Girls, why is a guy a creep if he’s sexually attracted to you?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think it’s creepy at all if a girl was attracted to me or other guys and personally tells the guy indirectly that he’s hot!
i think it’s hot.

but whenever a guy is sexually attracted to a girl, and he verbally lets it be known to her, she will always call him a creep, doesn’t matter who he is.
if he says something like “nice ass” or “damn ur really sexy”
the girl will always reply something like “🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮 what a creep”
then threaten to call the police claiming that he sexually harassed her, like wtf, why are you girls like that?
dont u think it’s a compliment when guys find you hot?
do you instead want us to act friendly like we’re jus your pal, but never let it be known we find you hot or attractive?
you want us to all act like work colleagues or something?

i think it’s inport for a guy to sexually flirt with a girl to let something possibly build other than jus a friendship... if we jus act friendly and chum like but do no sexual flirting nothing would ever happen... so why do you call us creeps or say we’re sexually harassing you when we make a comment like that?

[PrudentGuy]

I wonder if you agree with the following:

A) guys think, girls feel.

B) "sex" to guys = PIV; but to girl = love

Personally I think the above theories are true.

Hence when we act and react, as long as it's about PIV, and based in logic, then YES, that's sexy, not creepy.

But to girls in general, when a guy approaches, she starts to feel.

When a guy enters her mind and makes her feel secure, loved, protected, she wants the guy and WILL eventually offer sex to keep that "love".

But when he is perceived as wanting sex only, immediately her subconscious mind is, what happens if I got pregnant? If I gave sex will he leave me after that? What about my child? ... female instincts.

See the difference?

Hence to conclude, you raise a "male oriented" question, with guys not knowing how to answer if he only think masculine.

But if you replace every "sex" words with "love" words, then girls will have difficulty answering.

See my argument? Is basically our gender differences and instinct associated.

[padreflint]

It's how it is conveyed that makes them a creep. If you come across a woman you know just casually and say 'wow, you look awesome today', that will come across a lot better than slapping your hand on the table and going, 'damn girl your ass just pops in that dress'.

[Asker]

But let’s reverse genders here Your version is for the girl to say: wow ur handsome today Oppose to: damn boy, your looking sexy as fuck I think it’s safe to say most guys would prefer option 2... but to girls that’s creepy? I think they’re jus being snowflakes.. don’t know how to take a compliment..

[Asker]

Imagine if a girl called a guy sexy and he calls her a creep...

[Asker]

I think it’s human nature for guys to be sexually turned on by girls... I don’t think he’s a creep.. I think he’s a normal human being

[pink_baby]

if we're being honest its because

hot and confident = not creepy
ugly and lacking confidence = creepy

it shouldn't be this way but if everyone ran an experiment they would see this is true