Does sexual intercourse hurts?

[hBad_Girl-]

I am scared 😔

[Soteris]

It should not. If it hurts then either of you (or most likely both of you) are doing it wrong. I am not saying you should be ashamed of it since its obviously not something you seam to have all that much experience about but I would urge you to consider learning.

If by practice or examples online or in your real life, teach yourself how to (for lack of better words) accept it as well as what you should expect from your partner. Since I expect you are in a relationship or plan to be in one where the guy is the driving factor he also carries the larger responsibility of knowing what to do during sex as well. If you can give him some guidance that will probably help you as well.

[amarahorrorstory]

It can but it shouldn't. Uncomfortable is fine for the first few times. You'll most likely be nervous, therefore you'll subconsciously tighten up, which can kinda hurt. The more you have sex, the more you'll start to adjust. Pain is never okay, if it hurts, stop. Discomfort, just take it easier or go back to the foreplay. But pain is a no no. Go back to the foreplay. If it's still uncomfortable, try it again some other time. Use some lube. If he is too rough it can also hurt, or there is friction, or it just been going on for too long

[SammyGurl]

The first couple of times there was some slight discomfort. If you take your time and are comfortable with the guy and your surroundings that's going to help you out more than anything whether you have a painful first time or not. The biggest factor is going to be the guy, if he takes his time, gets you ready then you'll be fine, don't let him rush you along, you're in control so make sure he understands it.

[Mydnite]

oh my god! how cute are you! it can hurt the first time, its something your body is not used to. It depends on several factors, your size down there, his size down there, how lubricated you are, etc. Have you experimented with toys before? it might give you a little "practice" so you can get ready for it. It usually gets better with time, so don't get discouraged!

[SachaBastion69]

Yeah like getting a big ass snake in your womanhood

[alexkarad]

Yes it hurts very painful

[amarahorrorstory]

No, it shouldn't be painful, that means they're doing it wrong.

[Hotpink94]

Yes for the first time only.

[Berethor]

Not if you wearing an underwear, like the man and woman who are in the picture. :D

[WillowTree]

Not really. Period pain is 10x worse. You'll live.

[Mesonfielde]

If you are doing it wrong yes

[2167Phillip]

if ypur a first timer. a virgin woth your hymin intact then yes it will hurt a bit. but after it will hurt less. im sorry im not trying to scare you more but most girls say it does hurt but not too bad if your a virgin

[LadyTerror]

Nope.

[jacquesvol]

If it hurts the guy is a barbarian or the girl is too nervous and not eager to have sex.

[jacquesvol]

You might want to read what I wrote here:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1178062-losing-ur-virginity-how-painful-it-is-guys

[Bobbyhill1]

if you are doing it with me, It will hurt

[amarahorrorstory]

then you're doing it wrong.

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory why?

[amarahorrorstory]

It isn't good to be hurting your partner during sex unless they request that. If you're hurting her just because of the way you do it or because of your "size" it means you don't know how to use the damn thing.

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory I know how to use it, my goal is to cause pain.

[amarahorrorstory]

Why would you want to do that?

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory I like to see others in pain

[amarahorrorstory]

well, I hope you're sleeping with people who like that sort of thing

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory I dont tell them until after the fact

[amarahorrorstory]

Well, I hope you stop when they ask you too, cause if you don't that's kinda fucked up

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory I only stop when I hear their cries

[amarahorrorstory]

That's kinda fucked. I hope you're joking, there are lots of people who like that rape fantasy rough stuff. Maybe you should look into it.

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory its not rape, they love it

[amarahorrorstory]

didn't say it was rape, I said there are people who like that sort of thing, rather than making girls endure it until they cry. If she wants it that's fine but if you're just going until she cries regardless of whether she asked you to or not, that's pretty fucked.

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory why is it fucked up?

[amarahorrorstory]

Not telling someone you were going to purposely hurt them during sexual activity and only stopping if she cries? That is. If she enjoys the pain (which I think she should probably be warned about prior to intercourse) and wants to do it that way, doesn't mind you continuing until you can visibly see the pain on her face because that's what she likes (I think having a safe word is probably a good idea too) then that's fine, do you. I'm just saying, doing that to people without control of the situation is definitely a little fucked.

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory you are very gullible you know that?

[amarahorrorstory]

Well, I mean obviously you're trolling, I knew that about three responses ago but it's nice to have a conversation that's borderline debate here without them getting incredibly rude.

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory so if I were rude you would have approached this differently?

[amarahorrorstory]

No, I'm just saying usually with conversation like this people get nasty with you on here, and go on rants about sexism, double standards and feminism, honestly just anything they can bring up that had nothing to do with the conversation. It didn't turn into that so I was tempted to see how far it would go. I mean, your username is Bobbyhill1 for crying out loud. You said you like to see women cry and cause people pain, of course you aren't serious.

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory lol

[Bobbyhill1]

im serious sometimes. its good to laugh a bit

[amarahorrorstory]

Of course, people take shit too seriously on here. Everyone is still crying over old relationships, still crying over ex's so they have deemed the opposite sex as evil, gets old so fast, people can't lighten up

[Bobbyhill1]

@amarahorrorstory lol yep

[worldscolide]

If he does his job right, and gets you extremely turned on, it should not hurt badly, It might hurt a little, but it will go away very quickly.

[Tarvold]

Only for the first time or when it's really really bad or when it's really really really good.

[genericname85]

ok so i assume you´re a virgin. for a virgin it´s not about "just jamming a dick in there" if you do that, it will most likely hurt... but you don´t have to do it like that xD you can do it slow. you have to trust your partner anyway. you can can control how much it hurts or if it hurts at all.

[genericname85]

i highly recommend sitting down on him. thereby you can control how far you want to go. you have all the time in the world and you don´t need to go all in on the first time.

[akadatank44]

It shouldn't hurt if you do it right. Maybe uncomfortable

[TacosRAwesome]

For me it only hurt the first few times then it stopped hurting and soon after started feeling good.

[singlebee]

Itay hurt you or maybe not... But even if it does for you it will only happen the first time... and will get as you have more and more sex

[UglyButHonorable]

I don't know because I am ugly

[sj2107]

I've heard it hurts.

[Toad-1]

If you feel uncomfortable don't do it

[Thisperson98]

If you are properly lubricated and relaxed, and he is gentle you should not feel pain. Theoretically at least.

[Yumix]

it can hurt the first time, but you shouldn't be scared because of it