don't fit in exclusively one category gain visibility as well as validity. For example bisexual people can still prefer one gender over the other, despite being sexually attracted to both. People don't always fall into nice neat little boxes for you to categorize.

[Markfish]

That ignores basic semantics. Even the kisney scale which tries to explain sexuality as a spectrum acknowkedges that if someone isn't a 0 or 6 on that scale, they are bisexual.

[Kkaos]

What does it matter? Bisexual doesn't mean 'I like both sexes equally', it just means I find both sexes attractive. If you find both sexes attractive, you're bisexual. That's the definition. End of story.

[coralee]

@Markfish No it doesn't. The Kisney scale doesn't even use the word bisexuality it uses equally heterosexual and equally homosexual to describe bisexuality. And refers to people falling on a 1 or a 2 as mostly heterosexual and 4 and 5 as mostly homosexual.

[coralee]

@Kkaos If you comfortable being placed into one of three categories that is great, but that doesn't mean other people are. Someone who has been exclusively heterosexual all there life but meets one person of the same sex who catches there eye once and it never happens again, may not identify with the term bisexual. Does it really effect you if they choose to identify as bicurious instead of bisexual? Choosing to view sexuality as a spectrum rather then three categories helps give visibility and validity to people who don't feel like they fit.

[Kkaos]

No, it doesn't effect me and that wasn't my point. I agree with you now that people can choose to view it however they like. The only thing I had an issue with was the idea that 100% sexuality is a spectrum and there's no other way of viewing it, which is what I felt you were saying.

[coralee]

@Kkaos I don't mean that there is no other way to view it just that viewing it as a spectrum helps some people claim an identity and come to terms with their sexuality. If you fit into one of the three categories, that's great so do I. But, not everyone benefits from viewing it so rigidly.

[Kkaos]

Yep, I understand and agree with that :)

[coralee]

@Kkaos :)

[Markfish]

It says a 1 has sexual attraction to their own gender even if it isn't a huge attraction, that still by very definition means they are bisexual

[coralee]

@Markfish It says mostly heterosexual. If using three categories works for you that is fine. But, there are many people who benefit from a broader categorization not everyone who falls in say one identifies with being bisexual. Someone who has been attracted to say two members of the same sex while being attracted to hundreds of members of the opposite sex for example might not identify with bisexuality as their attraction to the same sex is incidental and rare. Bisexual might be a broad enough category for you but it isn't for everyone. Choosing to view it as spectrum allows for more people to be able to come to terms with their identity. It doesn't mean that people can't fall into one of the three categories just that not everyone does.

[Markfish]

How is someone who has been sexually attracted to their same gender straight? That's absurd. Somone isn't something just because they say they are. Is someone who has only been sexually attracted to a few children but lots of adults not a pedophile?

[AzureGirl]

Not everyone surely. I have never felt the desire to experiment, nor will I.