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He asked to cum inside me while he knows im not on the pill, what does that mean?

I like this guy but have no feelings for him. He knows that i like him ( i ones told him i have feelings for him but that was wrong, i really did thought i have feelings for him because i felt little sparks a couple times) i do want to built a bond with him and work into a relationship when the feelings kick in. He is attracted to me but is emotionally unavailable for a relationship right now (troubles in life) but told me in the beginning he was interested in me. Yesterday he took unplanned my virginity (really stupid, i know) , it was the 3th time he came over and spent the night till this afternoon, we cuddled almost all night while sleeping and he gave me a peck on my cheek when he was half asleep. He always kisses me goodbye before he leaves and during the day. This afternoon we had sex again (i tought it would not hurt anymore but it did, i get wet fast so that is not the problem and was not nervous). when he was close to cumming he asked if i was on the pill (im not) and he asked me if he could cum inside me. (he has 'babyfever' since a while before i met him).
what does this mean?
He doesn't care if i get pregnant or not? or He wants me too carry him child? or something else?
and
is is there a way he feels something for me since he is always the one who goes in for a kiss and he held me really tight while sleeping?
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we didn't use protection. he has a daughter of 4 years old which he really loves and he takes care of but i don't want to get pregnant of him. he cum on my back but i am affraid the pre cum got in and gets me pregnant. it already has been over 24 hours since the first time. should i get 'morning after pil' tomorrow (its midnight here) or am i too late now? is there any other option to be sure or to check if im not pregnant before its too late and abortion is the only option which im am against
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Guys and girls, but what about the cuddling part? At the beginning of the night i started holding him but after a couple hours i was letting go of him en slept with my back towarts him. So after another couple hours he lightly woke me to lay in his chest while he held me really tight with both arm and gave me a peck. The night after he asked me how i slept. (While have sex the 2th time he asked me to stop when i was hurting)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He's being an idiot and putting you at risk of being pregnant. If you aren't using any protection don't let him do that. And I don't know why he would risk that if he knows you aren't on the pill.

    I have dated girls on the pill and still found it to be uncomfortable finishing inside because I didn't want to risk her getting pregnant.

    • yes im now affraid the pre cum wil get me pregnant

    • I knew you were smart... Don't let people tell you pulling out is an effective means of birth control. It might work in some or even most cases, but condoms aren't exactly expensive or that big of a hassle. If you can't afford condoms or the pill, you certainly can't afford a kid. lol

    • @Lovelinefan yes i don't believe in 'pulling out' , it all happend so fast and unplanned. the next time (with somebody else when the time is ripe ill make sure to use a condom

  • He is intensely fucking you and cum inside is real pleasure and wildness in it, its your fault you let him fuck you unprotected, if you are not in pill you should not fuck or either use the pills after, in reality i think you both went with fuck flow and now after realizing all these things.

    • Thanks for selection sexy.

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  • GIRLS!!! JUST PROTECT YOURSELVES!!!
    This guy obviously doesen't care and I'm sure you don't want a child from him so please just use a condom, not just because of the pregnancy, but also because he's not your abitual partner and he could have some illness. Be smart, be safe.

    • Get the pill asap!!!

    • i will, thank you

  • IMHO I think it just means he's an idiot srsly.

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  • I hope you guys are using condoms at least?
    This sounds like a recipe for disaster, do not let him get you pregnant!

    • no we didn't :(

    • Come on, @Skysimone I know you know better. Time to take responsibility, don't mess around with this. If you get pregnant, your life will never be the same again. And it will happen if you keep rolling the dice with unprotected sex. That's not to mention the risk of disease! You're an adult, take responsibility of this situation and insist on condoms. Then he can cum inside of you, you won't get pregnant, and you won't be getting any STD's. And just in case, why not get on the pill as well as a backup? Kids are expensive and a huge responsibility... I suspect you know what you should be doing here, cut it out with the unprotected sex! Not trying to come across like an asshole, hope you don't take it that way.

    • yes i know, really stupid, having sex without a condom is not a option anymore i was thinking about getting on the pill but i always have a hard time keeping up with the times or taking it at all. im not planning on having kids anytime soon. and no you don't come across like an asshole, i think its really sweet you're taking the time to make things clear too me. thank you for your concern!

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  • "I like this guy but have no feelings for him."
    I stopped reading after that.

    • oke so why take the time to reply

  • he is being selfish

  • You barely know the guy don't have his kid

    • no i don't want too

    • good. don't lol.

  • He wants to be your baby daddy 😂

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