Fellas, if a woman is quiet during sex, does that turn you off? Ladies, are you loud or quiet 🤫 in bed during lovemaking?

Guys, do you prefer her to be expressive?

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  • With the exception of those times when you're visiting her parents, or camping with a bunch of people, etc., I definitely want her to make noise, talk dirty, and otherwise give me feedback. Facial expressions, gripping my arm/wrist, nodding - whatever form that communication comes in is good, but we generally LIKE and WANT those noises.

  • If she's passive, yes

    • Passive?

    • When she's not just quiet but also not active... As in just laying., minimal action

    • Oh like a corpse 🧟‍♀️? 😒

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  • I’m kinda loud especially for the fact that I’m not trying to be loud. He likes it, sometimes I wish he were louder. Hell when he jerks off he moans a lot which he has no clue it’s a turn on for me😳

    • I like to listen to a man’s sounds when he’s enjoying it.. it’s so sexy

  • It's really hard to be quiet, especially if he's deep or hammering. Only time I can be quiet is if it's a gentle love making session and there's someone who is in hearing distance.

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  • In bed or out, my SO can't stop talking for more than 15 seconds at a time. Silence would be golden.

  • She doesn't have to announce everything to the whole neighborhood, but she should be willing to communicate. I need to know if she needs something adjusted. I'm not a mind reader.

  • That's guaranteed way to put me off

  • I'm more quiet during sex. It's easier to focus on the pleasure that way. I have no idea how these girls be screaming and actually focus on getting off.

    • it's more like they lose their focus and feeling immense pleasure that they can no longer hold back. i do dislike faking though if thats what you mean

    • @Still-alive I really don't think so I truly believe the girls that are screamers are the same ones faking orgasms

    • ehh in my experience i don't think so :P disagree

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  • I'm not a screamer but I do moan pretty loud and dirty talk.

    • That's hot 🔥

  • Definitely less of a turn on. I like the breaths and moans and comments. And when she calls my name it's a dangerous move to get me to finish.

    So I'd take quiet but would definitely prefer loud

  • She starts off quiet but gets louder the more we make love and it's a massive turn on.

  • I’m not a guy but I am gay. Yeah when a girl is quiet it makes me worried because it makes me unsure if she likes what’s happening.

  • Whatever comes naturally to that person is fine with me. As long as she's enjoying herself and expressing what she wants it's all good.

  • Life is all about balance. If she’s ALWAYS too loud then it becomes repetitive and annoying. If she’s too quiet then you wonder if you’re questioning if she’s uncomfortable/ not feeling anything at all.


    Soo the sweet spot is in the middle, no pun intended lol 🤣

  • I would find it odd, or unusual... never met someone like that a "ninja lover"

    so I can't really tell how I would feel other than the idea to me sounding unusual

  • Yeah, I feel like when she is not communicating anything that nothing is happening!!! Seriously, it doesn't have to be a porn show where she's giving constant oohs and ahhs, but at least show me what is working on you! Tell when you like something or if I could do something related that works better!

  • I like it loud, but only if it's not faked. Otherwise, seeing a girl enjoy what I'm doing gives me the greatest pleasure. The moaning is only a confirmation of that.

  • Yes , her moans more than likely indicate that we are fucking her good and pleasing her , If she is quiet t can kill the moment and we feel like we are banging a blow up doll lol

  • Give some feedback, but no faking either. just be natural. faking would suck for both her and me.

  • I prefer her to make noise and let me know she's enjoying it. But some women are quiet and you just have to pay attention to their body movements.

  • I like to get encouraging noises to guide me me but a lot of girls are fairly silent

    • Silent?

    • Quiet as in not saying or making much in the way of noises. Very different to the breakfast scene in When Harry Met Sally.

  • I'm more on the quiet side but not completely silent. This also depends on the circumstance if we're not home alone all he can hear is my heavy breathing.

  • I am rather quiet.

  • I'm quite loud.

    • Ugh 😩

    • @jessjj that's kinda hot 🔥 🥵

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