Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health How do I control myself to not orgasm?
Caramelpie Xper 7
I’m so tired of having an orgasm so fast during sex or even simple make out. My boyfriend doesn’t need to do much work for me to reach it. Today earlier I had 4 orgasms during sex and It was good I’m not gonna lie but then I ended up getting upset that I’m not like those girls that need at least 30 min of foreplay or whatever to orgasm and they can enjoy making out. My boyfriend said I am being silly to think this way but Is there a real way to control myself longer?
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What Girls & Guys Said
18 72I dated a few women like you growing up. If you’re cumming from making out, obviously it’s your brainwaves doing all the stimulation because nothing at that point is touching you, right? Change the way you think.
You are silly to think that way. Some women never get a good orgasm. You are lucky.
The way you put it, it seems that it is more of a mental problem - comparing yourself to others - more than the actual act. I would say, when you're being intimate try to really concentrate on not orgasming. Like holding a sneeze in front of another person.
It just so hard to hold it. I am very sensitive and very horny by nature and any touch of my boyfriend would set me on fire and can’t go back from it. sometimes I orgasm in less than 1 min and sometimes it takes 1 min or so which is why i want to change it to last a bit longer
Why is it an issue for you? Girls can orgasm multiple times in a row, guys can't
Don’t understand why you would want to do what you are trying to do.
Some women never experience an orgasm and would probably enjoy being you. So why not enjoy your special gift?
Exercise
Daily or during sex?
Daily
I see. Thank you so much
You could try imagining that the person you're having sex with looks like Donald Trump. That should do the trick.
Eww!🤢😂
The start stop method and practice edging helps
Really? Any steps?
When you feel yourself getting closer to orgasm you stop any physical stimulation you’re engaging in (kissing, intercourse, etc) and try to think of something that you find un-erotic for a few seconds, this allows your body to come down from the sexual build up and then you start again.
Sounds great! I’d defiantly start working on that. Thank you so much :)
You might begin practicing while masturbating and then move that practice to included partnered sexual experiences
You’re extremely lucky, and I think you should enjoy it as much as you can! 😊
There is away, yes.
Its called Edging.
Do you know what is Edging Carameipie
it sounds ur really horny and have a high sex drive
I am
i u orgasm like men quickly u can do everything slowly then u will take more time
Embrace the orgasm !
Have more ;)
Pretend you're fucking your dad
Thats gross
But did it stop you from orgasming? Try it, once your about to use your blowhole think about it dude
Why? You are having fun!
Just cum to your heart's content, why would you be upset that you are having a lot of fun and pleasure?
I had this jewish chick who was just like you and it was awesome!
Why not? It’s fun but I need to control myself more and have one big amazing orgasm that will blow my mind out not many orgasms during sex.
Why one big is better than many small?
It feels different and more satisfying. I’ve had it before and I liked it so much. Your release everything at once and your body shakes uncontrollably and your mind explode and your heart start beating fast and you get butterflies in your stomach. It just amazing I can't describe it in words even if I tried to
And why is it better? I take so long that I frequently don't cum. It's horrible, not because of my pleasure but because I feel like I'm not validating my partner enough.
I’m sorry you feel that way
No need to be sorry, it's my responsibility.
You are very fortunate. There are wo en who have an incredibly hard time reaching 1 orgasm. You will find there are changes as you age and that will likely change for you.
Why do you want to delay orgasm?
I rather you train other women to be able to have orgasms like you.
Kegels If no one has mentioned them yet. Ben wa balls? Squats. Glute bridges. Start stop peeing practice. Anything guys needs to last longer. Train muscles around your vagina and anus region.
I can probably help more on how to do stop start peeing practice. When you go pee stop peeing in the middle you will discover it takes particular muscle to stop peeing you need to squeeze that muscle and let go 10 15 times. Start peeing again stop again do 10 15 reps. Do this at least 3 times a day.
Thanks for likes!
Lot of things are life style change. Do you pee in shower. Do you masturbate in shower? You folks use condom?
Most important part is I am happy for you. You are one unique woman. Orgasms can be a key to happiness. Or at least good relationship.
He may feel like he is giving you good. Hence he satisfies satisfying you which is very important I believe.
I guess that would be similar to ejaculating too fast, so for me meditation made a huge difference, since I took on practicing it I can cum whenever I want.
Why would you want to. Have as many orgasms as you can.
I think you are in the best position possible. Girls would be jealous of you