Does virginity matter in a spouse? Is being a 24yr old virgin girl fine?

Does virginity matter in a spouse? Is being a 24yr old virgin girl fine?
I would want to be my partner's first, I don't mind their age
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I want to be my partner's first, I do care about their age
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I don't care/mind if my partner has a body count and I don't care about their age
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I don't care/mind if my partner has a body count but their age/number matters
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  • A 24-year-old virgin is definitely fine.

    I'm 35, so I would PREFER someone my own age (note that I said "prefer"; it's not a requirement), but that is just because I think we might have more in common if we grew up in the same era. And also it would be kind of cool to reward her for waiting that long. Like, it would be sweet if we could finally "find each other."

    Having said that, I don't really want to get hung up on age. Especially since there are other things that matter a lot more.

    • Thanks for the MHO.

  • I also want to be her last and only. Luckily I will probably be with my girlfriend, we're probably going to get married. We've never fought in 4 years, just a few things where one of us was mad at the other, but never a fight. She was 33 when she gave me her virginity and age was never important. If we were to break up and I would date someone else, I wouldn't care about virginity, I am glad my first was her first.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Pretty much the only spouses it matters to are the ones who are also virgins.

  • Nope, doesn't concern me.

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  • Virginity matters to me because I am saving that for marraige and I don't want a partner who can compare me to past partners.

  • I really am not worried about if she’s a virgin or not.

    it’s her life and her experiences that she is living.

    personally it’s wrong for a person to live a controlled life when they could be doing as they want to do.

    If she’s a 24 old virgin it’s fine, if she’s not a virgin it’s fine.

    she is still the same person.

    unless you ask her directly, then you really don’t know if she is or is not.

  • As a virgin myself, being with a virgin for my first time is the ideal scenario, but It's so unlikely that I don't even bother about it anymore. Not sleeping around to the point that I question her health or her concept of intimacy and fidelity is enough for me.

  • If she too old to have children it might be a problem, otherwise virgin girls are better.

  • I want to wait until marriage and nothign wrong with having morals

  • Not somthing I'm overly bothered by aslong as u haven't slept with my friends or enough guys that u are spotted in the street for it not a issue

  • You do what works for you. Personally I thank you for wasted about 6 years of your life missing out on sexual experiences. I've never understood why a man insists on breaking a girl's hymen on their wedding night. He could possibly be the worst lover on the planet and you're stuck with him for the rest of your life. Good luck

  • Most guys don't care how many you slept as long as you're not a sex worker or cam girl. Even then some guys won't care. Virginity is hard to find, so it's a good thing.

  • A 24yo virgin is fine.

    I think most of us would prefer a partner close to our age. But it doesn't always work out that way. Any age difference can work. My mother was 35 years younger than my father, and they were married for 40 years, until he passed away.

  • I understand that everyone has a past but if somebody has an unusually high body count it would give me pause.

  • I do not date virgins.

  • I don't mind if she's not a virgin provided her sexual history is not into the double digits. her age isn't much of an issue provided she is legal to consent however.

  • Maybe I’m old school but I think you should remain a virgin until married regardless of age.

    • I agree it's special

  • Depends on the person if they are religious or not

  • It's preferable, to me. But keep in mind preference varies heavily among people.

  • Some people like virgins, some don't

    Can't please everyone

  • Yes it's perfectly fine. It's actually desired by some men.

  • Virginity is important to me.

  • hold it in until you are 60 lol

  • If she is my wife and is a virgin won't bother me

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