My boyfriend got really hard just laying near me watching movie, I was hugging him and caressing his head and his face and his lips
Giving gentle kisses on head and cheeks
And he got hard...
We didn't continue sex stuff, but I saw it I wanted to comment smth like "wow babe?"
But didn't
Should I?
Or if no action follows, better not comment?
For like 90% of men it means action now. I assure if it was me I would of made the move on you. But then again if we were dating everything talked about leading up to that point would make it clear to you what my intentions were... so if you were not ready or comfortable about having sex then we would not be snuggling on a couch.
So if he didn't do it, then it probably means he was unsure if you were okay with him trying or not and if he really respects you then he would not of risked blowing it with you later. But even then you're 32 your not some school girl so he could done more, but at the same time you could of just as easily of said something... maybe that was all he was weighting for to happen.
Men get hard fairly easily. There's a difference between just being hard, and then being turned on. If you're doing stuff that makes him hard then he's probably also turned on, so a comment like isn't out of line. Really it depends on if you wanted sex yourself in that moment or moments like that.
tl;dr don't overthink it. If he's hard and you want sex or to make a comment, then make the comment. He'll appreciate your interest.
Wow thats interesting!!! Its different in women I can't be turned on and not wet Or wet and not turn ed on, in my body being wet=turned on always How does it work for guys. whats the difference hard and turned on I actually dunno if he was turnde on or just hard We were laying down and his head on my left shoylder and i hugged his head and was caressing his hair and face and his lips Giving his soft kisses on his forehead and cheeks
It's difficult to explain, so I'll use an experience almost every man knows: morning wood. As a man, you wake up most mornings with an erection. You feel your penis is stiff but you're not particularly interested in sex, you're probably worried about work, or wondering how the weather is going to turn out despite your penis being stiff as a board. Sometimes at random you can get an erection, though frequency varies by age. You may not necessarily feel turned on, like with morning wood your penis feels stiff and your pants tighter. I can't speak for every man, but when I'm turned on, I can't stop thinking about seeing a woman undressed, the firmness of her breasts, how red her face gets, the texture of her pubic hair pressed against me, and the sensation of feeling her hands dig into my shoulders or tickle my lower back. I also always have an erection thinking like this, and instead of just ignoring it until it goes away, my erection almost feels eager, like I need to use it. I get this warm tingly feeling around my neck, my heart beats a little faster, and j feel a bit anxious for skin on skin contact. Qualifying this feeling as more or less turned on depends on how intense this feels. So basically then: you almost always have an erection when you're turned on, but being hard doesn't mean you're turned on. A man's penis has a mind of its own and science still doesn't fully know why.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!We get hard way more than you think. I could have sex everytime i get hard, but thats not reality. I think it feels good to get aroused and just cuddle…my girlfriend has said stuff before, im cool with it. When my girlfriend says something, there's often a better chance for sex
Not always. Depends on the dude. They get hard every morning on queue
All guys are different, but speaking for myself here, when I get an erection I want to use it, every time. No exceptions. It does happen sometimes that I have an erection that goes to waste, that’s just part of life. But if I had it my way, every time I got an erection, sexual activity that resulted in a climax would follow. I’m not sure how your guy feels about becoming aroused as a result of your affection and things not going any further. But if I were you, the next time it happens why not go ahead and do something with it! He will probably not mind to say the least! ☺️
He probably thought you wanted to take things slow. I'd say it's likely either he's nurvous or really likes you
The number of times he gets hard thinking of you probably suggests action isn't necessary. He certainly wouldn't have stopped you if you had done something. Chances are he knew you knew he was hard but was cool with just being with you.
I woke at 5 that morning he knew im sleepy and tired
I love getting hard. 💞
You girl...
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I mean if he is hard you can take the opportunity to just give him a handjob or blowjob doubt he would complain and if he does then don't do it. Simples.
Sometimes, maybe not say anything, but then again, it depends on his ability to get a hard-on when you are getting ready to F^%$. I typically had 'hard-on' difficulty at the worst times, and I think it is not necessarily physical, but rather emotional.
Nice to have that kind of 'really hard' hard-on, at the right times LOLOL
Getting hard means almost nothing at all. You don’t have to have sex when it happens, it’s just nice if you do
in my opinion, if you're not gonna make use of the boner, don't comment on it xD
Why i can't ask? wtf
Ah ok sorry You mean dont ask Him?
yeah. it's like why turn him on just to end up doing nothing? xD that's mean.
It’s up to the guy to initiate sex. I notice most girls don’t initiate it.
It's not "up to the guy," it's up to whomever sees the right opportunity. I've had women initiate before.
One way or another he's going to want to cum so you could suck him or give him a handjob and then things would be calm for the movie after that, otherwise he'll just go jerk off afterwards.
I did nothing
Men get erections all the time. Of course we want something but most the time it’s fine. But I guess I’m use to it my wife will get me hard and then roll over and go to bed so I’m use to it.
Sometimes just being hard feels good but it sounds like you were really being affectionate and sensual so he probably got horny and yea its always nice and appreciated when a girl notices and says something like wow or oh! So if you wanted to you could go further but also he can do something back to show his interest
He caressed my thighs abit I didn't say anything he was a bit focused on the movie I didn't want to sound oversexual and be like ha!! your dick hard!! And then do nothing... i mean I guess im overthunking I just love see how he gets hard near me I love this power of mine haha I was just carwssing his hair and kissing his face softly not sexual Sensual
Yeah, a comment is definitely nice. If you put your hand on it and touch it, you can see how fast he wants action. My wife will sometimes stroke it slowly and gently. Not necessarily trying to make me cum, but just knowing that it makes me feel good.
I do that too generally But yesteeday i dunno why i didn't Now i wish i did I was a bit sleepy and he too So i dunno
Don't be so hard on yourself. You'll get him next time. Good luck.
I would want action if I was him
But why he got hard from head rubs and soft kisses?
Maybe because your attractive and it's really easy for a man to get hard. I get hard really easily
But get hard ways mean he wants sex? We both were tired tho But even tired he got hard
It depends completely on what movie it was. Was it the Minions movie? Please tell me it wasn’t the Minions move.
It was "Clark" series
Oh….
But honestly What do you think? Clark had lots of sex scenes
Most guys get hard when the wind shifts - often several times a day.
If you are determined to "take action" and can do so discreetly, then by all means do.
Its not necessary, tho. It'll go away in 10-15 minutes and then just pop up later.
Don't start something you don't intend to finish. If you want to be on his good side have the rule that if you make it hard you at least give a bj or hj. Chances are high he wants it.
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