Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health How do I control myself to not orgasm?
Caramelpie Xper 7
I’m so tired of having an orgasm so fast during sex or even simple make out. My boyfriend doesn’t need to do much work for me to reach it. Today earlier I had 4 orgasms during sex and It was good I’m not gonna lie but then I ended up getting upset that I’m not like those girls that need at least 30 min of foreplay or whatever to orgasm and they can enjoy making out. My boyfriend said I am being silly to think this way but Is there a real way to control myself longer?
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18 72Not sure how this is a big problem to you? ✨💕
You should go slow with him at first. Try some light kissing and ask him to massage you or you could massage him. That should help.
You might be annoyed at yourself but I assure you, his male pride would be swelling up which can probably strengthen your relationship.
I usually think of old cowboy movies.
How?
I think about one of my favorite movies. I happen to like Open Range. I run the fight scene over in my mind. I do it frame by frame taking time to slow everything down. I find that it calms me down so that I do not orgasm until I am ready.
" My boyfriend said I am being silly to think this way."
girl listen to your man...
He is right..
Other girls are fucked in the brain that doesn't mean you need to be..
If you orgasm easily its beautiful and you should orgasm more...
Women are capable of Multiple orgasms so do it.. With your bae!..
Have a great time..
You magnificent girl
Steady use of a vibrator inside will desensitize your nerve endings some, just don’t overdo it.
Why control yourself from enjoying sex?
Sex is meant to satisfy both parties.
You are being silly to think that way.
You won’t think i’m silly if you were in shoe
I am in a shoe, the biggest shoe, it's got so many buckles! I just can't even with all these buckles. Oh you meant a metaphor, yeah sorry no I don't see the problem, you came 4 times, why you no like?
It's usually more common that the guy doesn't last long. But my first advice would be to go in little bits. Break the session in smaller segments. Foreplay, then take a few minutes to cool down, then start again, and so on
Girls i have known only two times (max.) had a orgasm i have fucked him for a30-40 mins im last longer? Or not?
You're literally the only woman I have ever seen that complains about cumming easily. Lots of women have never even had an orgasm. Just enjoy the fact that you can, and I bet if he keeps trying you can multiple orgasm.
I already have multiple orgasms in short time but I want to keep myself in control. Women are different and those that can’t orgasm god help them what else can we do here? What I want is tips for controlling myself to enjoy foreplay and sex more until it’s time to release my body.
There really isn't much you can do. My wife is the same way, she usually averages 10 to 15 to my one orgasm..
Then ask him to eat your pussy for 30 minutes sometime and see just how many times you can orgasm.
Wow... just can't please some women...🤔
What’s the difference it will happen either way
Enjoy it... millions of women wish they could have your "problem".
I never said it’s a problem. I said i need tips on how to control myself to last longer on bed and enjoy foreplay, i never said i need to know how to stop having an orgasm
Ok... well, still... I'm happy for you that you can have them so easily. My brain just can't process why it's an issue so I'll leave you to your fun. Have a wonderful evening.
Thank u
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And this is an issue why?
I mentioned why. I’d like to have one big orgasm after being able to hold it for long during sex instead of orgasming in less than 1 min multiple times.
My past girlfriend always told me isn’t that the point to have one when you can
Depends
Yeah
There are ways, but your boyfriend needs to help learn them too. There's stuff on the internet and books you can read. You can do it !! The good news for you is, unlike for a male, you can have multiple orgasms !!
I don't know if women need as much of a cool down as men do, but if that was the case I'd be happy because I could play her like a fiddle.
True or not if feel like a sex god
You're lucky because a lot of women complain that they can't have an orgasm.
You are being silly. I envy the ability to be multiorgasmic.
Why’s that? It’s something normal but can be annoying sometimes
I have the opposite issue, where I don’t orgasm as much as I’d like. Anyway, read up on edging and intentional denial. You might find it insightful.
I think it’s great that you can cum so much…it means you like him and your chemistry is good. Trying to last longer is a mans problem, it’s probably a turn on for him that he can make you feel so good.
Start and stop when you're on the edge.
You're perfect. The same thing with my wife. She will cum in a minute. I love that.