First time anal?

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So my husband wants to try anal sex. I'm open to the idea but I've never done it before. What's it like? What should he do to me?

normalice · Accepted Answer

With first timers I usually put her on her belly and use my tongue to acclimatize a girl to giving someone else control of her butt, and to make it slippery. Then i dangle my cock on her butthole and reach around to finger her, let her wiggle on it so it only goes in as deep as she is comfortable with. If she pushes back then retracts I'll push forward on pace with her so it's never deeper than she expects. And the more she wiggles the more precum I produce so there's almost never a need for lube for first timers who typically go really slow - it's only after a girl is comfortable taking it all at once that lube is required. Though, I don't know if every guy produces as much precum as I do so maybe lube up anyway.

In any case he needs to be prepared for the possibility that he might not even get the tip in. If he's too eager he's going to hurt you and then you'll never want to do not again. But if you go at your pace it usually results in some of the most intense orgasms I've ever felt a girl go through. Deep anal is inevitable if he remains patient enough to make sure you keep enjoying the shallow stuff. Make sure he understands that.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

LUBE SIS LUBE YOU NEED IT AND GO SLOW and let him insert his finger first

Realistic07 · Answer

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Cof1412 · Answer

Like everyone else has said, lots and lots of lube. I'd also recommend working up to it over the course of a week or two. Get comfortable with him fingering your butt first. I'm not sure if you are into toys, but I'd also recommend next moving on and getting comfortable with having a smaller toy or butt plug inserted before moving putting in his dick. On the big day, you being relaxed is key. Sometimes alcohol helps with that, but also maybe make sure he gets you off orally first to relax you. You could also use a vibrator or play with your clit once he is in to help with your pleasure and keep you relaxed. Tell him to take it slow. He wants it, and it is awesome you are open to it. But for it to go well, he has to go slow. Hope you guys have a great time!

harvest · Answer

There is plenty of information about it on the internet. Do your research and prepare accordingly. If you do everything correctly, it might be your new favorite thing. But if you don't it might ruin the fun.
But above all, remember about two things - hygiene and communication! ;)

summiter · Answer

Get tons of lube. I have had anal twice at the request of previous girlfriends. Sure I had a good orgasm each time. However, both of my girlfriends afterward said that it was uncomfortable and that they did not come close to an orgasm... yes we used tons of lube. I prefer the front door anytime.

wankiam · Answer

you need lube and lube and more lube

LiamSawyer · Answer

Make sure your bowels are clear. An enema is not a bad idea, have him lube up a finger and slide it into anus, to help lube it in there and get it used to having something in there. Make sure he pushes a bit more lube in your butt hole and lubes up his dick real good, use a good water based lube such as KY or Astrolube. When he slides his dick into your butt he should do it slowly and stay still until your sphincter muscle gets used to his dick in there. The initial penetration is the only time you should feel any pain but no more then you would when having a hard bowel movement. He can then start slowly moving in and out of you. Some women achieve orgasm having anal. Take care and enjoy. Just make sure you're well lubed as there is no natural lube in there.

genericname85 · Answer

well first off, you should get into anal douching, so stuff is clean... cause if you don't, things will smell bad, even if you can avoid a complete poop disaster.

and then basically same as for first vaginal sex. go slow and careful. the only difference: lube is mandatory.

Orangesareyummy · Answer

Tell him if your pussy isn’t good enough to fuck off.

Amoose715 · Answer

No taco bell for at least 48 hours before. And he should buy you some jewelry after.

Twalli · Answer

Doggystyle is the best position for it. It requires a good deal of lube. You should also do foreplay with anal fingering or a butt plug. If it hurts, stop immediately. My girlfriend says it makes her feel like she's pooping or has to, so be prepared for that feeling. You may need to go to the bathroom later, because you still feel like you need to poop. My girlfriend and I got ready by anal fingering until three fingers at once were okay before trying anal for the first time. This took over a month (but we only met once a week)

darkcloud1945 · Answer

Lots and lots and lot of lube and sloooooooooow entry.

Valnac · Answer

That’s disgusting 🤮. All that fecal material and bacteria 🦠.

Waldoe · Answer

Lube up, enjoy, give you a "reach around"

nuqueunltd · Answer

If he really want it so bad. He has to learn how to eat your booty like groceries, first!

EaterPeter · Answer

Both of you it takes lot of effort. You want to be well dialed and lubed up. Lot of foreplay don't forget to breath do relaxing exercises. Do not give up too soon. It make take couple. of attempts. Same day or mostly days apart.

Yourman89 · Answer

Its tight lol deff use lube!

Yellovv · Answer

Do you have permission to do anal?

harry7825 · Answer

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