Does first time anal hurt more when you're young or old?

I lost my anal cherry in my teens and I didn't find it painful. Most of my friends ranked the pain to be fairly low. But as we all know many women find it very painful.
Now is it a case of younger asses being more soft and flexible and not having things like piles or anal fissures. Or are they more likely to experience pain because tighter? Or are older asses slacker because of their age?

So technique and skill from the guy being equal what age group do you think would find it the most and least painful?
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  • It’s a bit like being in charge of the Suez Canal.

    first day on, you get usual small ships through, dhows, etc, fairly decent traffic exiting the channel.

    then next day bloody huge tanker, full of toxic stuff, stinks to high heaven and you are in a panic, you can almost feel it scraping along the sides but you manage to get it through the canal.

    the next day it’s just busy lot and lots of little boats in rapid succession, then wow a big one, it’s huge, this could take a while and run the risk of blocking the canal. It really puts a sweat on this one, however after a lot of effort you manage to get the big job through the end bit of the canal and floating in to the Med.

    the following week, you get a call from your boss, they are goi g to let traffic come in this way and not just exit.

    panic attack again, however you then think about all the huge jobs you shifted going out and look at the little thing that’s going to be going in to the canal. No worries, you have shifted big jobs you can take a little one.

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  • I've found older girls who haven't tried it before have a lot more hesitancy built up, which makes it harder for them to relax, making it more painful. Younger girls didn't really have more control of their bodies so much as less awareness of what could hurt, which made it hurt less.

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  • I think it's mainly the person, rather than the age. I lost my anal cherry super young too, and it didn't hurt. But then I had friends of the same age who tried it and found it painful. But I also think I wanted to do it and they were just capitulating to requests. So they probably weren't aroused enough, which could cause pain.

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  • I'm pansexual and have both given and received. For me, it doesn't hurt if the guy isn't a jerk. I just lube him and myself really well, relax and he gets right in. Sometimes I feel some uncomfortable thumping if he gets a bit to ruff. It's all about lube and relaxing. It also helps if you've put things up there yourself.

  • I don't know, I've never received anal and I plan to keep it that way. I can tell you that you should be with someone you trust and they understand that when you say stop, they stop

  • Can only speak for the young lol

  • Do you just have her give you a good blowjob beforehand to lather it up good with spit so it's lubed good?

    • NO! Use lots of quality lube.

  • Hard to say, the older person would be more relaxed because the are more comfortable with sex as with someone young they could still be tense with sex so it would be more uncomfortable for the younger person than older

  • I think it might have to do with pain tolerance and whether or not you actually want to try it. If you don't want to try it, you're nervous and tighter. On the same hand if you have a high pain tolerance then you can focus more on the feeling of it being in you and less on the slight pain of your asshole opening that wide.

  • I've never really thought about it...

  • I believe most young ladies have semen deposited regularly into their rear ends and that is what keeps the poo chute slick and painfree.

    • It probably also aids in constipation and painful turds, great natural way to receive an enema

  • I have never had actual anal sex. I had finger suddenly push in there causing a very intense sudden ogasm. I was once with a woman where upon having a finger inserted would cause her to cum. Other than that, there hs never been anything anal.

  • Well younger is better. But first time needs not push in tam in. Bit to go easiler to make the ass hole bigger

  • Depends if you prepared properly for it or not.

  • It's also depends on the girl's pain tolerance. Lube, going slow at first, practice and not having a huge dick can stretch her with less pain.

  • in old.

  • If you start out small you will get used to it and will want something bigger. I used a small vibrator first and after getting used to that, got a bigger one, and then a bigger one, lol

  • Its more of technique