Girls, Have any of you ever used the anal loophole when you were a virgin?

[NewUser22]

My first girlfriend and I did anal before we had sex. Subsequently she learned that she didn’t like it all that much after we started having vaginal so she took it off the menu.

[milknhoneyy]

The concept of virginity was made up by men as a means to control and dehumanize women. It's not a real thing and you don't "lose" anything the first time you have sex—anal or otherwise. You gain a life experience.

[PeachyPie93]

You lose your hymen and your dignity 😂😂

[milknhoneyy]

@PeachyPie93 girl that is not how hymens work...

[PeachyPie93]

It breaks so what do you mean?

[milknhoneyy]

@PeachyPie93 the hymen is not a magic piece of tissue that knows the difference between a tampon, fingers, a speculum, and a dick. Some women barely even have one, or have one that doesn't partially cover the vaginal opening (meaning it isn't a hindrance to penetration). And even women who don't fall into these categories usually don't experience a "pop" or "break" with their first sexual experience, but it usually thins and recedes over time. And even in the very uncommon cases where this kind of break does happen—it can literally happen while horseback riding. So no, the "cherry popping" thing is a myth.

[PeachyPie93]

My cherry was popped by my boyfriend and most girls usually bleed the first time. Sure girls can lose their hymen from other things besides sex but it isn't that likely unless you are smashing your pussy on things or shoving things in there a lot. The important thing isn't the hymen but the sex, you lose your virginity when you have sex for the first time and when a guy fucks you, there goes your dignity too especially if he don't love you. It was basically a joke because you are acting like sex is a thing that gains something, but really sex is only a losing game for women and always will be.

[milknhoneyy]

@PeachyPie93 I'm acting like you don't "lose" anything the first time you have sex. I said you are "gaining a life experience" because you literally are? There was no positive or negative attached to that so I don't know what your point even is. Most women don't break their hymen the first time they have sex, so if yours broke then you would be in the minority. The hymen method was literally created by men as a tool for objectifying and further oppressing women, and it's crazy that it's 2024 and some of us still believe it's a genuine biological phenomenon and not just a thing that happens to a relatively small number of people.

[PeachyPie93]

Yes you gain an experience but I guess because you obviously believe in sexual liberation I was just keeping things in perspective because you literally said "It's not a real thing and you don't "lose" anything the first time you have sex—anal or otherwise". But why blame men for oppressing women by valuing virginity? Sexual promiscuity is the downfall of humanity not only by women but men as well, but considering we are the gatekeepers women should do a better job then to give it out for free or without a relationship. The only reason less hymens break in this day and age is because masturbating, using tampons, using dildos. If you never put anything inside and don't hit your vagina on things like to fall on your bike or in gymnastics it would break from sex, else the expectation that you are supposed to bleed the first time would not have been a sign of virginity for all these years if it only happened to the minority, since the majority would not relate to it.

[LaurenM1997]

I wouldn’t go anal if it’s anything like constipation then it’s a no for me

[purplepoppy]

Every girls used the poophole loophole

[NewUser22]

Hahaha well said

[Abbycado]

Virgin... and nothing is going in my ass.

[NewUser22]

Not open to even a finger or a tongue?

[Jennz6]

@abbycado don’t let him put it up your ass 💯💕

[Abbycado]

Eww, a tongue? 😭

[NewUser22]

It’s the best!

[Abbycado]

No, no, no. Not in the fart hole. 😭

[NewUser22]

Haha I know it makes no sense but it’s so fun and sexy and in my experiences it’s never smelled or tasted bad

[Abbycado]

I guess if just showered. I still think that is very hygienic sticking a tongue in there. Eeeek.

[NewUser22]

I mean I guess it’s not for everyone but some of my best experiences have started with that

[Abbycado]

As long as she doesn't fart XD

[NewUser22]

Hahaha hasn’t happened yet

[Abbycado]

That is because we don't do that. Trick question XD

[NewUser22]

Haha that’s right. That’s why those tiny littke openings are so fun

[Abbycado]

It is just there for decoration.

[NewUser22]

Haha they are hard not to do more than look at.

[Abbycado]

Never seen mine and not curious to XD

[NewUser22]

Oh I would gladly volunteer to take a look at it for you 😂

[Abbycado]

XD I give up.

[NewUser22]

Hahaha I knew I’d break you 😂

[Abbycado]

The interesting stuff is in the front, bud. XD

[NewUser22]

Hahaha I agree. But I like to mess around with the cheeks too

[NewUser22]

When I say cheeks I mean what is in between them 😂

[Abbycado]

The, uh, "front" also looks like a small butt. Does that count? XD

[NewUser22]

Hahaha I like to think of a woman’s body as an amusement park. I want to go on all the rides.

[Abbycado]

🤦‍♀️ XD

[NewUser22]

😊😉

[NewUser22]

@abbycado sounds like your “front butt” might be enough to keep me away from your actual butt 😂

[PeachyPie93]

No if I had anal I wouldn't consider myself a virgin anymore, even sucking dick counts as bodies so I stayed away from that stuff unless we were serious.

[virtualwasp]

Loophole, you sound like me on shabbos 😂

[NewUser22]

Haha what do you mean

[AnnaKlugg]

No but I did lose my virginity and my anal virginity on the same night.

[NewUser22]

Well done! Lucky guy haha

[WindSwept]

Yes, not the only reason but def an important one

[NewUser22]

What were the other reasons?

[Jennz6]

Did she agree with it as a birth control method?

[NewUser22]

She didn’t want to lose her virginity quite yet

[KittygosMeoWW]

No I did no penetration when I was a virgin.