How do I convince my man that he doesn't have to feel bad about turning me down for sex if he's not in the mood or too tired?
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I was massaging my man on the bed. After he rolled onto his back. I press up to him to massage his shoulders. Not being able to resist (this was just supposed to be a massage) I started kissing and suckling his neck ears and moving downwards. I was half way to his navel when I realized he's rather still. So I looked up and I knew. He's not in the mood. He reached for my cheek and caressed my face and stroked my hair. "Not tonight" I whispered he shook his head "tomorrow we'll find time" I smile and kissed his hand. then I cuddled up and laid my head on his lap. We laid their a while gently idly touching but I look up and I can tell he's thinking. I ask "what" and he responds "nothing im just too tired" "its ok im fine" i tell him but he only half heartedly nods. And I know he's feeling guilty & I hate that. Now I feel guilty for having the medical condition called Hypersexuality. Its really not his fault for rejecting me. Well perhaps rejecting is too strong of a word. He gives me a rain check. He's the normal one. Im abnormal. He shouldn't feel bad. Yet I know he doesn't want me to feel bad either because he has told me repeatedly my condition doesn't offend him. He calls me crazy if I ask him if he's tired of me (as A joke I ask do you want to trade me in for a better newer model). he says I ain't trading you for no one and he's tells me he's fine with me taking care of my condition (I dont step out or stray and I dont sext others) I can masturbate without judgement. I can read as much exoticas as I need to I can watch as much porn as I need to I can write as much sexual things as I need to. He doesn't mind these things. he does understand the need. once he slipped up & admitted he worried he wasn't enough for me. ☹️Would you believe your partner if they tell you they are ok with being told not right now, later or tomorrow. And how do you convince yourself that your partner isn't tired of or overwhelmed by your sexuality.
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I just figured I'd add I am younger than he is We are 30+ years apart and once or twice in the beginning of the relationship he slipped up and admitted to worrying he would not be enough for me. he does satisfies me my issue is that I am just quick to restart And my previous relationships left me with some scars and complexes cuz they were not understanding and rather mean about my hypersexuality
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My first sexual partner was the meanest I was too young & too naive to know any better ONE (there was more) of his ways to deal with it was pushing me towards the side of the bed near the wall & making me face the wall he called it "time out for the nympho scank." He turned out to be a sick twisted prick.
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