Eating me out helps my boyfriend feel good in his depression?

My boyfriend is kinda depressed now a days. He said eating me out helps him. But he eats me very often. He is a giver in terms of sex. He would lick whenever he don't feels good. An year ago when I used to live with my parents he would sneak in we cuddle and he would down on me again. Now we live together he eats me out for like 3-4 times in a day. He wakes me up by licking. The other day I was watching a movie, he came sat for 10 minutes and again starts licking it. He licks me everyday. Sometimes he would eat me out in midnight and next morning found him sleep between my thighs. I'm confused why he do that? Though I give him blowjob back but he said he would rather lick me down there. Why?
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  • He and I are kindred souls.
    This is my take... he absolutely adores you but has difficulty expressing himself. Giving you pleasure gives him pleasure.
    He considers himself blessed and fortunate and honored that you even love him and he's desperate for you to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he truly adores you but he's also scared to death that if you know how much he loves you that you'll take advantage of Him... so he'd rather just hope that his dedication to pleasing you will be enough for you to decide to keep him around.
    From the little you wrote I see myself. I may be wrong but... he loves you, he's desperate for you, and he's scares of losing you.
    Treat him gently but firmly.
    If you don't really love him the sooner you get out the better. But if you love him then you'll have a dedicated partner for life.

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  • I love eating my girlfriend out, but 3-4 times a day is a lot. As long as you're not bothered by it it's fine. For me, eating my girlfriend out makes me feel good as well, perhaps for him it's something he enjoys so much that it's really helping him to feel better.

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  • I can be good with it couple times a week. But daily? That would ruin my urge to get more. U can at least be pleased u must taste good lol but I'd ask what if he took meds bc I know men are not big fans of meds. I'd try asking if he'd at least try.

    I'd prob get annoyed too LOL

  • The last guy I was active with tells me he gets a lot of pleasure by seeing how pleasure I am by him, and so maybe same logic applies to your boyfriend? If you’re enjoying it, then it shouldn’t be a problem. But if it’s too much for you, yalls should have a talk.

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  • Damn girl sounds like heaven. Ya def some people get off in giving, makes him feel good to make u feel good

  • i don't see this as a problem, if he likes it and you like it then just let it happen 😌

  • It’s a good thing for you. I imagine it’s the same impulse that drives me to enjoy giving blow jobs. It’s a combination of pleasure from giving pleasure and a feeling of submission.

    • @sexymaria_a82 would you be into 69 oral with another girl? bottom or top?

  • I'm feeling kinda depressed too.

  • I think making you happy helps him with his depression.

    That's kinda how I was with my ex, making her happy always made my day.

    In this case it's him eating you out probably makes your day.

  • Because it gives him comfort. If you are comfortable with it, it's fine.

  • He likes eating your pussy out, he is obsessed with it

  • this is a good erotic story,

  • dirty fantesies 😂 i can't undrestant eating pussy ! at all. even if she sucks for me while driving or... any thing

  • Sounds like he really enjoys eating pussy.

  • Now I'm confused.. well yeah I like to do that too but still he's way too frequent... Next time he goes down stop him & try to calm him down first & then try to talk with him... Even though you like it I don't think it's healthy (psychologically).

  • Some men, like me love eating pussy. I can do it for hours. It almost seems like you were describing me. Lol. I enjoy giving oral more than I do receiving it.

  • It ain't wrong with showing love to someone.

  • Im in agreement with him I think it fantastic to do oral.
    I prefer doing it than using my penis.
    But if she wants it , she gets it as finishing off..

  • Some guys really like pussy and don't need anything else

    • Agreed, we spent the first 9 months of our lives trying to get out and the rest of our lives trying to get back in...😉

    • @Andres77 🤣🤣🤣

  • Maybe it really helps him but either way its a win win for you

  • Lucky you lol

  • I’m kinda the same way. Giving a girl oral sex does a lot for me emotionally

  • I’m the same as him, I could lick a girl as many times I could.
    Blowjobs are ok!

  • Going down on a girl is pretty much my favorite thing to do even more than sex. If making you feel good helps me feel good i can see why he would want to do that when he is feeling shitty. But find out what else you can do to help too if his depression is really bad.

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