Guy I'm with is not playing with my boobs. What should I do?

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I (26) recently met a guy (29) on tinder and when we were kissing on our second date he told me that it's his first kiss. I could tell that he doesn't have much experience but didn't think of it much. On the third date he asked me if he can touch my boobs and he only touched them. I was kind of excited and hoped that he'd squeeze them and play with them but he just touched those. Would it be weird if I asked him to do it or should I let him figure it out by himself?

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Oh girl, when it comes to learning each other's bodies every person goes at their own pace! Some dudes are shy at first.

Since he asked to touch your boobs, it shows he's into exploring but may just need more comfort building. I say next time things start getting hot, gently guide his hands to show him what feels good to you. Something like "You can squeeze a little if you want." Said low and sexy will totally put him at ease.

Communication is so important, so don't be afraid to speak up about what you like. But go slow so he doesn't feel pressure. With a little encouragement I bet he'll catch on quick! From the sounds of it he really cares about your pleasure too.

Keep the vibe fun and trusting between you. With time and comfort level growing I'm sure he'll get bolder. Let your body language show your enjoyment too - that'll do wonders for his confidence. You got this girl!

b_lova · Accepted Answer

The next time you are making out, don't say anything, just grab his hands and guide him in how you want to be touched.

As a matter of fact if he is inexperienced and doesn't know what to do guide him as far as you want to go. And a great way for a girl to ask for sex is to present the condom or ask if he brought one. He will understand you are saying yes to his internal thought and will cease being shy about your intentions. But you didn't hear this from me.

Lowiu · Accepted Answer

Like two options he's simply an ass guy or second you say he's inexperienced maybe he just doesn't know whats normal and ok for you

Pillubi · Accepted Answer

Don't ask him, take his hand and put it up your shirt and squeeze it while still keeping your hand on his hand. He will get it.

Lliam · Answer

Ask him if he likes your boobs. I'm sure he will say yes. Then tell him how much you enjoy having them touched. Show him how to touch them by caressing and squeezing them and playing with your nipples yourself.
Once he gets the idea, tell him how much your enjoy having your nipples licked and sucked. Then give him positive feedback when he does it right.
Tell him how horny it makes you feel.
One girlfriend told me that the sensation went straight to her pussy.

MsProsperity · Answer

Don’t tell him it’ll be very weird. Take his hands and direct them to your boobs and squeeze your boobs using his hands, he’ll take it from there

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Buy him a coloring book.

Elliegirl · Answer

If I were in your position, I would ask him to play with them more.

EmmaMary · Answer

Ask him why... Simples!

strateguy632 · Answer

tell him what you enjoy

slatyb · Answer

Show him what you like. The experience he is lacking is knowing how to ask. If I were seeing you, I wouldn't know what you like but I would know how to find out, or I would make you comfortable telling me.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

You can ask him to touch them again if you want. He’s probably just nervous

AviatorTom · Answer

If you want him to play with your boobs, take his hands and place them on your boobs, then tell him how good it feels when he squeezes and plays with them.
Guys are simple... sometimes you just gotta be blunt.

Bricealan · Answer

For some reason, some guys are not breast lovers and I have been guilty of not paying them any attention even after she said: "I used to date a guy that sucked my nipples and got them hard, and then blew on them, and it felt sooooo good"

Even after she told me that, I was stupid enough or thoughtless enough to not do what she told me. ?🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤔🤔🤔🤔

LadyKitty · Answer

If you are gonna go in and have sex then you may need to tell him what you like and/or take charge if he is shy.

Tim2nice · Answer

Tell him your tits need attention. Be clear and firm in your communication and needs

David94358 · Answer

tell him what you want him to do.. use your words not your subtle clues that go way over his head.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

he's clearly not doing what he should be doing, and that is squeezing, licking, kissing and sucking and rubbing the boobs/the tits, hell if they were huge, what kind of guy ignores them lol 😂😆

Nikki1989 · Answer

You could try asking him, just an idea.

stratford · Answer

You'll have to bring the horse to water. Get on top and open your top, remove your bra and offer them to his lips, he'll soon get the idea. if he's very inexperienced, he might also cum.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Your call. You know how he would react.

hafinjun · Answer

If he's. Truly got so little experience , we'll someones going to have to teach him.

Still-alive · Answer

communication. talk to him. don't just hope he'll get it, you gotta actually tell him how you like it.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

he's obviously shy. why not encourage him instead? make them jiggle before he touches them again or motorboat him if you have to. he will eventually get the point

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