Guys mainly want to sext on here?

Lots of guys will slide into my dms talking about sexting straight away, and I dont mind sexting but I like it WAY MORE when I get to know the person. Seems like its the only thing on guys minds on here.
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  • I don't know about other guys on here , but the moment I read a good post I'm turned on , so to be honest I agree with you , so I look at it like this I can just masturbate or if I want or if I'm trying to do it with someone , then I look at it as if we are really going to fuck,, and the only way I'm goingbto fuck someone is if I like them or I know them and if I feel something from them so let's pretend something I thinknitvwas yesterday I answered one if your post I forget what it was about but I do remember thinking this girl is hot she is a lover she is beautiful every way what ever ur post was about it turned me on and it made me want to have sex make love ,, to you at and in thst moment so if I woukd have sent you s message and we started talking then I would want to feel you as a person I'm and empath And in 3 to five min of us talking I would be able to feel you and know a lot about you with out you saying very much at all and even tho your post made me more hornier doesn't mean I'm goingbto try and have sexting with u or phone Sex with you it means I feel you and if I like what I feel then I want to know you even deeper and I just let it play out and like I said to be honest it starts out as I want sex but in that Moment of getting to know you. I want to know all of you because when the times come you want to have it to them I need to be able to back my play and do it as if we were really doing it ,, I want to give you that feeling

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  • I mean no disrespect but you do attract them like flies to a candle. You can't publish the pictures you do and not know how attracting they are. My guess is your respondents are young...18-22. They have no finesse. They are used to instant gratification with minimal effort. They must think you are like them, and perhaps don't understand your culture. You are using your stunning looks as an invitation to connect beyond casual flirtation. Sexting (sexual flirting) is a lot more fun when you know and like each other. I would if I could but I have someone at home.

Most Helpful Girls

  • From my experience, this is extremely common on any online website where stuff like private messages are a thing, especially if you have a profile pic of yourself, it's really really annoying but trust me it doesn't only happen here. Best thing to do is ignore it and try to talk to people who might actually be worth your time

  • Yep, there's plenty of creeps and pervs here. If you don't care then I guess it doesn't matter but if you're genuinely bothered by it, you can change your profile settings to have a private profile and check the option so only members you follow can send you private messages.

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  • Your photo doesn't send the same message as your text here. Why do you use a photo covering up your face, but showing how sexy your body is? Like you are afraid to be seen or something.

    The perverts on here are sexting you because you're sending an "I'm a whore" message in your photograph.

    • She's posted photos showing her face and body a lot of times.

  • Not just here, but any similar site or app. Ignore it as best you can.

  • True women are more emotional want it to be personal, meaningful satisfy a woman's emotional side and you satisfy her mind body and soul, any one can have sex but making love is personal more meaningful as it should be always

  • It seems that way, for a lot of them, but most are really young, and clueless, and NO WONDER women aren't interested!! LOL!!
    But some are. To each, their own way, and not judging!! :)

  • Not sure why any of them would wast their time doing that.

  • I loathe sexting, myself. If there's no chance of cumming in a girl, there's no point in wanting to. And sexting only exacerbates how much I want to while also usually satisfying women enough to stave off any need they might have had before the sexting.

  • Look, don't be offended, but with all the questions and pictures you posted of yourself I'm not surprised.
    I even had to block you because it got annoying for your questions to always pop up in my feed, also because between the nature of the questions and the pics I wasn't sure if it was spamming advertising or something else - because frankly it seems to me that sex is the only thing you talk about.

    As for guys messaging you, make it so only people you follow can PM you. It will cut down on the pervs harassing you.

  • A lot of them I'm sure, but it can't be everyone.

  • guys want sex. humans are animals. its the luck of the draw. maybe go to their DMs instead and catch them when they aren't horny if possible.

  • Not necessarily, but the ones bluntly sliding in DM's disproportionally do.

  • From another question I read in the past you're the girl on here the guys are most interested in having sex with

    So congrats, i guess 🎉🎊

  • I can't agree with you. I also prefer more a nice chat and stuff over sexting. I wouldn't mind it, but I don't aim for it at least. It's more interesting to get to know people^^

  • think that varies from guy to guy but given loads of sex questions on here at times i wouldn't disagree lol

  • If it really bothers you that much make it so only guys that you follow can message you.

  • I don't send messages or sext with anyone here and I think most of the male users are the same. It's probably a relatively small group (15%-30%) of male users who are just shooting their shot with every pink account they see and by posting this question you're just going to attract more.

  • I hardly answer my dms.

  • Your not wrong, its unfortunate guys dont even try to get to know you first

  • Woah i thought people dont really chat in here so i never tried to text anybody... i just sent text to prolly 1 or 2 people i guess. And also I've got texts from few people.

  • Sexting only works for me if it just leads to that. I'm not just going to do it.

  • It's a typical characteristic of guys. Sex is always on their brain. Thats why they sext right off the bat instead of getting yo know you first and seeing where the conversation leads.

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