Does he go back to his to wank or am I over thinking this?

Question

We have sex 5 ish times a week. The first time is incredible the rest are good to okay. He doesn’t want to go rounds anymore.

But say if he’s leaving on the Friday he won’t want to have sex or try for it by Wednesday. He will do it if I start it but he won’t start it. Is he saving himself to wank? Or is that just coincidence it’s happened a good few times. He only comes over 5 days a week.

After the first time we have sex after the two days he’s away it is really good then it goes to just good. Then occasionally it’s just like we both want a realise but tired. Then he seems to not start it. Then goes home and sorts himself out.

He is super keen to have sex when he first comes over which would he after he’s just masterbated so that wouldn’t make sense would it?

I worry he saves up to get really horny to wank and when he’s really horny he’d rather masterbate than have sex. Am I just overthinking this?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

While anything is possible, in my opinion the most likely answer is that his sex drive just isn't as high as yours, and so he has trouble keeping up. That's why he performs well the first couple of times, and runs out of steam at the end.

He may have low testosterone or this just may be how he was built. It's not your fault, and probably isn't his fault either - but it might be an indication that the two of you just aren't well-matched in the libido department, and if that's a problem for you, then this means you may not have long-term potential with him.

MannyFrs · Accepted Answer

he's probably cheating on you i've never EVER heard of a guy not being the one 99.9 of the time initiating sex its very VERY rare for a man to have a low sex drive.

i'd smell his dick when he acts like he doesn't want to lay pipe. I bet he's getting some stank from his side skank.

hope she doesn't have crabs or chlamydia

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supercutebutt · Accepted Answer

I don't know. My brain turned to pudding in the middle of reading that.

wankiam · Answer

could be the first one... i know when im in a relationship i still do like a damn good wank though maybe its not that at all. really you would have to ask him in the hope he can be honest about it

boggboss · Answer

Why would he need to save himself if he is just having a wank who thinks like that lol

VikingWarLord · Answer

Monogamy is NOT natural, eventually you're not gonna wanna have sex with the same person.  Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan. You'll learn a lot.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Do you live together or he comes over on the weekend? Seems like if you both get tired you could have sex in the morning. Why would you think he goes home to sort himself?

Wise4myage · Answer

A. He's a freaking weirdo, because sex is always better than jerking off.

Twalli · Answer

Anyone who has regular sex probably prefers it over masturbating. Heck, I can't have it regularly and I still prefer it to masturbating. I don't even masturbate when my girlfriend and I are together

LegendaryIcon · Answer

what is your relationship are you in one or are you a pathetic loser with no life and calling it a "friends with benefits""?

theelegantman · Answer

masturbation can be more enjoyable for men if you say don't do this, don't touch this, don't think this

Paul09 · Answer

For men, masterbating sessions can last 5 minutes to whatever you you want. Way easier to pull a quickly than sex. Or maybe he is lazy, tired, whatever the reason, ask him?