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For the Boys, I have a question about blowjobs and hand jobs?

Okay I just had an amazing conversation with several of my guy friends. All they all pretty much agreed that it is easier for a college age guy to get a good/decent blow job, than a great hand job. They all said that for some reason college age women just haven't figured out how to give a great hand job. They also said they do it better their self. They all said the blow jobs feel amazing, but sometimes wish that girls could also give a great hand job. I honestly couldn't believe it. I don't know maybe it's just my area. I was hanging out with 10 guys and they all agreed on this. So guys please give your opinions and I am dying to know if there is any truth to this.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I love them both. And there is a definite technique involved. A blow job can feel good if nothing more than a hot, wet mouth on your cock. The intimacy, the vulnerability. That is not too hard at the basic level. Open, on, up, down. But I love it when you use your had as well. So a hand job only is a little more complex. Dont go too high or too low or you'll pull my skin. Dont grip too hard or soft. When you mouth is on me too, you basically can't do these. Also, you have to get it in a good spot. not to high or low. And more "finesse" with the motion, not just up and down. I guess a handjob takes a bit, or a lot, more technique and knowledge.

    Ok. Im going to take a cold shower now...

  • A HJ from a woman is a great experience especially when mixed in with light massage with some erotic oils or creams. My wife knows how to bring me to the brink several times before finishing me off. Some times she will do this for an hour or more, She starts with a lot of playing and licking and sucking of my nipples which feels erotic and relaxing. Then she will keep sucking my nipples, alternating each one while stroking me with many different hand techniques bringing me close to orgasm at least 4 times. I like her hj better than a bj

Most Helpful Girl

  • hm... thats sorta tricky. i think it depends on the dude + the chick. most are probably gonna say what ur dude friends said but i think there are some out there who disagree 2. like i said it depeneds on the dude + chick...:)

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  • I agree with them 100% sometimes a good hj is fantastic!

    • So do women tend to figure it out, or is that skill most women lack?

    • It's a skill all women can learn for sure... What they lack is stamina... See we men have been pulling on it since we were 10-12 years old so do the math on any guy and that's how much xperience he has on this... Most girls find it awkward to do this but it's the best way I feel to learn for girls... Stand behind your man or any guy that will let you tug one out on him and do the old reach around his waist and get some elbow-elbow wrist-wrist time in... You'll get the feel for it...

  • I would agree. Ask your man to show you exactly how he wants it done.

    • He broke up with me, so i won't be asking him anything. But when we were together I did ask him to show me how he liked it.

    • Its also how hard you grip it

  • i dont know about them but every time i get head they stroke and suck at the same time

  • hand jobs are the realm of masturbation. we have been jacking off for so long, we know our cocks well. use lots of lube almost to much. like the inside of your wet mouth. they will cum.

  • blowjobs are harder to mess up but handjobs can feel crazy good if they know what they're doing. only one girl I was with blew my mind with that. she was better than me!

  • Yes in my opinion girls give better blow jobs than hand jobs. I don’t know why that is, but most girls I’ve dated just don’t know how to give a good hand job.

  • Every guy would prefer a bj so that's why they said that..
    Handjob is a little trickier cause it all depends if he is circumcised or not and if he is circumcised is it a tight or loose circumcision

  • yes they are right normal handjob feels like we are doing it ourselves. a combo of hand and blowjob will work good for u now

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