What he's specifically implying is that, in his opinion (which is bizarre), you must have slept with a guy or guys who had huge dicks and stretched you out. And while I suppose that's not impossible, it's INCREDIBLY unlikely in the real world. Now, I know that a tiny percentage of people do extreme things, and I've seen pictures of women using HUGE dildos or even inserting 2L soda bottles and such, and THAT kind of thing on a regular basis could stretch a vagina out to the point where it couldn't fully snap back, but it's exceedingly unlikely that a real human dick - even a huge one - could do that.
I obviously don't know you, so I have no idea what you do or what your body is like or any of that, but I have run across a girl who did indeed have an incredibly loose vagina. Loose as in I could EASILY put 4 fingers in her with no prep, and could get my whole fist in her without any struggle. She was just born that way - she hadn't had kids or anything. But she was dramatically different from the other 45-or-so women that I've been with. That didn't make me assume that she was banging other guys with huge dicks - I mean, it's possible that she was, but I don't think that would have turned an average vagina into what she had.
I guess the bottom line here is that, it's POSSIBLE that your vagina is bigger/looser than average, but even if that's true, the guy was incredibly rude and uncouth, and if I were you, I certainly wouldn't be sharing my pussy with him ever again.
I would also point out that the vagina will be only slightly looser (hardly vf enough to notice) after giving birth. It may take a week or so to get there after giving birth, but it will not become extremely loose even if a woman bvn has given birth. I make this point because I am pretty sure a baby's head is wider than a 2L soda bottle.
@Twalli Yes, but if you did a 2L bottle every day, that constant trauma could have a more permanent impact. Not that I expect that to even be an issue here - I was just using a hypothetical example.
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Now I understand why you don’t want to see him.
Here’s the deal. Lots of feminist types love to state that the vagina is elastic, which it is, and if a guy complains it’s not tight then that means the guy has a small penis. I think that’s complete BS. Vaginal reconstructive surgery is a thing. I don’t care what anyone says, giving birth a few times definitely makes it looser. Shoving large objects like bowling balls or 3 foot dildos up there will make it looser. Age and hormone changes later in life can have an effect.
You’re 23, and I’m semi certain those things don’t apply to you. I’m just guessing here, but I bet he had trouble finishing and blamed it on your vagina being loose. Well, alcohol can make it hard to finish as can excessive masturbation practices that involve tight grips. The body becomes used to that and then a real vagina just doesn’t get the job done. So can excessive pornography use.
Sounds like he’s acting like a jerk. I’m sure whatever the problem is, it’s his problem and the problem is not you.
I can't tell you what he is thinking but I can tell you that vaginas come in all kinds of shapes and sizes. It could very well be that he is not the right size for you or you for him. It could also be that you weren't stimulated enough to grip down. When women are excited their muscles tighten. But if you aren't as into it or ready you could be more relaxed. But his attitude and what he said is a problem. Guys that talk or act like that are not ready for commitment. Too immature. Very jerk like behavior.
He is insecure about his penis being smaller than the last guy you were with and that after awhile you'll leave him for someone more well endowed.
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Because who the fuck complains to a woman that her pussy is too wide, never mind a woman who is on her early 20s.
LOL Who IS this guy? He sounds way too insecure. LOL You should have told him that you used a large vibrator before he came over just to see how he would respond to THAT...
He did think you were sleeping with someone else.
Or, his weiner is small and did not feel anything anyway. What a clod!
Sounds to me like you need a new guy that will have a LOT more respect for you.
Tell him that he got a small dick and show him the door. If people don't respect you, you shouldn't be respectful to them.
Probably, but if that’s the case the guy sounds like an idiot. Pussy tighten back up after sex, Just like a penis gets hard when stimulated the push get more relaxed your pussy is probably use to the guy by down so it know how to react to him now
🤣🤣🤣🤣 really? He said that? Does he know it expands when a girl is aroused? What an idiot.
My ex was tight lol don't know now. I swear I aroused her reeeeally good omg it will expand and hell she was unleashed omg she will f you up. 🤦♂️. This dude is insecure, how old is he?
One of the more strange things I have heard today.
Just to be sure I understand correctly; he is your boyfriend and you guys have had sex before?
I hope nobody is naive enough to actually think, that having sex with somebody else, will ruin a pussy. It doesn't really work like that.
It's hard to say what motivated him to say that, but to me, it sounds more like a mean way to hurt you, by saying that your pussy is wide.
Maybe you should ask him, if it isn't just his dick that is too small to really feel what a woman should be like...
It's hard to think about what he is thinking but he shouldn't judge you I would show him the door
I feel bad when he tells me that
Yes this is sad
Lmao this has to be a troll, just tell him he has a small dick, that'll rile him up
Yep. That's how men think. My wife's one car garage turned into a 2 car garage overnight.
I was quite correct. She tried to hide it with kegals but would almost pass out from exhaustion.
This is a sterotip that many guys belive it. Some time even me.
But all the pussy are diferents
Why isn't you're pussie tight. ? ♀️
He's making excuses to complain.
All depends have you let someone else in... besides him?
Probably, but he's an idiot. Even if you were cheating, your pussy would still be as tight as it always was after you lost your virginity.
Gotta admit, he sounds like an idiot, sooo.. possibly.
this is normal, the entire situation is normal. after you have had sex your muscles do contort some and it may seem loss. to guys that dont understand some of the human body they will assume that you are sleeping with other guys if your pussy isn't as tight as other times. there are exercises that you can do that can tighten your pussy, so i have been told. you can try kegel exercises
If he does he’s an idiot
Yes he thinks that ur cheating on him
May be... You only know whether u slept with other guy or not... It's very natural for any man to ask her girl if she isn't tight he has right to know the reason so go ahead and tell him the reason 😇
No, it isn't only natural for a guy to ask a girl why she isn't tight and to assume she's been fucking another guy. Wtf! That's not how vaginas work! Has the world gone so mad? 😩
I understand your point but still thats my opinion 😬
Your opinion is a man has the right to know why a woman's vagina isn't tight enough for his entitled ass?
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