Guys, do you ever use a girl just for sex?

[Anonymous]

Let's say there was a girl you had serious feelings for but you couldn't be with her (she is married) but you two are still very close and talk and spend lots of time together. And there is another girl you don't have feelings for but she is willing to have sex with you (knowing you don't have feelings for her). Would you do that?

[AndrésC64]

I was a little too tall, could've used a few pounds
Tight pants points, hardly renowned
She was a black-haired beauty with big dark eyes
And points of her own, sittin' way up high

Way up firm and high
Out past the cornfields where the woods got heavy
Out in the back seat of my '60 Chevy
Workin' on mysteries without any clues

Workin' on our night moves
Tryin' to make some front page drive-in news
Workin' on our night moves
In the summertime
Umm, in the sweet summertime

We weren't in love, oh no, far from it
We weren't searchin' for some pie in the sky summit
We were just young and restless and bored
Livin' by the sword

And we'd steal away every chance we could
To the backroom, to the alley or the trusty woods
I used her, she used me but neither one cared
We were gettin' our share

Workin' on our night moves
Tryin' to lose the awkward teenage blues
Workin' on our night moves
Mmm, and it was summertime
Mmm, sweet, summertime, summertime

Oh, wonderin'
Felt the lightning, yeah
And I waited on the thunder
Waited on the thunder

I woke last night to the sound of thunder
How far off I sat and wondered?
Started hummin' a song from 1962
Ain't it funny how the night moves?

When you just don't seem to have as much to lose
Strange how the night moves
With autumn closin' in

--Bob Seger

[SeekerOfBooty]

If she knows I don't have feelings for her, I'm not "using" her for sex.
We are just having sex.

So, yes. Of course I would have sex with her.

[Daniela1982]

So are you asking if you would have sex with the one who is available with no strings, or would you want the unavailable who had strings attached? Wouldn't it be prudent to go with the no strings attached girl? If you can't be with the other what other choice would be the better one?

[RearEntryGuy]

I did face a situation where we were negotiating monogamy.

She refuse because to her its short term.

So we ended.

[Asker]

What do you mean negotiating monogamy?

[RearEntryGuy]

This means we will NOT have sex with another from the day we agree until the day we decide to break. Hence we no need to worry about cheating. There is, so to speak, an "exit clause" where we can use when any of us want to have sex with another.

[DonkeyDan]

I'd need to at least have some kind of connection and attraction to her, even if its not "feelings" and as long as she knows its just sex then yes.

[Drumlin2001]

Not without her being aware that it's only for sex

[awkward_author]

I probably wouldn't do it unless I was desperate.

[gangster123]

Not just for sex, but can share feelings can be a good friend too

[Twalli]

Eventually the only person I will ever have sex with will be a married woman

[Cowboy6666]

Another single girl as my fuck buddy.

[notwoke]

yes of course

[OddBeMe]

O yeah. And for a relationship after.

[Ignace666]

no I wouldn't. but if she wanted to I would honestly tell her it's only for 1 time

[Badrhasan]

me like all girls to sex life happy with this