Guys, He's saying condoms w/ lube will prevent friction for first time anal?

[Anonymous]

i wanted to feel him raw because we have unprotected regular sex already. He originally said we don't need it. Now he's saying oh a condom will reduce friction w/ lube. P. s he's 35 I'm 19 so I'm inexperienced and I'm just wondering.

[Anonymous]

how ugly do u have to be to date a guy that old?