First time for Everything, I guess?

This is more a story than a question.

I went to the gym today, and like normal I went into the locker room to change. I stripped off my leggings (no panties underneath) then removed my sweater (no bra), so I was completely naked except socks. I noticed a few women looking but brushed it off. Put on my Sports Bra and my shorts then shoes and went to work out

1 hour later, I go back to the locker room, strip down completely and walk to the shower. Take a quick shower, then immediately hit the steam room. All while naked with no towel. After 10 minutes in the steam room, I get out and shower again. Then walk back to my locker and this lady (40 something) approaches me. She tells me that I look incredible and that she had a body that was very similar when she was younger. We chat for about 10-15 minutes while I was naked the whole time, then she left and I finally got dressed (pulled on leggings, put on sweater).

I didn't mind the conversation or interaction but it seemed odd that she approached me while I was naked instead of waiting for me to dress.

So I guess I have 2 questions now:

1st: When you change clothes do you remove everything then put new on or do you remove 1 item and put 1 item on?

2nd: Have you ever had someone chat with you while naked in a locker room?

I didn't realize until typing this that I completely undress before putting anything else on.

I'm going to try and keep track to see if this is my norm.
Updates:
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I'm surprised by how many people try to cover up, stay hidden, and do the 1pc off 1pc on method of changing. I could understand if it was a coed locker room, but this was female only so everyone has the same parts lol. I'll add another update after my visit today to let everyone know if I observe more 1 for 1 or completely off completely on changers.
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  • oh geeze why do I reply to this one. It is typical to remove and replace one piece of clothing at a time. Number two, you weren't wearing a bra and panties to begin with, as if you don't know people notice those so called little details. You may normal and totally comfortable stripping all the way first. Fine, ok. As we age we go through fazes. It feels good to be seen naked by others. Mildly taboo. Internally whether you realize it or not it had components that were sexually driven. And I suspect that you know that. Not too many women just walking around without bra and panties then completely stripping naked. How many women typically work out without a bra number one, secondly without panties. We all get crazy horny in strange ways throughout our lives but I get why you pose your question and you are not an innocent girl. It did not surprise you that a woman approached you naked based solely on the facts you provided. Keep doing what you're doing and you'll have plenty of girls approaching you naked in a public space. You would have expected this response from a woman. As a feminine crossdressing man with a girlish body, I've done exactly what you have in certain aspects in the changing room and steam bath. Enjoy a girl and explore. The way you did it is very very out there. Meaning you innocently but not so innocently put it out. You may had not been attracted to that woman , but you enjoyed the experience. Have fun

    • First off I usually avoid bras and panties as much as possible but I did workout in a sports bra. As for not working out in panties, that is just me. I've just never been a fan of panties and have been going without since I was about 11. I was just surprised how long the conversation lasted really and that she approached me while I was naked instead of waiting 2 minutes. I did some observations yesterday while at the gym and in the locker room. I'm surprised by how many people don't shower after they work out and even more surprised by how many take the time to change clothes without showering after working out. What good does it do to put on different clothes if you are still sweaty?

    • when I was in grade school and highschool we got undressed naked and showered naked... it was normal. That was about 1977 through 1988. Now everything is so hyper sexualized in THE USA. wearing shorts to take a shower. Good god. It wasn't that you just stripped naked, but how you included also not wearing panties and bra. Its nearly 2021. Mixed signals. You have a right to do what you do, but just don't expect different results. I'll still undress just like you. If someone gets their rocks off that so be it. Kind of turns me on if someone finds me attractive. Male or female. As long as they're not agregiously weird about it. Im not gay but I crossdress my feminine female like body. I'll be stripping down out of panties. Doesn't mean I'm there to have sex. Or little short shorts with no panties. Skirt with no panties just like you. To each their own and be yourself.

    • No bra and panties sounds comfy. Bet you get a few looks from guys in the gym once they realize that and wanna help you with stretches and weights haha

  • perhaps you are an exhibitionist and enjoy people looking. nothing wrong in that, maybe just a kink. or you may just be super comfortable with your body and self

    • I would say really comfortable about my body

    • That is a good thing, that you could stand there naked, have a conversation and not think about it till later. A lot of selfconfedence

    • It was strange but didn't really bother me

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  • 1st: When you change clothes do you remove everything then put new on or do you remove 1 item and put 1 item on?

    A: I guess it depends on where I am, recently it's been strip everything off and change as it's not been busy

    2nd: Have you ever had someone chat with you while naked in a locker room?

    A: I am bi so I don't mind it but it's rare for me to have a chat while naked in a locker room with strangers. I did have a chat one time with a hot black girl, she said she was straight but seemed to keep checking me out.

    • Thanks

    • Anytime Sarah :)

    • its nice to just strip and shower never had a problem I hate putting on clothing when still wet so i dry completely first then get dressed

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  • Me personally I would take off leggings put on shorts take off top put on sports bra so what I'm saying is I do one at a time. Question 2 no I have never approached anyone naked to talk to them other than boyfriend and or girlfriend I guess I should mention on bi. And if someone get approached me I think I would put a towel around me but have not experienced it.

    • Are you shy and modest? I just really didn't think to cover up because I wasn't expecting a long conversation and then after a couple of minutes I thought about it but didn't want to seem uninterested or rude.

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  • If I'm solo then yeah I'm naked, can't sleep with clothes on, but at gym I wear my gym stuff in aka put stuff in locker and go gyming, then take stuff with me and shower and change (cept socks and shoes) in shower cubicle and sit on bench dry my feet and put my shoes on

    • The only convos I have naked are back in school when we all changed next to each other (all of us wore undergarments) or with partners so never with a stranger before

    • During gym at school it was about 50/50 on under garments lol

  • I always completely undress then dress. I never take 1 off, 1 on, it feels weird. I've had women/girls talk while undressing, doest feel strange or uncomfortable.

    • Same here

  • same I get totally naked and then do everything and then get dressed at the end. I’m usually with my girlfriends at the gym though so it’s just what we do I don't know

    • I usually don't work out with friends, but yeah we completely have no problem getting naked together

    • How many girls do you workout with?

    • @getupandride around 4-6 girlfriends at a time unless there's a holiday coming up

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  • I just take every thing off and shower and put on new
    And yes I have

    • You look like you work out a lot too.

  • Wish it was me instead of her

    • No cap sexy story

  • i've always taken everything off but i think girls don't as much now because of all the phones

    • I guess that's possible but are there really girls/women who would take pictures in a locker room setting?

    • there are guys and girls out there who would do anything, and you never know why. maybe a girl's mad because her boyfriend likes you and you don't even know he does, so she wants to get nudes of you to embarrass you

    • I guess that is possible

  • I've only been nude in the locker room once, I usually get down to underwear, grab the fresh pair then change them in/after the shower.

    No one has talked to me in the locker room but I also dont look good yet so not a lot of reason for anybody to want to.

    I've thought about striking up a convo a time or too just cause I'm shy and keep to myself and I'm trying to force myself to open up, but I probably wouldn't talk to a naked guy.

  • Nudity does not bother me, I am a nudist.
    However, a LOT of people are embarrassed to be naked in front of other people. I think it has to do with their upbringing and being told that naked body should be covered.
    I like to be naked and would have no problem if someone approached me in the same way.
    Good for you.

  • Well I'm one of the many who don't strip all naked infront of other people (except my girl). I went to a bathhouse in Japan (an Onsen) where you had to strip naked completely before entering the hotsprings. The only thing you can take with you is a mini towel. I've never felt that uncomfortable in my life. All these Japanese men looking at my junk. I guess it's interesting to see a foreigner's dick. And it's not like I was enjoying the sight of naked men walking around...

  • Sarah (from Central Illinois), when I undress at the gym I take everything off first, that is if I didn't already have workout clothes on when I got there. As for the second question, I've never been approached by a stranger like that in a locker room when I was naked for an extended convo. When I was in school and playing sports we'd all be talking while dressing and undressing but it wasn't anything like what you described. In other words my teammates and I weren't standing naked in front of each other having a long talk.
    I suspect the older woman was a lesbian or bi and she liked what she saw, both with your clothes on and without. And it also sounds like you're comfortable in a healthy way with your body and might enjoy nude recreation in a nudist/naturist setting.

    • The thought crossed my mind that maybe she was curious/interested, maybe I will see her again. I'm trying to go everyday.

    • Yeah, and if you're bi it could possibly be a really good experience since you're of legal age.

    • I'm definitely curious lol

  • You must have been raised in a trailer park by meth head hicks, if you do not know such basic civilised etiquette in the locker room.

    If the there are stalls and booths to use - use them. No one needs to be subjected to your saggy sweaty body. If you need to strip, then you do so quickly and effectively without flashing everything in the others face.

    You should put yourself up for adoption, kiddo. Your parents were failures.

    • Sounds like you are pretty insecure about your appearance. I'm not flaunting my body. I'm just not hiding it

  • 1. Yeah everything comes off before I switch outfits.


    2. Yeah that’s pretty normal.

    • Just the first time it has happened. Usually a quick chat but she was really talking and I didn't want her to think I was ignoring her by dressing

    • Nah doubt it, you’re fine

    • She was dressed and I did look her up and down

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  • There is nothing wrong with what happened. The older women was simply appreciating The Creator's Art.

  • I am a get totally naked kind of girl

    • Doesn't it just feel right that way?

  • In a locker room, normally undress completely, shower, then get dressed. Guys normally chat with their buddies in the locker room whether they are dressed or not. I suspect the women that chatted with you was enjoying looking at your body as well as your personality and conversation skills.

    • Thank. I've just always noticed that most ladies tend to avoid being openly naked and definitely cover up more than I do

    • If you are not worried about it, keep doing what you're doing. If you have concerns, do what the other women are doing wherever you happen to be.

    • Not concerned really. Just being observant

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  • Yes when I get changed I take everything off

    Yes I have had a woman talk to me while I am naked

  • Wow. This level of confusion is astounding.

    • What?

    • You really are that dim huh?

  • I try to keep SOMETHING on , if at all possible.
    Congratulations on the compliment.
    Perhaps she thought is was kind of "required" that you be sans clothing so that you could admire the same body she was admiring, even if it WAS your own.

  • i dont honestly like chatting with naked guys in a changeroom or even in a shower.
    I normally get fully naked and then change in what i'm going to wear which if I'm at a swimming pool willbe my trunks.

  • I go naked then but on new and i have had chats with other girls in locker room at gym and even in high school we were both naked and or topless or pantyless no big deal same parts anfmd been young girls and older girls... and at home with family too we were all ok about it

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