"she told me that she didn't do hookups because it would make her meaningless and she only has sex with someone who she is dating seriously"
a lot of the time when a girl says that she is full of shit. What they often mean is "I don't do hookups ANYMORE" but she wants you to think she is the relationship type so you'll take her seriously.
Just tell her that you understand and respect that she wants a relrelationship but say that you're not looking for anything serious right now and would prefer to find something casual and that if she changes her mind to give you a call.
Don't seem to eager, put the ball in her court.
she'll either give in and call you within a week or she won't.
This way you aren't wasting your time or hers. You are being honest but at the same time you aren't chasing her or wasting your time on a girl you only want sex from.
If she doesn't call you and give in to fwbs then just find someone else.0 0 1 0Have a backbone, man. Date the woman or move on. Don't try to turn her into your personal whore! Grow up.
2 1 0 0Agree MHO
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1 3If she doesn't do casual sex, that may not ever be an option.
0 0 0 0then u can't coz da basis of friends with benefits is casual sex :)
1 0 0 0So all you want her for is to fuck her. She said she only has sex with someone she's in a serious relationship with, what part of that do you not understand? Why can't you respect her wishes?
1 0 0 0it's about coming to a compromise. i want to sleep with her, but don't want a relationship. she wants to fuck me but only if we're in a relationship. how can i get her to meet in the middle?
You can't. Don't try to make her compromise her values. If she's not good enough for you to date seriously, then you're not good enough for her to sleep with. Sorry.
just give it time and let things naturally happen.
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