How could someone dare to be grossed out by sucking a man's dick?

Question

Today my best friend and I had a serious sexual conversation about giving a man a head, and she got very upset. We argued about what's described in the Q title. She thinks that sucking a man's dick is the grossest thing in the world and she'll never do it, while on the other hand told her how good it is. I told her that I adore giving my sucking my man's because it tastes very good and smells good too🤤🔥, and she thought I'm overreacting to this. Who's wrong in this? Me or her? 🤔

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

The word "dare" made me laugh REALLY hard. So thank you for that.

I don't think there CAN be a who's right on this. If I had to choose which of the two views In a sexual partner... I would say, obviously, that your view is the way to go. Definitely. I enjoy getting head, and given the choice, I'd rather someone who liked to give it.

BUT... your friend has just as much right to her own views on this. It's something that... if, for whatever reason, she finds "gross"... that's not WRONG. It's not ideal, from MY point of view (and most guys... let's be honest). Nevertheless, I don't think she's "weird" or "wrong" for thinking that. It's a to-each-their-own type of thing.

When it comes to sex... people's preferences and proclivities are of SUCH a broad range, you REALLY have to learn to kinda 'shrug' when someone has a preference (or aversion) to some particular sexual... well anything sexual really.

You're 25. Mark my words, as you get older, you'll see what I mean. You'll find out about some of the crazy, weird, random, unbelievable stuff some people are into. You will find some of it gross. FOR SURE. To people who are into whatever it is that grosses you out... you'll look just how your friend looks to you right now----like a prude to the point that it seems shocking to you.

Live and let live. To-each-their-own. :)

Nik1hil · Accepted Answer

That was "As rude as a prude."

1231prncss · Accepted Answer

There's no right or wrong. Its an opinion. You need to agree to disagree. You probably don't share the same taste in food as well as clothing. There Will always be some areas where friends do not agree. However neither of you should make the other feel poorly because of preference. You should not put her down for disliking the idea of giving head nor should she put you down for enjoying it. Maybe she hasn't found the right person. My cousin used to say sucking dick was "nasty" and "gross" but now she does it with current boyfriend because she genuinely loves and cares for him and WANTS to pleasure him. Now its a turn on for her. So I'd say you and your friend need to respect each others opinions about the topic and then drop it.

juliaanita · Accepted Answer

The very cool thing is that we are all individuals and are entitled to our own... uh... tastes. I think sucking a guy's dick is gross and humiliating. You enjoy it. Good for you. Good for me. Vive la différence !

chrissykerdock · Answer

you either love it or hate it when I was 12 I wanted to suck one badly and did... loved it each and every time I gave one

thegirlfromthething · Answer

It’s fine to think any sex act is gross or good. There’s no right way to have sex and there’s nothing wrong with having different preferences as long as everything is consensual.

razelove · Answer

Some people like giving head, some don't just like some people like being choked or spanked, and some don't. Hell, some guys don't like getting head.

Both of you are right, and both wrong. You're both right to do what feels good for you, you're both wrong to judge the other on that.

If she doesn't want a dick in her mouth, she shouldn't have to deal with it. If you do want a dick in your mouth, you shouldn't be put on blast for that either.

truthbeknown · Answer

I think you are more right and she is sorta wrong. I say this because it sounds like she hasn't even tried it, so it is unfair to have such a low regard of it. I think oral sex is pretty basic and for me it is a requirement. Also, I find her opinion of general male physiology rather insulting. Finding a dick gross just because it is a dick is the same hateful attitude as finding a person is criminal simply because of the colour of their skin.

MrNameless · Answer

Is she a virgin and/or does she like girls?

ImHere22 · Answer

When I’m getting my dick sucked, if the person blowing me enjoys what they’re doing, it’l feel amazing. But if they don’t really care for sucking cock then it’ll be an okay blowjob. I wonder what about sucking cock your friend thinks is gross? Maybe she had a bad experience giving head that caused her to be negative at blowjobs. I had an ex who told me she was really good at sucking cock & that she used to suck her ex all the time. But once she started giving him great head, he began demanding she suck him all the time. She was pressured into blowing him so much that she started hating doing it. He even made her suck one of his friends, and she really hated him for that. When we got together, she was trying to get back into it , but even then she only sucked my cock a handful of times. (Although those times were pretty freaking amazing. Even when she would lazily suck my dick, like while I was driving or while we watched a movie, she gave me enough of a taste of her skills that I knew she was holding back some talent).

Disclaimer: For a couple years in my early twenties I used to suck dick pretty frequently. I haven’t had any in years but it’s because I’m no longer single like I was when I was back then.

rudude · Answer

If you don't like it, don't do it. If you do like it, do it. Strangely, except for one or two occasions in my life, I've never asked a girl to suck my dick. They've all just pulled it out of my pants and put it in their mouth without asking me if it was okay. My question is: How did you start out? Did you just get the idea that you'd like to suck some guy's dick and knowing he wouldn't object, just put your mouth on it, or what?

Red_Arrow · Answer

To her it is gross, so she is right on that. To you, you love doing it, so you are right on that. No answer works for everyone. Just each of you be happy doing what you like.

MikeGaveO · Answer

Agree to disagree. People have different tastes.

summiter · Answer

Everyone has different likes and dislikes. Has she had sex before? Has she tried handjobs instead... guys love them also?

WarningWarning · Answer

Just my personal opinion, she is wrong. I agree with you.

Apple1996 · Answer

Sucking dick isn't gross but she's allowed to have her opinion

ZackBan · Answer

Well you like to suck dick that's all that matters here. As for her trust me if she's with a guy who wants it and can talk her into it she'll be having facials for desert everyday.

WhatTheHellAmy2 · Answer

She hates pizza! and I loooove pizza, all the cheese all over my face, oh yeah, I love to rub that shit on my cheeks... but she thinks it's gross. Why doesn't she like pizza? Am I wrong? is she wrong?

Pamina · Answer

You're talking about individual personal preferences and asking who's "right" and who's "wrong"? You're joking, right?

WhiteShoulder · Answer

I agree with you, but she’s entitled to her opinion.

abby712 · Answer

She probably sucks dick just wants to be seen like an angel

slatyb · Answer

Life is wet and messy. It seems more mature to accept that and enjoy it. She doesn't have to perform oral sex but her disgust seems a bit childish to me.

ManOnFire · Answer

She is way, way wrong lol. And you are super right. Made me horny when you said you like the way it smells. That's like how I'm obsessed with the smell big tits leave in a woman's bra.