Don't you think this is absolutely creepy?

[JessieBellll]

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/842763/mum-35-i-seduced-boy-at-16-im-not-ashamed-the-sex-is-great/amp/

These parents let their 16 year old son date and have sex with a 35 year old woman who brags about seducing him.

I think they are alll complete losers, it may be legal but they are ruining their child's life. She's a total pervert.

[varan69]

?


Ok yes its not right looking at it from this point of view and being /thinking as an adult... buuuut thinking when we were, cuz we all have been there 16 year old, thinking being 16 and messing around with an older lady that was a dream or Fantasy to some isn't. Ok hope no opinion gets rejected 😊

[JessieBellll]

So you agree she's a total pervert?

[varan69]

Part of her yes or just yes. I guess... Because in many peoples eyes he still a kid

[JessieBellll]

Exactly, it's like if it was a man

[varan69]

It always sounds worst when a guy does it to a younger girl and yes I disagree on that one. Not to much when a girl to a younger guy

[varan69]

Thank you

[Wiredone]

So that's the woman that you were talking about? In my eyes she's a discusting pedophile and she should be locked up just like the guy that saw the young girl. I don't care if it is legal or not, a 37 year old should not be with a 16 year old.

[JessieBellll]

Yeah

[JessieBellll]

She's disgusting

[Wiredone]

Yes she is.

[proNutro]

That’s just disgusting. What the hell is wrong with people?

[JessieBellll]

She was fucked in the head

[proNutro]

Yeah I can imagine. Someone like that show be put in jail snd far from kids.

[luvstoned4him]

very creepy

[JessieBellll]

If that would be my kid I'd teach her a lesson

[luvstoned4him]

I know right

[Hogwheels]

It is disgusting

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, this seems like an absolute dereliction of duty as a parent.

[JessieBellll]

What about her?

[OlderAndWiser]

Her behavior seems to be predatory.

[JessieBellll]

The parents can't do anything, why blame her?

[OlderAndWiser]

Having the legal right to have sex with the boy doesn't mean it is the right thing to do. Morality requires more than the law requires.

[JessieBellll]

But they can't do anything... Do you want them to shoot her?

[OlderAndWiser]

No, I don't recommend shooting. All Americans are not cowboys! There may be nothing they can do about what she has done except to be more vigilant in protecting their son in the future. The fact that nothing can be done about her does not make her actions right.

[JessieBellll]

I would give her a beating

[smilinjackal]

Ah I see boy B. Yup that is too young. I am still not opposed to the age gap. 40 and 20 is fine. If it is leagal than there really isn't anything to say.

[JessieBellll]

So if it's legal, it's OK for a 16 year old girl to fuck a 30 year old?

[smilinjackal]

If it is legal yes. I don't agree with it being legal. But there is nothing to do about it. In central america age of consent is 12. Down right twisted. A 16 year old knows what they are doing. They know fight from wrong. The problem is lack of wisdom. They are easily taken advantage of. So age of consent is set to hinder that. We let them make decisions and take responsibility. So yeah it is ok. But I dont like it.

[JessieBellll]

I want to believe it, but this woman in the article looks like a sexual predator to me. She seems to have manipulating the boy.

[smilinjackal]

Yeah. I dont know about predator. They both look like trash. At least they are not related.

[JessieBellll]

Erm why both? WHY are you blaming the child?

[smilinjackal]

Not blaming anyone. They just both look uneducated classless creepy people. Not prone to making good choices. And I still think that 16 year old knows what he is doing. At 16 I fantasized about older women. Some teachers, college girls, a few moms. I still dont agree with it.

[JessieBellll]

I agree that 16 year olds know what they are doing, but a 35 year old will always have upper hand and can manipulating or deluded a 16 year old. The fact they are full of hormones just shows they are not ready for sex or relationship with someone much older. I think it's 100% the adults fault here, which is the woman in this case. She seems to be mentally handicapped

[smilinjackal]

I don't disagree with you. My personal history with this scenario makes for an extended dialog. It also adds to my seeing both sides. Once, long ago I knew a 15 girl who had a lot of sex... with older guys. She knew exactly what she was doing. She turned them into pedos. It was a few years later that I became aware of all this because I was there when a guy she screwed found out how old she was when he had screwed her several years earlier. He was devastated to realize he had sex with a kid. So I do see it go both ways. None of it is ok. I was quite traumatize from it all.

[JessieBellll]

I see, In that case it's pretty fucked up. The kid is definitely at fault, but I don't see boys pulling such shit off. This is one reason I feel more sympathy for male pedos

[WesBrewer]

100% really creepy.

[HeyMikeyLikesIt]

The majority of society doesn’t give a shit about guys as victims, only women. And thats backed up by media rarely bringing up the young male victims. I think either sex is a pedophile if they go after a minor and the adult is 100%to blame. But I also don’t really feel bad for a 16 year old kid, having been one and knowing how desperate you can be for any sexual attention at times and I wouldn't have cared lol but I do care about the “predator” 35 year old man going after a 16 year old girl. But thats just me

[JessieBellll]

Good for you, nice start, but you made yourself look like bad at the end, saying you don't care about female predators when you called them a pedophile and saying they are to blame.

[JessieBellll]

*really bad

[JessieBellll]

People on here sure disagree with you though in regards to not caring about male victims Or are they all fake?

[HeyMikeyLikesIt]

I think context has a lot to do with what I mean, we all care about someone being a victim, but the priority is definitely not the same, and the level of attention is what I really meant. Does that make better sense?

[JessieBellll]

I think people assume its always a girl, because of media, and they might care more for girls, but it's definitely not significant. People care a lot for both male and female victims in my experience. Double standards in sex are over exaggerated by the media in my opinion

[JessieBellll]

How do you care about the 35 year old man predator?

[HeyMikeyLikesIt]

Oh he should be jailed

[JessieBellll]

But it's legal, so how?

[JessieBellll]

And you don't care this woman in the question is free and manipulating the boy? Well I am happy you are bothered about male"predators" Especially because my daughter had a much older lover at this age and the man got away with it.

[mistixs]

Disgusting

[JessieBellll]

What would you do if it was your child

[AndyOh]

Yeah some people...
If they let their son have sex with the older gal, so be it. It is their decision.

[JessieBellll]

I would never allow it

[Jjpayne]

Yeah, that is a little much

[pierre7i]

Not only are the boy's parents weird but the 35-year old woman is really creepy to brag about seducing a 16-year old boyHer children must be mortified with her !

[JessieBellll]

She doesn't have any

[DrAdams]

Very creepy and inappropriate

[Avicenna]

That’s beyond creepy

[JessieBellll]

Tell me about it

[nodnol32]

Defo is.

[boombastik]

Is it legal or does it require the parents permission? I find it a little odd that she's running around bragging but a 16yr old is just as much a man in the bed as a 35yr old. Men hit their prime at around 18 where as women don't hit their prime until around 35 so both are in their sexual prime. Is it politically correct, probably not.

[JessieBellll]

No parent consent needed. I disagree that a 16 year old is like a 35 year old. It's perverted

[JessieBellll]

Why go for a boy when there are experienced men? She's just a pervert

[boombastik]

Everyone would think it was his mom. That right there is enough to make things weird

[JessieBellll]

That too She doesn't see it as a big deal. She is creepy as fuck

[JessieBellll]

If it was my kid I'd teach her a lesson she'll never forget!!!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, it's creepy for a woman age 35 to have sex with a 16-year guy and get pregnant with him just makes no sense why people do these things?

[JessieBellll]

She has a mental illness. She has the mental development of a 16 year old

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@jessiebellll Well that can answer things

[havingfun101]

Introduce him to suitable people?

[JessieBellll]

That's what the parents should have done ages ago. But I bet she manipulated him.

[JessieBellll]

Too late, she is obviously manipulating him

[JessieBellll]

They should have done it when there was time

[havingfun101]

Still though, a good ole fertility dance can work if unmarried. 🕺💃

[JessieBellll]

What are you talking about

[havingfun101]

A youger woman is more attractive on an instinctual level. 🖖

[JessieBellll]

Not if that creepy old hag is there clinging to him. She needs to be eliminated

[havingfun101]

Introduce competition

[JessieBellll]

Why not just beat the fuck out her?

[havingfun101]

Although 18 states had outlawed dueling by 1859, it was still often practiced in the South and the West. Dueling became less common in the years following the Civil War, with the collective public opinion perhaps soured by the amount of bloodshed during the conflict.

[JessieBellll]

I am not talking about dueling

[havingfun101]

Ya dumb butt licker.

[JessieBellll]

I'd love to lick yours

[havingfun101]

My cock is too big for your teacup vagina, butt licker.

[JessieBellll]

Why am I dumb?

[havingfun101]

U: mad at her Me: duel U: not technically dueling Me: dammit, butt licker!

[JessieBellll]

You never asked me to fight her

[havingfun101]

Me: Introduce competition U: Why not just beat the fuck out her? Me: dueling history U: I am not talking about dueling Me: double dammit, butt licker!

[JessieBellll]

I am not interested in your stupid duelist history. I would just go there and fuck her up.

[havingfun101]

I caught that the first time. Introduce some better women or lay down with the dogs and get fleas, as the saying goes.

[JessieBellll]

Oh yeah, OK her face and name will be plastered all over the media branded as a pervert then. Bingo.

[havingfun101]

Fleas, rather than honey... really butt licker? You're cute-stupid.

[JessieBellll]

You seem triggered

[havingfun101]

Whatever. Petty squabbles with return of the mummy suits you, butt licker.

[JessieBellll]

You seem like to like this creepy old woman in the question don't you?

[havingfun101]

I like that she gives you hassles, butt licker. Younger girls are really the only way to separate a simp from a succubus.

[JessieBellll]

But you get triggered I would whoop her ass. Why do you care about creeps who can't get men so much?

[havingfun101]

TL;DR: operation eye candy Dammit, butt licker. I care about you and my boy the simp. He's going to be wrecked when she can't spend his money for any reason. That's what it always comes down to with women and old ones especially.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

What can I say, Women card definetly works 🤷‍♂️, see she isn't jailed? Why? Yup creepy as fuck, I have seen women are biased to women being perverts and are ok but they are quick to name a man and accuse.

But still in both cases its wrong..

[JessieBellll]

It's legal

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Oh 16 is legal in UK, ok

[bolverk]

Clear double standards, If she had been male and he female, she would have been jailed.

[JessieBellll]

It's legal

[JessieBellll]

Just look at the article

[JessieBellll]

What do you think about it

[bolverk]

Ok, the only difference is the male teacher abducted his student. I still maintain its a case of double standards as a female she receives few if any repercussions and the whole thing treated like a fairy story, If the sexes were flipped and it was a male teacher having an affair with a sixteen yo female student he'd have been pilloried in the national press and if possible tarred and feathered even if it was a legal relationship.

[JessieBellll]

But I mean your personal view

[RingOfFire]

I don't know, I have mixed feelings. When I was a teenager I had sex with 30 something women a few times. One time it was my teacher. I don't think it did me any harm and I enjoyed it a lot.

Probably won't be a popular opinion, but I think it's more harmful for a girl than a boy.

Can't say I would be happy as a parent knowing my kid was doing that (either son or daughter), and I'm pretty sure my parents wouldn't have been happy about it if they knew. But they didn't know and it frankly is a good memory for me.

I'm not recommending or condoning it. It might not be a good experience for everyone. I can only talk about my own experience.

[RingOfFire]

I can add this... if some 30 something guy did this with my 16 year old daughter I would go ballistic. No way. I'd honestly feel less angry about it if it was my 16 year old son and a 30 something woman... although I still wouldn't be happy about it.

[RingOfFire]

And that's assuming it was legal. If it was not legal I would be furious either way.

[JessieBellll]

Okay I just think you are looking at it from the wrong perspective. This woman is manipulating him and being a total creep. If you actually look at her behaviour. What could you do if it was your daughter? I know tons of girls who were in this situation, girls are just as stubborn as boys. It happened with my daughter actually. Wasn't good at all.

[RingOfFire]

"What could you do if it was your daughter?" Shoot the guy.

[JessieBellll]

Hahaha good one

[RingOfFire]

I didn't read the article so I don't know exactly what this woman did. My comments were general comments on the topic. That doesn't mean there aren't cases where the older person does something bad. You could make a case that every time a 15 year old has sex with a 30 something adult that the adult "seduced" them. That's what the statutory rape laws are about which say that no matter if the younger person consents or not it is still considered rape and assumed that the older adult seduced the child. But since you said that this was not an illegal act in the location it took place, those legal concepts don't apply except from a moral point of view. In general, I think 18 is the right age for most people being able to make a rational decision about whether or not to have sex and that it is the best age to set legal age of consent. Children under 18 generally don't understand the implications of their actions and should be protected from being taken advantage of. In the US, 18 is the legal age of consent in most (but not all) places. I think the youngest is 16 and in my opinion that's too young.

[JessieBellll]

The adult is always wrong, that's what majority agree on. The woman does seduce the boy most of the time. This is why I prefer men with young girls. They seem less of a pervert

[JessieBellll]

General comments are irrelevant here as it's about a specific case

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, they are all a bunch of creeps all around. The kid is the most innocent one, though.

[JessieBellll]

What can the parents do

[Jamie05rhs]

They could maybe not be bad parents? I don't know; start there, maybe.

[JessieBellll]

If she manipulated him there's nothing that can be done

[JessieBellll]

She's the predator

[art84]

Creepy indeed.

[Gedaria]

Possibly right. But if it's legal who can say it's wrong. The same thing could happen if he was 21.
We all have our opinions about things like this , but it's not safe to generalise

[JessieBellll]

16 is quite different from 21 mentally and physically

[Gedaria]

I didn't mean it like that. But at that age you cannot say don't do that One of my daughters was active at 16. I talked to her , tried to get into her head. I was surprised at her answer. She said I saw you and mum doing it , it looked great , so I had have a go. We had protection , I saw the doctor he gave me a pill and we use condoms.. She also said her older sister is doing it as well , she was 18. So it's not easy.

[JessieBellll]

Okay but she didn't have sex with some middle aged man. I think this is a complete different situation

[Gedaria]

Why does it make any difference about the guys age. I know what you mean but it should not make a difference..

[pizzalovershouse]

Yes an i would think the same if it was a 16yr old girl

[Lion91]

Well She can be charged for Rape. Doesn't have to be the Opposite Sex. Find it very Interesting and Funny how they Stereotype Men with such matters

[JessieBellll]

It's legal there

[Lion91]

Yes it is

[JessieBellll]

That wasn't the point of the question

[Lion91]

Well She can be Charged for Rape and the Parents can be charged for Child Abuse. So all of them are stupid. I agree 👍

[JessieBellll]

But she is the worst no?

[Lion91]

Yes 👍

[Filip127]

I wouldn't say that it's creepy. I would say that that it is very weird and pervert.

[JessieBellll]

You mean she is a pervert?

[Filip127]

Yes, I mean the woman.

[Valnac]

That is creepy

[Ilikegirls2-2]

So creepy. She is a lunatic. She makes absolutely no sense. She should be jailed

[scooogy]

Makes me cringe even reading the short description of that

[JessieBellll]

Tell me about it

[scooogy]

Today I read about men being sexually harassed by older women at work, and they experienced even worse things.

[JessieBellll]

What do you think should happen to this woman

[scooogy]

lock her up, for good.

[Waldoe]

I cannot even imagine allowing my child to be with any adult, Call The Police!!!

[Karlsson76]

Not sure

[EaterPeter]

It is creepy.

[portlandjason]

Extremely creepy, a felony.

[TheAfrikan]

They all Paverts.

[JessieBellll]

What do you mean

[JessieBellll]

How are they all perverts?

[TheAfrikan]

The parent as well as that lady who is dating the kid maune also that kid of 16 years he had a right to say no.

[JessieBellll]

But she is manipulating him with sex. You can't blame him. He knows shit. And how is the parent a pervert?

[TheAfrikan]

How would a parent let thete 16 yr old to date a 35 yr old lady.

[JessieBellll]

Maybe they can't do anything?

[JessieBellll]

She is the main problem

[rebeliouse]

is it legal that age?

[JessieBellll]

Year

[rebeliouse]

so whats the issue then?

[JessieBellll]

Read what I wrote

[rebeliouse]

I did read what you wrote 16 year having sex with at 35 year old

[JessieBellll]

And you see nothing wrong with it

[rebeliouse]

is it wrong for a 25 year old to have sex with a 45 year old?

[JessieBellll]

So you would be ok with your daughter dating and having a baby with a 35 year old?

[rebeliouse]

is the 35 having a kid with the 16 year old or just sex?

[JessieBellll]

Sex...

[JessieBellll]

So would you be OK with it?

[JessieBellll]

If you think a 16 year old and 25 year old are the same you are just as creepy as this woman

[rebeliouse]

so if they are only having sex whats the issue how does that compare to a 16 year old girl getting pregnant? don't see your argument there as totally different

[JessieBellll]

I didn't say she's getting pregnant.

[rebeliouse]

quote "So you would be ok with your daughter dating and having a baby with a 35 year old? "

[JessieBellll]

You asked me later if they are having sex or baby. I said sex. If birth control is used then there is no worry for pregnancy

[rebeliouse]

you compared it to a daughter having a baby though

[JessieBellll]

OK she wouldn't

[JessieBellll]

My point is the 35 year old is a pervert here because they are in control of the 16 year old and is taking advantage of them

[rebeliouse]

how do u know he is not taking advantage of her?

[JessieBellll]

Because she seduced him

[JessieBellll]

You wouldn't feel be saying this crap if it was a man

[rebeliouse]

maybe he wanted to be seduced?

[JessieBellll]

I doubt it, it doesn't change a thing

[rebeliouse]

really u dont think its every boy / mans dream to be seduced and wanted for sex?

[JessieBellll]

No And it doesn't make the adult any less wrong in my opinion

[JessieBellll]

You are just biased

[rebeliouse]

if its legal then are they not both classed adult?

[rebeliouse]

how exactly am i biased?

[JessieBellll]

It's still a child if you can't understand that that's a serious problem Because you would shun a man for doing it

[JessieBellll]

Many things are legal but it doesn't mean it's right

[rebeliouse]

so if your correct in saying its still a child at 16 then how come the law lets children have sex? that makes no sense if 16 is still a child the law would lot let them have sex at that age

[JessieBellll]

Everyone normal knows it's a child, they can't drive, buy alcohol etc just because they can consent to sex doesn't mean they are not a child

[rebeliouse]

well i would say the age of consent is more fucked up than the situation in that case!

[JessieBellll]

That's creepy

[rebeliouse]

whats creepy that the age of consent is not high enough? try Portugal that's even worse!

[JessieBellll]

It's creepy you think this situation is ok

[rebeliouse]

did i ever say it was ok?

[JessieBellll]

You said what's the issue It sounded you are OK with it

[rebeliouse]

said whats the issue if its legal

[JessieBellll]

And you don't seem to have any issues with it, that's the creepy part

[rebeliouse]

what creepy part?

[JessieBellll]

That she seduced a kid

[rebeliouse]

but she didn't did she as we have determined he is of legal age!

[JessieBellll]

16 is a child It's the same as if a man seduced a 16 year old girl

[rebeliouse]

how can it be a child if 16 is legal age to have sex? it would be creepy if kids were having sex

[JessieBellll]

You don't know what a child is... A 35 year old is totally different to a teenager and is taking advantage even if they enjoy it

[rebeliouse]

well a 16 year old is a teenager and not a child as they can ride a small motorbike legally and can have sex legally. your argument has no basis! 16 is not a child get over it

[JessieBellll]

So you'd be OK with your daughter fucking an older man?

[rebeliouse]

oh my god you questions are so dumb. Every ones daughter usually gets round to fucking someone and she may be 44 and he is 45 so how would i be against that!

[JessieBellll]

What if she was 16 and he 40? I don't see it as a problem

[rebeliouse]

you don't see it as a problem if she is 16 and he is 40?

[JessieBellll]

That's what you said

[rebeliouse]

no you stated that you don't see a 16 year old girl having sex with a 40 year old as a problem. I was just trying to understand because if you state that you dont see a problem with a 16 year old girl having sex with a 40 year old then I dont see why you have issue with a 16 year old boy having sex with a thirty year old woman. your argument makes no sense at all!

[JessieBellll]

I do see it as a problem. But I am Asking you!

[Alexalex92]

Crazy stuff is happening

[JessieBellll]

What do you mean

[JessieBellll]

What do you think about it?

[Alexalex92]

I mean the world is messed up

[JessieBellll]

How does that relate to this question?

[Alexalex92]

Because of the case you wrote

[JessieBellll]

So you think its creepy and she is a pervert?

[Alexalex92]

Yes..

[Calgarydirty69]

she can't find a man her own age

[JessieBellll]

What a creep

[bones0271]

How gross

[JessieBellll]

I know

[berserk945]

I too agree, if he was 18 thats his decision at that point

[Willoughby23]

Yes but if she was actually attractive and didn't get pregnant id be fine with it

[JessieBellll]

Why?

[Willoughby23]

Cause when i was 16 I would have loved to bang a hot milf but I dont want kids ever in my life let alone at the age of 16

[JessieBellll]

Well you have to look at it from the adult side, you are not 16 anymore

[Willoughby23]

Im 23 so im technically a young adult

[JessieBellll]

No you are an adult, you shouldn't think like a kid. That's creepy

[Willoughby23]

Just sayin if it wasn't that ugly women he was with and it was a milf i would of been all over banging a hot 35 year old milf when i was 16. Definitely wouldn’t wanna get her pregnant. Thats just my opinion

[sydneyboy]

I have no problem with this I love it and I bet he does too.

[Sampan2017]

Yes agreed

[lplioukimyuntrbevcw]

yes message me

[Anonymous]

The age of consent is 16 in the UK. Those are the coolest parents ever! Let the kid have some fun

[JessieBellll]

That's creepy but I understand it

[Anonymous]

I think its normal enough. 16 is adult in my view.

[JessieBellll]

Okay