Fellas, if a woman is quiet during sex, does that turn you off? Ladies, are you loud or quiet 🤫 in bed during lovemaking?

[Pinay_ako]

Guys, do you prefer her to be expressive?

[MrOracle]

With the exception of those times when you're visiting her parents, or camping with a bunch of people, etc., I definitely want her to make noise, talk dirty, and otherwise give me feedback. Facial expressions, gripping my arm/wrist, nodding - whatever form that communication comes in is good, but we generally LIKE and WANT those noises.

[sidhagain]

If she's passive, yes

[Pinay_ako]

Passive?

[sidhagain]

When she's not just quiet but also not active... As in just laying., minimal action

[Pinay_ako]

Oh like a corpse 🧟‍♀️? 😒

[sidhagain]

Lol... Not exactly corpse... Lol But yeah when she's not actively participating, it feels like a chore and is a massive turn off

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 Ik what you mean! 🤣 oh I hate that too!

[sidhagain]

You hate it? Like keeping yourself inactive or when your guy is

[Pinay_ako]

The guy 😂 like bro, grab me, throw me around, do something 😂

[sidhagain]

Lol... Looks like to like it wild

[sidhagain]

You*

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 is that bad?

[sidhagain]

Not at all

[JaxiCats]

I’m kinda loud especially for the fact that I’m not trying to be loud. He likes it, sometimes I wish he were louder. Hell when he jerks off he moans a lot which he has no clue it’s a turn on for me😳

[Pinay_ako]

I like to listen to a man’s sounds when he’s enjoying it.. it’s so sexy

[7Phoenix7]

It's really hard to be quiet, especially if he's deep or hammering. Only time I can be quiet is if it's a gentle love making session and there's someone who is in hearing distance.

[MTC29]

In bed or out, my SO can't stop talking for more than 15 seconds at a time. Silence would be golden.

[ObscuredBeyond]

She doesn't have to announce everything to the whole neighborhood, but she should be willing to communicate. I need to know if she needs something adjusted. I'm not a mind reader.

[spartan55]

That's guaranteed way to put me off

[Apple1996]

I'm more quiet during sex. It's easier to focus on the pleasure that way. I have no idea how these girls be screaming and actually focus on getting off.

[Still-alive]

it's more like they lose their focus and feeling immense pleasure that they can no longer hold back. i do dislike faking though if thats what you mean

[Apple1996]

@Still-alive I really don't think so I truly believe the girls that are screamers are the same ones faking orgasms

[Still-alive]

ehh in my experience i don't think so :P disagree

[Apple1996]

@Still-alive your a guy so you can't tell if she faked it or not. I've talked to many girls that say they moan and scream just so the guy will hurry up to cum and get off them

[Still-alive]

maybe initially i can't tell... but eventually ill pick up on it. especially communicating with her about how she liked the sex and all. i can easily detect lies if she truly didn't like something and just lying to make me feel better.

[Still-alive]

she also doesn't have to moan if she truly isn't like that during sex... its just kind of a bonus for me. if she tells me she was truly satisfied even though quiet. thats good still for me

[Apple1996]

@Still-alive a lot of guys think that but still 80% of women are faking it in bed. And I was reading a article just earlier today about how 100% of men think that they are good lovers 😂 I just be lmfao comparing those two percentages like obviously a lot of guys are failing and still think they are great. (Not saying you but like in general)

[Still-alive]

I wish it wasn't like that lol. i realy want the girl to be genuinely plased with what im doing. and if not to please communicate with me so i can switch things up. i think a lot of women aren't honest because they're afraid of disapointing the guy.. and tbh i think they do have reason for that as a lot of guys tie their ego's to their sexual performance... there really needs to be some kind of culture shift so a woman's sexual pleasure isn't soo... taboo i guess? like it should always be encouraged to speak up if a girl isn't liking something or wants something different in bed to get her off better.

[Apple1996]

@Still-alive it is very sad and girls just fake it to fluff the guys ego. And I think a lot of girls are so lost they don't even know what feels good to them cuz they focus to much on the guys pleasure.

[Still-alive]

yeah well one stone at a time i guess. i at least genuinely want to really satisfy a woman to her core lol. and i would not get hurt if she didn't like something. i will jsut switch to something else she likes instead. and also if she doesn't know still.. well im up for exploring too. lets discover together.

[mandyfire98]

I'm not a screamer but I do moan pretty loud and dirty talk.

[CubaPirate]

That's hot 🔥

[ZackBan]

Definitely less of a turn on. I like the breaths and moans and comments. And when she calls my name it's a dangerous move to get me to finish.

So I'd take quiet but would definitely prefer loud

[Faith18letsgo]

I’m not a guy but I am gay. Yeah when a girl is quiet it makes me worried because it makes me unsure if she likes what’s happening.

[PeteBy]

She starts off quiet but gets louder the more we make love and it's a massive turn on.

[NathanDavis]

I would find it odd, or unusual... never met someone like that a "ninja lover"

so I can't really tell how I would feel other than the idea to me sounding unusual

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Life is all about balance. If she’s ALWAYS too loud then it becomes repetitive and annoying. If she’s too quiet then you wonder if you’re questioning if she’s uncomfortable/ not feeling anything at all.


Soo the sweet spot is in the middle, no pun intended lol 🤣

[PositiveNote]

Yeah, I feel like when she is not communicating anything that nothing is happening!!! Seriously, it doesn't have to be a porn show where she's giving constant oohs and ahhs, but at least show me what is working on you! Tell when you like something or if I could do something related that works better!

[Bongem]

I like it loud, but only if it's not faked. Otherwise, seeing a girl enjoy what I'm doing gives me the greatest pleasure. The moaning is only a confirmation of that.

[rudedevon]

Whatever comes naturally to that person is fine with me. As long as she's enjoying herself and expressing what she wants it's all good.

[Wade12345]

Give some feedback, but no faking either. just be natural. faking would suck for both her and me.

[AviatorTom]

I prefer her to make noise and let me know she's enjoying it. But some women are quiet and you just have to pay attention to their body movements.

[sheikalana]

I'm more on the quiet side but not completely silent. This also depends on the circumstance if we're not home alone all he can hear is my heavy breathing.

[Finchie40]

Yes , her moans more than likely indicate that we are fucking her good and pleasing her , If she is quiet t can kill the moment and we feel like we are banging a blow up doll lol

[helva]

I am rather quiet.

[RavVid]

I like to get encouraging noises to guide me me but a lot of girls are fairly silent

[Pinay_ako]

Silent?

[RavVid]

Quiet as in not saying or making much in the way of noises. Very different to the breakfast scene in When Harry Met Sally.

[JessJJ]

I'm quite loud.

[Bigjake1019]

Ugh 😩

[CubaPirate]

@jessjj that's kinda hot 🔥 🥵