How can I get rid of sexual frustration?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I have been dating for awhile and we haven’t done anything (because she’s not ready) I’ve been understanding and I never want her to feel pressured into doing something she doesn’t want to do. Well yesterday we were kissing and touching each other and she wanted to stop so we did. I kinda got a little frustrated and I didn’t mean to show my frustration and it made her feel bad. I jerk off but it’s not really helping anymore.

[Leonharted]

All you can do is jack it, and understand that you aren't in control of when you have sex. If you can't deal with the frustration that builds from being affectionate, knowing that sex probably isn't going to happen, then don't put yourself in that situation.

[Asker]

I’ve tried not to put myself in that situation but once she’s kissing me and touching me around that area I just can’t help but get aroused.

[Leonharted]

You can say "I want to stop," too.

[Asker]

It’s so hard to say no but I really need to work on that.

[TonyV]

Like the other guy says stop putting yourself in that situation. Tell you don't want kiss anymore without it going anyway.

[emperor90]

All u can do is masturbate to relieve the stress

[Asker]

Maybe I just need to masturbate more often

[emperor90]

Yeah

[Asker]

She’s so worth the frustration

[emperor90]

I know the feeling

[Asker]

How long did you have to wait? So far it’s been 1yr and 8 months.

[emperor90]

Im still single