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He cums quickly during the first round but isn't able to cum during the second round?

I've had sex with this guy 3 times now. he's 19 and I'm 20. We hang out and cuddle and he gets rock hard from just being close to me and kissing on me. But he cums within a minute or two during actual sex. I can tell that he tries to be slow when he first puts it inside me, but he has to stop and start so he doesn't cum and he ends up coming really quickly anyway. The sex is still good for me and he makes me cum during oral, so I'm not upset about it. But he always apologizes and seems a little embarrassed. He tells me that my pussy is really good and very tight. He tells me that I'm the best at giving head. He says the sex is great and he always compliments me and is very sweet to me when we hang out. But when we try to do a second round of sex after he cums quickly during the first one, he can fuck me for a LONG time and still not cum again. He says that he is usually able to cum during the second round of sex.. why can't I make him cum during the second round? Do you think that maybe he just said my pussy was good to make me feel better?
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  • If he is reaching orgasm too soon, look into some of the duration sprays. I know Chi why makes one. The primary ingredient is lidocaine. It really numbs and reduces sensitivity to near zero depending on how much you use. If he uses that, and still reaches orgasm too early, it is psychological. He just needs to relax. And you should not judge him. You are turning him on immensely! Take it as a compliment! And if you’re not satisfied, tell him to go down on you!

  • How do you feel during the second round? Are you or him getting tired? Also, cumming multiple times a day is a lot easier if you don't in the days before.

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  • have him toss one off about an hour or so before you have sex, that might help out a bit.
    Maybe wait a bit longer for round 2, then he may be able to have a happy ending.

  • It isn’t you

    • And why does he cum so quickly? He cums during the first 2 minutes. I'm not upset by it, but I feel like maybe he doesn't enjoy it when he's cumming that fast.

    • Because he’s a piss poor lover

  • It’s a lot harder for most guys to cum the second time especially if the first time he cummed was so intense and satisfying it can take awhile to recover to cum again and it has nothing to do with your pussy not being good enough and if he can still fuck you for along time just enjoy that he gets hard if he didn’t like your pussy he would not be hard again your definitely turning him on with what you got if you want that second cum from him your going to have to work for it try something you don’t normally do to excite him he will cum

  • you may have to blow him the second time around

  • He could be numb by the time of the second round. 😗

  • Maybe you don't wait long enough. My girlfriend and I can usually have sex once every 8 hours. If we do it it more frequently I may not always be able to cum.

  • No it's good girl, just us guys take a little bit to orgasm again

  • This can happen to some guys it’s fairly normal

    • And why does he cum so quickly? He cums during the first 2 minutes. I'm not upset by it, but I feel like maybe he doesn't enjoy it when he's cumming that fast.

    • No he’s enjoying it. He may just be really stimulated so he cums quickly

    • Do you think he meant it when he said I have really good pussy? Do you think he cums so quick because I'm tight?

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  • It happens sometimes when guy feel super excitement

  • No I think it was his honesty of saying it is good. It could be that he can’t yk a lot the second time but I think he was honest with you

  • Nooo not at all... Men juss gotta get dat first but out n after it should be nothing bot play time juss sayn

  • It's casual

  • odd, 1st and 2nd and 3rd i cum pretty easy. maybe you just need to keep trying or get some toys and turn it up

  • Almost all cum quickly for the first round, men feel that a shame so that's why he give you a lot of excuses. But this doesn't mean he lie, because of he didn't like u, he will not try again and this isn't your case

  • Some guys are just like that. I last awhile but don’t cum much (volume wise). But I’m quick to recover and do cum again. Just never large amounts.

  • Well it does take a lot longer to come on the second round but if he’s 19 then it should be rather easy for him

    • Why can't he cum during the second round? He cums really quickly during the first round, but if i can't make him cum again after that, does that mean that I'm doing something wrong or that my pussy isn't as good as he says it is?

    • No it’s just him , he probably takes to long to recover

  • I am same like him. I cum extreme quick too in the first round. And in the second round it needs a lot of time to cum again.
    I guess it's the excitement that makes me cum so fast and after i let out the pressure i am able to go on for a long time

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