Generally speaking (this issue affects many men, but not all), this issue isn't really about whether you've had bigger than him, but whether you PREFER bigger than him. A lot of men have an extraordinarily difficult time accepting the idea that their significant other likes the size &/or shape of a past lover more than his.
"Baby, I love you. I just like my ex's bigger dick more than yours."
This statement represents a clear idea of what men, with this issue, deal with. It's no mystery women don't fully understand the psychological nuances involved with it, they just know it can, & often does, become an issue in a relationship. From that, men who deal with this insecurity, or anxiety (which is what I think he has), begin "blaming" themselves for something they never had control over.
He must retrain his mind, change his way of thinking. He needs to learn sex is more than PIV. There are numerous ways to please a partner, many which don't even require the use of a penis. He also needs to learn Mutual Satisfaction; he shouldn't feel as if sex becomes all about the pleasure of his partner. If his head isn't in it, he shouldn't be trying to have sex. On an intimate level, he feels inadequate, settled for, & emasculated. He needs to accept what he has, know there's nothing wrong with him, & understand that you PREFER ALL OF HIM. Otherwise, the intimacy will die, followed shortly by the end of the relationship.
Simple. 'female pleasure point is outside not inside in uterus, you do not need a long drill to please me OK! , just focus on outside and surface'. by the way is it 4 inches in erect or 4 inches when not erect.
4 inches when erected.
are you SURE? that can't be right surely...
I'm sure it's my boyfriend's penis I know.
You need to ask him to stop comparing himself to your ex, maybe you shouldn't of told him that about your ex... i have found teling a guy about any experiences even sexual that i've had with any guy makes a guy doubt me and act like a baby and besides... a guy doesn't tend to tell us much about their ex's ether so... i think we are even when we don't tell them about our past experiences ether. Tell him you just love him for who he is not his penis size and ask him what kind of an ass does he think you are? and why he is already judging you that you would act like other girls?, he's just being a baby.
I didn't know we will date someday by the time I told him :( And ok that makes sense. Thank you.
I guess it's a bit of a double standard because when guys tell us about past sexual relationships we are cool with it but if we tell them about ours they get all insecure lol
yeah cause NO guy wants to hear a girls ex has a bigger dick lol
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if a guy loves them, they dont care if he is like enrique or tom cruise, for them he is prince charming and they really don't pay much attention to pretty much everything else
I need to ask you honestly, though, whether you really miss your your ex in that dimension. There is a difference in feeling between big and medium-small. It doesn't bother you? You don't miss the big one. Truthfully?
I don't. Since my ex was my first one and it really hurt so bad, plus he's a fricking asshole and my bf is a nice guy... So truthfully I don't, I just happened to reveal that to my boyfriend when we were still just friends...
I didn't ask whether you miss your ex, just whether you miss his dick? why else would you mention it?
I mentioned it because my boyfriend's insecurity all start from the fact that he knows about my ex's dick. And no I don't miss my ex's dick it was huge it hurts me it wasn't pleasurable,
Well you could make him feel better by making love to him. Just saying
We do!
Hmm well tell him this its something II learned in sex ed tell him the vag can't efficiently take more than 6 inches sure it could fit but it could cause abnormal pain in the stomach regions causing women to have cramps for days so in this case smaller is a lot better than having to shove down more than 6 inches.
It's just a matter of going with the flow at this point.
He knows your ex was 8 inches, so whatever you do, say, compliment; hell never take it seriously because he'll always compare himself to him.
Put it in and around your mouth constantly. He'll get the compliment.
I did and he said "See it all fits in".
The man is blind. BLIND, I TELL YOU!
I am also a short round.
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Words can be hollow unless they are in context.
Savor it during oral sex and tell him it is the perfect size for oral, which is probably true. Easy for you to nurse on without choking or gagging. Prefer Cowgirl and tell him it is your favorite position and tell him a longer one would hurt.
Just slap him in the face and tell him he needs to just accept reality and stop whingeing about it.
Really depends... can he get you off? I have girls tell me that I sometimes hurt them during sex.. hehe... like its going to bleed when I make love to them... So maybe its not so bad...
No he cums way too early, but the sex itself was really good it just couldn't last long enough.
Hmm... that usually takes practice Id imagine... I usually do a lot of stop and go to keep myself from cumming. And just to fill time, I might rotate between penetration and cunnilingus so she doesn't lose a beat. And I dont have to cum just yet...
Just keep telling him how much u love him and how u like everything about him. he will get it eventually.
Just lie to him and tell him its big when in bed or compliment him a lot about his other features you like about him.
He'll know it's a lie...
Yeah so you could try the other one reinforce his other good qualities.
Tell him u got good girth than the previous ex one...
If he's insecure, nothing YOU can say or do will fix his insecurity.
The only thing you can do, is explain to him very simply that being insecure is a turn off and it will get him dumped.
You must present the negative consequences for his chosen course of action.
If he wants to mope, he gets dumped.
There is nothing you can do about this.
have you sucked those?
Yeah.. why?
tell him that his was better and it does work very well!
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