Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health He is super sweet and I love him. But he only likes to gently make love. He refuses to fuck my ass even when I beg him. He thinks anal and fucking my face would be demeaning. I love him but want him to recognize that I need him to sometimes choke me and pin my ankles behind my ears and just take me.
I’ve talked to him and the way he reacts makes my scared to tell him some of my other fantasies. Maybe I’m not the perfect princess he thinks I am.
How do I get my boyfriend to be less nice in bed?
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6 28Talk to him about role play and a come up with a character for him that would be very dominant like a burger raping you or a guard in a women's prison and taking advantage of you. Or anything else along those lines and see what happens.
Need another boyfriend. He is a lost cause
Let him know if he doesn’t someone else will! That should. Motivate him!
Ask him to f*ck like a black guy. Call him a n-word during and how you love his giant black penis.
You love bbcs?
@boredguy007 yes. But my boyfriend is white.
Ohhh. Sure PM me
Maybe he needs a few drinks to loosen up
You may not be able to. Especially if you've already tried talking with him about it. It may just not be in him, especially if he's not into it at all, which it sounds like (think of something you're not into at all, it would be hard to do right?). You might be realizing how sexually incompatible you are. Something I don't think women especially take as being something "serious" in a relationship. It's very important. If he knows how you feel and how much you want it, then it's just not in him and he may feel that it's something he just can't "force".
just tell him you wanna be his lady in the streets but freak in the sheets
You're going to need to get a different boyfriend. He's not into those things and you're not likely going to be able to change that.
You came to the right place for answers.
I think maybe you should be honest with him and tell him outright what you want. It would be better for you and him to know who each other is completely.
If it happens that he is appalled and then leaves or creates an unrepairable schism between you two then is that not the best for both of you?
Except I would be heartbroken. He’s the nicest guy I have ever gone out with. Maybe I’m wrong to want these things
But isn't keeping this secret from him hurting him? He may perceive you as someone you aren't. Or maybe if you told him you two could talk it out and find some common ground. I still say honesty is the best option.