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  • It should not. If it hurts then either of you (or most likely both of you) are doing it wrong. I am not saying you should be ashamed of it since its obviously not something you seam to have all that much experience about but I would urge you to consider learning.

    If by practice or examples online or in your real life, teach yourself how to (for lack of better words) accept it as well as what you should expect from your partner. Since I expect you are in a relationship or plan to be in one where the guy is the driving factor he also carries the larger responsibility of knowing what to do during sex as well. If you can give him some guidance that will probably help you as well.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • It can but it shouldn't. Uncomfortable is fine for the first few times. You'll most likely be nervous, therefore you'll subconsciously tighten up, which can kinda hurt. The more you have sex, the more you'll start to adjust. Pain is never okay, if it hurts, stop. Discomfort, just take it easier or go back to the foreplay. But pain is a no no. Go back to the foreplay. If it's still uncomfortable, try it again some other time. Use some lube. If he is too rough it can also hurt, or there is friction, or it just been going on for too long

  • The first couple of times there was some slight discomfort. If you take your time and are comfortable with the guy and your surroundings that's going to help you out more than anything whether you have a painful first time or not. The biggest factor is going to be the guy, if he takes his time, gets you ready then you'll be fine, don't let him rush you along, you're in control so make sure he understands it.

  • oh my god! how cute are you! it can hurt the first time, its something your body is not used to. It depends on several factors, your size down there, his size down there, how lubricated you are, etc. Have you experimented with toys before? it might give you a little "practice" so you can get ready for it. It usually gets better with time, so don't get discouraged!

  • Yeah like getting a big ass snake in your womanhood

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes it hurts very painful

    • No, it shouldn't be painful, that means they're doing it wrong.

  • Yes for the first time only.

  • Not if you wearing an underwear, like the man and woman who are in the picture. :D

  • Not really. Period pain is 10x worse. You'll live.

  • If you are doing it wrong yes

  • if ypur a first timer. a virgin woth your hymin intact then yes it will hurt a bit. but after it will hurt less. im sorry im not trying to scare you more but most girls say it does hurt but not too bad if your a virgin

  • Nope.

  • If it hurts the guy is a barbarian or the girl is too nervous and not eager to have sex.

  • if you are doing it with me, It will hurt

    • then you're doing it wrong.

    • @amarahorrorstory why?

    • It isn't good to be hurting your partner during sex unless they request that. If you're hurting her just because of the way you do it or because of your "size" it means you don't know how to use the damn thing.

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  • Only for the first time or when it's really really bad or when it's really really really good.

  • ok so i assume you´re a virgin. for a virgin it´s not about "just jamming a dick in there" if you do that, it will most likely hurt... but you don´t have to do it like that xD you can do it slow. you have to trust your partner anyway. you can can control how much it hurts or if it hurts at all.

    • i highly recommend sitting down on him. thereby you can control how far you want to go. you have all the time in the world and you don´t need to go all in on the first time.

  • If he does his job right, and gets you extremely turned on, it should not hurt badly, It might hurt a little, but it will go away very quickly.

  • It shouldn't hurt if you do it right. Maybe uncomfortable

  • For me it only hurt the first few times then it stopped hurting and soon after started feeling good.

  • Itay hurt you or maybe not... But even if it does for you it will only happen the first time... and will get as you have more and more sex

  • I don't know because I am ugly

  • I've heard it hurts.

  • If you feel uncomfortable don't do it

  • If you are properly lubricated and relaxed, and he is gentle you should not feel pain. Theoretically at least.

  • it can hurt the first time, but you shouldn't be scared because of it

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