Guys while chatting with females about sexual stuff do you always hope it should turn into sexting?

Question

I always find it interesting and kind of exciting to talk about sexual stuff with men but I don't like to sext. And most men I talk to try to turn those conversations into sexting.

Syrian_survivor · Accepted Answer

No, that's predatory and just outright fuckin creepy and sociopathic.

I feel honored when a girl is comfortable enough to talk about such things with me, she trusts me and feels safe enough to talk about such sensitive topics with me, so throwing all that precious value away and seeing it as nothing but an opportunity to potentially satisfy my sexual needs is inconsiderate, selfish, ignorant, and creepy.

Don't get me wrong, I like sexting and I deliver well when I do it, but unless the girl shows that it's 100% what she wants from this conversation, I'll keep it entirely friendly, natural, and a comfortable and safe environment for her to express herself as deeply as she wants.

Make a lady feel SAFE when she's comfortably with you, not like a helpless prey who's unfortunately stuck with you.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I have done the same thing so it's even better is if both agree upon it I would send my number and you could block your phone number and call me that makes it even hotter on the phone because with the voice you can feel energy and emotion and it just gets very hot

Tyrael · Answer

I like talking about sexual stuff but I find sexting to be just embarrassing so I'd be happy not to do that.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nope  far more fun having a laugh

Red_Arrow · Answer

Some of those kind of conversations can be as exciting as sexting. If you talk openly and talk about your personal interests and kinks, an talk about your body without trying to sext, it can still be very arousing and fun to do. I have no idea how others feel about that, but I would enjoy that kind of talking.

normalice · Answer

No. I hope it turns into sex.

DonkeyDan · Answer

I don't always hope it turns in to sexting but if it does then great.

boggboss · Answer

In most cases yes if a guy is talking about sexual stuff with u hebisbdoing it in a attempt for more

RealMarek · Answer

Nope. I don’t sext anymore. But when I used to sext I would not try to turn a normal chat into a sext. If I was looking to sext I would say so up front.

_manipulator_ · Answer

Nope sexual stuff chating and sexting are two different things but when that sexual stuff chating makes him horny in anyway then ofcourse he'll hope for sexting. And at last hope is hope you'll will never know untill he will try to convert that conversation into sexting.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd rather it turn into sex!

ChiTown33 · Answer

Nope

Ironic_Method · Answer

I'm not that much into sexting. Might hope that it turns into something irl though.

Danish87 · Answer

Yeah it happens. But if she is open enough to act few things together as friend or something sexting won't be that important.

AD240pCharlie · Answer

Not really, especially if it's just an online friend. Not judging people who like it of course but I'm not comfortable sexting with someone I've never ACTUALLY met. However, I still do love to make sexual jokes and references so I'll still do that.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

I would always hope it could turn into more if I like her.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, I cannot lie.

Caliguy88 · Answer

I’d say usually. But a lot the sex talk is just for fun and seeing what people like and do. Also depends who. Some people I’m trying to get there with while chatting and sometimes it’s a surprise when it happens. Like, not expecting. I’m usually always good with it though.